Women's Taboo Fantasies, Part 1. Same Sex Relationships. NSFW
My name is Chuck and I am the author of a ground breaking academic paper where I deep dive into the world of women's fantasies to include the darkest taboos. My information is based on having interviewed over 1,750 women with the average age between 18 and 35. So this isn't a representation of all women. It represents the youngest generation of adult women.
The results of my studies show much higher taboo fantasy results than all other previous studies for numerous reasons. In the past. All other studies were questionnaire style that are highly impersonal and despite claims of anonymity, a lot of ladies simply don't trust the methodology and simply will not disclose their true selves and most intimate fantasies.
I took a very different approach. I asked for permission to interview. I gave full disclosure that the interview was highly sexual and personal in nature. That alone was not enough. Early on I was asked to answer my own questions first. That quickly showed me the vulnerable state the interview is on anyone . Most people simply are not going to reveal their deepest darkest truths in a chat with a stranger. So I decided this has to be a fair exchange of information. Every question I ask you, I will honestly answer myself. I also had to set the stage and constantly remind ladies that I was not judging them under any circumstances.
My objective was to build and maintain trust. This methodology achieved just that. The purpose of this blog post is to start a series that explores in a much deeper setting, the actual fantasy lives of those interviewed that the paper simply didn't or couldn't cover. The paper is highly cited with references. Here we go into deeper detail though.
For instance. Studies conducted in 2018 show that between 50% to 59% of women have fantasized about being with another woman. My 2024 to 2025 results show approximately 85% percent have fantasized about same sex relationships. The number is even higher if you normalize the situation first. It's near universally normal once the setting suggests it's a normal function.
How do you normalize a taboo? Same sex encounters are still considered taboo in most areas of the world. By first citing a high rate of fantasy statistics, the person being interviewed quickly drops their guard and are mostly likely to give a very honest answer at this point. A common answer has been, yeah I've thought about it, to, well, it's just fantasy. But the question becomes; is this really just a fantasy? Or, are women willing to act on the idea. The number that first claimed it's only a fantasy and would never act on the idea change that tune under special circumstances.
It's a very common fantasy for women to want to be controlled and dominated. When I added the idea of a threesome where the man controls the action of both women? The tune often changed from one of fantasy only to yes, I would participate in that. To be fully straightforward at this point. It's impossible to say how many would and how many are just enjoying envisioning the fantasy of the moment. So another level of testing had to be added to determine the difference. For myself, I try to imagine the smells and tastes of a fantasy. If I am repelled, then I know the concept is just meant to remain as a fantasy and should never move into the realm of reality. I figured this is probably very universal. So I tested the idea. I was correct in that assumption. Once I asked a person to describe the woman they were with, what they smelled like, what they tasted like, the dynamics changed tremendously.
Those who only had same sex relationships as a fantasy would immediately request a change in the topic. Meaning they were now repulsed. Those who gave the most descriptive visions, were more interested in turning fantasy into reality. This completely changes the dynamics of how you collect data on human behavior. Bland cold questionnaires simply don't work. They are impersonal and fail to capture various naunces. You can't learn during the question phase as it's not live and personal. A live interview, you can quickly adapt and build a report with the person you are asking questions and having a conversation with.
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