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Africa Fashion Week London 2014: The Highlights, The Good and the Not-So-Good.
Africa Fashion Week London 2014 was a melting pot of fashionistas with a penchant for vibrant colours and bold fabrics. Everywhere you looked women were interpreting print in their own unique way and giving the leggy models a run for their money. This demanding crowd yearned for a fresh interpretation of the familiar patterns and prints; the designers who stood out were those who were able to bring something different to the catwalk.
(Picture Credit: Kayode Fashola Photography)
In my eyes, the catwalk collection that rose above the rest was Njema Helena. Her sophisticated pieces encapsulated the spirit of the modern African woman. With its clean lines, bold colour and attention to detail, Njema Helena's collection would be a worth addition to any wardrobe. Not only is the collection attractive from a commercial retail point of view, it is versatile and instantly wearable. I would happily wear each and every item in this collection and it is the sort of collection that can take you from work to a wedding.
Hot on the heels of Njema Helena was Sylvia Owori. The Ugandan designer's collection resonated with the crowd. All around the FROW were little bursts of 'aaah' and 'uuuu' not to mention the enthusiastic 'J-E-S-U-S' from the West African gentleman seated behind me. This collection underlined Sylvia's reputation as a fashion veteran. A collection with two or three robust ideas is always a winner in my book and Sylvia Owori's slashes of primary colour ensconced in a delicate but hardy fabric won me over.
RAAAH London made a valiant attempt with her collection. There was still some distance for her travel her collection varied from the outstanding to the misplaced. In a nutshell, Rahima Mohammed is well on her way to finding her voice, but she is not quite there yet. That said, her collection was instantly wearable; at least three of her pieces could go straight from the catwalk to the wardrobe. She also had my favourite dress- on the last day of AFWL2014 I left dreaming of the breezy teal dress...
Off the catwalk there were notable winners for me. I was entranced by Charity Kiarie, the brains behind Boutique Mahali. The Kenyan designer has such a clear vision for her brand; she knows who her clients and muses are, she is unafraid to venture in a different direction (for example she retired one of her jumpsuits because it was too popular and she wanted to shift her clientele into new territory- impressive!). One of her assistants modelled the reversible waterfall jacket (below)- unique details such as these catch the eye in an ocean of same-y prints and fabrics.
Other winners in my book were Gnostic Jungle. The moment I posted a picture of their print trainers, I had my (cool) friends from overseas rushing to their website to work out how they could get their hands on those shoes! Also interesting was Annaliese Dayes collection of funky socks or 'frills'. In the winter, a pair of studded socks would add an interesting twist to a pair of heels.
When it comes to the 'Most Valuable Award' of the day, there is one clear winner. Kiyana Wraps was buzzing with feminine energy as women of every shape, colour, age queued to receive tutorials on how to tie their statement head-wraps. Their dynamic skills brought to the fore their living, breathing artistic skills. Everywhere you looked there were pieces of art on women's heads.
In many ways, Kiyana Wraps plugged the gap for what I thought was a major omission at AFWL 2014. I will start with the sweet and sugary before I go for the jugular.
I cannot fault the catwalk shows, which were fantastic and ran to schedule. There were screens with the name of the designer (although they could have gone further with hashtags and twitter/instagram handles- wasted opportunity in my eyes), the catwalk allowed as many people as possible to have a good view and the lighting was great. A lot more could have been done to make the venue look beautiful and to make the venue more 'three-dimensional' rather than stalls, chairs, space and a catwalk.
Also, the sessions between the catwalks were poorly planned. There was a missed opportunity for workshops and seminars that would keep the crowds occupied in between shows and save the crowd from the agony of hanging about after having looked at the stalls five times over. I am bursting with examples of what we could have had between shows:
Natural Hair Workshops: AFWL 2014 was a playground for the natural hair movement. A workshop on hair-care, natural products one can make at home etc would have been fantastic. Yes, Motions was present but they are a business and are there to make money. What was needed was a serious of objective workshops that women could participate in and use that opportunity to learn new hair and beauty tricks.
Speed Networking: A huge number of the attendees have business interests and are well positioned. A properly run speed-networking event between shows would harness some of the energy that was buzzing throughout the show and would bring people together and foster those networks and add value to the price of the ticket.
Styling Workshops: I would happily sign up to give one next year if I was asked to do this. The audience who attend events such as these are interested in all forms of fashion... what to wear to work? How to integrate bold African prints in conservative work environments etc... Again another missed opportunity to work with an eager crowd
Skincare Workshops: Hands up to those of you who would attend an objective, not-trying-to-sell-you-anything skin-care workshop between catwalks.... Bloggers would be a great source of such information as they sample a huge range of products and can disseminate their knowledge before a willing audience.
Grumbles not withstanding, AFWL 2014 was a great event and I look forward to an improved version of the same next year. The clothes are excellent, the catwalk shows are great, all that is needed are the finishing touches to place this event firmly on the fashion map.
Ps: Look out for catwalk videos throughout the week...
Woman Crush Wednesday: Her Royal Fabulousness Chantal Biya, First Lady of Cameroon
With the Africa Summit underway in Washington DC this week, my #WCW this week is a no brainer. I am devoted to Chantal Biya, the First Lady of Cameroon, who is uncompromising when it comes to harnessing her fabulousness.
Chantal will WEAR and HAIR exactly what she wants. Her refusal to mute her unique sense of style in order to pander to society's perceptions of how a First Lady should look is the reason I adore her.
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Everywhere Chantal goes she steals the show, she is not afraid to push boundaries. When is the last time you saw a First Lady outshining Paris Hilton? Paris Hilton was soundly defeated by that bold monochrome combo, resplendent with spotless white Chanel handbag. Chantal dominates, whether she is mingling with Presidents or carrying multiple babies (and handbag!) for her charity foundation.
Perhaps you thought that Paris Hilton is small fry compared to the Pope right? His Holiness stood no chance in the face of Her Fabulousness Chantal Biya. Just one look at that fantastic hat with crucifixes is all you need to conclude that it was over for the Pope even before it started. My blogger friends Andrea Bohnstedt and Karanja Nzisa captured the emotion inspired by this hat: "...one look at that hat is enough to make your head explode..."
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Chantal Biya is the opposite of boring. Quite simply, anyone who has the guts to wear an orange weave to a meeting with the First Lady of the United State of America cannot be a boring person. Furthermore, there are hints that she is a woman's woman. Just look at her picture below with Carla Bruni-Sarkozy having a gossip and a giggle. Think how wonderful it would be to spend time in the presence of Her Fabulousness.
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(Eric Feferberg/AFP/Getty)- picture from Chantal Biya Hair Tumblr
Smiles aside, Chantal has a steely disposition when the situation demands it. Us mere mortals have been practising and failing at side-eye for decades. However, Madame Biya's gentlest look of disapproval is fiercer than your most fiercest side eye. Awesomely Luvvie called it when she said that Chantal Biya is a hybrid of Tina Turner, Chaka Khan, and Tina Knowles. Long may she live.
Picture from: Chantal Biya Hair Tumblr
I know little about her or her husband's politics or what they represent from that perspective. However, whether or not you agree with her bold look, Madame Biya undoubtedly represents the notion that women should be entitled to wear whatever they want whenever they want and should wear and do whatever makes them happy. In my mind I see Chantal celebrating and whooping when her shipping container of rainbow-coloured Chanel handbags arrives at the Presidential Palace. Her bold and bright look is 100% authentic and she has made it her own. That is my kind of girl, and an inspiration to women everywhere to live the truest version of themselves.
Ps: If you cannot get enough of her, there is more of her on this Tumblr page dedicated to her hair.
Woman Crush Wednesday #WCW: The Uber Stylish and Inspiring Mercy Ogole of MERCI ME London
Mercy Ogole, founder of MERCI ME London, is the stuff girl crushes are made of.
Mercy is the type of person you meet and want to her friend instantly. After I met her, I unashamedly friended her on every form of social media. The moment I tagged her photo on Facebook, another friend declared her instantaneous girlcrushness on this perfect stranger. Mercy Ogole has that effect.
In my books, a true girlcrush should possess talent, intelligence, style, depth and a generous spirit. Here are five reasons why Mercy Ogole is the perfect culmination of style and substance:
Talent: Mercy is bursting with talent. Mercy is a fashion designer and founder of MERCI ME London, a bespoke and ready to wear bespoke label. I met her at the press launch of her first fashion show in Soho a few weeks ago. I was simply blown away by her talent, her guts, the concept and her designs.
Mercy draws her inspiration from strong women; she wants her clothes to have a visual impact. She makes clothes that aim to make women feel better about themselves; clothes that encourage them to know themselves, embrace their sensuality and approach life in a bold way.
The collection was a healthy mix of strong and delicate; stiff fabrics combined with flowery ruffles and vibrant colours. The collection was tremendously wearable and any one of those dresses could have gone straight from the catwalk to the wardrobe.
With Adonica Simmons, Annaliese Dayes and Kui Bodes at the MERCI ME Launch
The fashion launch was an incredible achievement for a first time fashion designer. Of course, there were some delays and one or two misplaced items but I cannot berate Mercy for that. All in all, Mercy produced a fabulous show; if you would like to see a snapshot of it you can watch it here. I should mention that had I not sat next to the lovely Petronille Ekindi at a women's event by The Fold, perhaps I would not have discovered MERCI ME when I did- a very huge thank you indeed!
Depth: Mercy generously chatted with me at a time when everyone wanted a piece of her (i.e. just after her successful fashion show). I was touched by her softness and wistfulness when she spoke about her late sister, Eunice Aceng Ogole, to whom the ACENG collection is dedicated. In this collection you can sense Aceng's positive and energetic spirit. Aceng would be very proud indeed of her little sister.
Generosity: To top it all off, it turns out that Mercy is a volunteer at Smart Works, a charity that helps women get into employment by providing them with clothing, interview training and mentorship.
I asked Mercy how her collection would translate to those women who are simply looking for something to wear to work. Isn't this collection too edgy for your average professional women? Mercy took me back to one of her favourite designs- her Rose Jacket. In black it would be the perfect finishing touch in combination with a sleek pair of trousers and I was inclined to agree.
Left to Right: Mercy with Alicja Sobczak (an amazing jewellery designer who I hope to feature soon!)
Style: Mercy oozes style. Her Instagram feed is a stream of fashion consciousness and every time she posts a picture on Facebook I want to run home and change what I am wearing. Added to her innate sense of style, you have modelesque looks and a well-refined edginess.
Girl crushes of the world, watch out!
Check out brand new MERCIME Website here and you can shop the collection at Paradise by way of Kensal Green on Saturday the 12th of July 2014.
Photo Credits: A big thanks goes out to Kayode Fashola for the photos
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Photograph by Steven Klein; styled by Edward Enninful; W magazine August 2014.
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Woman Crush Wednesday: Kerry Washington, Lyn Paolo and 'The Limited Scandal Collection'
It might as well be Christmas.
My brain exploded when I read that we will soon be able to wear some of Olivia Pope's clothes. Not the actual clothes of course, us mere mortals will have to settle for The Limited Scandal Collection, which (I hope) will be a genius three-way collaboration between Kerry Washington (Olivia Pope), Lyn Paolo (Costume Designer, Scandal) and The Limited (Fashion Retailer). The line is coming out in September and all fashionistas who know their stuff will be sharpening their elbows to get their hands on the goodies.
Scandal is an American political thriller series starring Kerry Washington as Olivia Pope. Olivia is a fixer, sorter-outer and all round gladiator. Every woman who watches the show admires some of the more positive attributes of Olivia Pope; there is nothing more thrilling than a woman who is at the top of her professional game with a stunning wardrobe to boot. Olivia Pope truly embodies 'The Power of Style at Work'
The idea that we can all own a little piece of Olivia Pope and fire up our work wardrobes is thrilling. Not only is the concept brilliant, but the pricing strategy is cleverly targeted at the right market; namely the gladiators who might occasionally treat themselves to a designer pair of shoes but often shop at HnM or Target.
A couple of sketches have been released and I cannot wait to see the entire collection. I will be interested to see whether they successfully execute designer-like-items at high-street-like prices. The sketches got me thinking about my favourite Olivia Pope looks and I would love to see some of these recreated at a price I can afford.
Olivia's coats are always off the chain and I had all sorts of lusty thoughts about the Ferragamo coat on the right. While we are on the subject of coats, this Dior Coat made me want to sell my kidney...
What about Olivia's magnificent arm candy? She has more Prada handbags than anyone is legally allowed to own. I particularly love this grey Prada bag which would work with everything in my wardrobe and would accommodate my iPad, keyboard and the kitchen sink.
What are your favourite Olivia Pope looks? What would you like to see in the collection? Post your links below...
Arlissa Rupert in @Armani & @BottegaVeneta for @Instyle_UK. @ArlissaXX #WorkWear #WishList
Stylist Magazine Book Club: 5 Reasons Why Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is the Personification of Style and Substance
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is the person I want to be when I grow up.
When Stylist Magazine advertised their first book club featuring Chimamanda, I keyed in those digits faster than you could say ‘Americanah’. I also took a screenshot and sent it to my girlfriends without further explanation; no explanation was needed. Such is Chimamanda’s universal appeal that the Stylist Book Club waiting list had 500 names! For those of us who were fortunate to attend, it was an excellent experience. The crowd was as diverse as it gets and there were even a few men in the audience!
Image from www.ynaija.com
Like Beyonce and Oprah, I predict that Chimamanda is heading towards first name status. Here are five reasons why:
1) Her intelligent award winning books straddle subjects such as feminism, sexism, race and hair. ‘Americanah’ won the best novel at the National Critics Book Circle and she won the Orange Prize for Fiction for ‘Half of a Yellow Sun.’ Add to that list a TEDx Talk with over 1 million views. All this, Chimamanda has achieved at the tender age of 36. It is not easy to find words to describe Chimamanda’s genuine interest in people; she is the ‘realest.’ Watching her in interviews, it is evident that she brings her most authentic self to each situation, she does not try to alter or mute her responses. At the Stylist book signing, Chimamanda treated each person like they were special; listening to their stories, laughing with them and not batting an eyelid when one woman unleashed seven books from her handbag for signing.
2) Chimamanda is a bona-fide rockstar. When is the last time you heard a serious writer bringing feminism to the masses by way of a Beyonce song? If your brain did not explode when you heard her verse in Beyonce’s ‘***FLAWLESS’ then few things will excite you in life. Chimamanda was asked why she lent her voice to a song that is somewhat contradictory in places (‘…bow down bitches…’ vs Feminist verse). By pointing out that her collaboration with Beyonce brought feminism to a much wider, unlikely, audience (including her 11 year old niece) Chimamanda nailed that challenging question.
Photo credit: @GarconneLondon
3) When Beyonce wrote the song ***FLAWLESS she must have had Chimamanda in mind. Chimamanda is the perfect culmination of style and substance. How many people manage to dispense such useful life advice whilst fronting the most spectacular pair of blue heels? You could listen to her intelligent conversation all day including gems such as ‘…Strong women are not remarkable to me. They are normal…”. Or even ‘I don’t mind my own business ever!’ Chimamanda teaches us that there is no need to choose between style and substance; each of us can cultivate our own unique styles without detracting from our professionalism and expertise.
4) Even with her perfection, Chimamanda is not afraid to confront and discuss her personal challenges. At the Stylist book club event, Chimamanda said: ‘…life would be better if we talked about many things and one of them is depression.” It was refreshing to hear her touch on this difficult subject and place it in the context of her upbringing, where mental illness is downplayed and not given the attention it deserves.
5) “…It is such an honour to have the opportunity to bring Ms Adichie’s brilliant book to the screen…”
In the right circumstances, Chimamanda is willing to take her writing in a different direction. When I heard that Lupita Nyong’o, my other ‘most-perfect-woman-of-all-time’ had optioned the rights to Chimamanda’s book ‘Americanah’ I was blinded by the sheer brilliance of this meeting of minds. When you think about it, the first notion is obvious. Lupita IS Ifemelu and she will be sublime in that role. The second notion, that Lupita would option the rights and produce the film is sheer genius; and is a valuable example of what Sheryl Sandberg described (paraphrased) as building a better table instead of sitting at the table’ I cannot wait for this film to be made but I would be more interested in the process of making ‘Americanah’ the film. Afterall, who would not want to see Chimamanda and Lupita in action? Documentary anyone…
On my #workwear #wishlist this week... This green bag from @linea and this orange beauty from @warehouse. In at under £45 and just the right size for iPad, scarf and all other bits and pieces.
Cannes 2014: From the Red Carpet to the Boardroom.
Festival de Cannes is synonymous with spectacular frocks, dripping jewels and the heady whiff of glamour and glitz. Over and above the red carpet fashion moments, day-time photo calls at Cannes are an excellent starting point t if you are seeking inspiration for your day-to-day working wardrobe.
First up... Julianne Moore and Mia Wasikowska at the photo call for Map to the Stars. Julianne looks stunning in a Nina Ricci frock that would be perfect for a work meeting with on a hot day. Swap the strappy heels for courts and her look would go straight from the red carpet to boardroom. Mia's outfit is also office friendly and can be worn straight into work just as it is!
Next up is Spanish actress Paz Vega and I am obsessed with this Zuhair Murad dress she wore to the Grace of Monaco photo call in combination with her stunning pink courts. I would wear the look as it is. If you are worried about the low neck and/or the side panels, a simple trick is to wear a same colour/black slip underneath and you are good to go!
How adorable does Anais Demoustier look in her patterned shirt and nude skirt and heels? Or Sarah Gadon in her white shirt and flowery skirt? Yes to both of these looks.
(Pic from Just Jared)
Please, clap for Alba Rohrwacher, who is winning the price for the coolest red-carpet-to-office look. Even if I drank a whole litre of cool, I would never be able to muster such insouciance.
Finally, let us bow down to the one and only Nicole Kidman who steadfastly brings it when it comes to red carpet fashion.
She is stunning in a white Altuzarra dress and Elie Saab heels. Not only does it look comfortable and relaxed, there is a hint of interest with the slightly bared upper arms. I love it.
Red carpet to boardroom, here we come!
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J
Anna Wintour Costume Centre Grand Opening: A Masterclass in Power Dressing.
Today Michelle Obama, The First Lady of the United States (FLOTUS) officially opened the re-named Anna Wintour Costume Centre at the Metropolitan Museum of Art.
Undoubtedly, the best part of this fashion reunion was seeing the Vogue Editor in Chief, Anna Wintour cry. However, there is always something to learn when you have so many fashion heavyweights squeezed into one space; our lesson today is mastering the art of contemporary day time dressing.
Gone are the days of boxy power suits. We can all learn a thing or two from Michelle Obama, who looked stunning in this green and nude Naeem Khan sheath dress. The silk organza with embroidered green flowers is a subtle ode to spring, and the nude shoes and subtle jewels round this look off nicely.
Anna Wintour was perfection in textured Chanel (even she recognised that this event was no place for sunglasses!) The First Lady of Fashion stuck to her fashion rules: immaculately fitted clothes, jewellery close to the neck and flawless hair. Her nude heels completed the look and her grey mini-tote made me want to sell my kidney to buy one.
The femininity and power of this look means that you can take it straight from the runway to the boardroom. It is an easily accessible and translatable look.
Victoria Beckham kept it simple in black dress (?) with a chain to add a little bit of interest. Classic with a twist is a combination that always works in the office environment. However, if you would like to inject a dose of cool into your work wardrobe, or make it more relaxed, Jenna Lyons' wardrobe (she is so damn cool!), is a good place to start.
To round it all off we have Emily K Rafferty, the President of the Metropolitan Museum of Art in a striking blue and white dress (or is it a skirt suit). I do not know who it is by, but there is no doubt she received the memo! Emily Rafferty become president of MoMA after 37 years at the institution climbing up the ranks. She is the first woman to run the Met's day-to-day operations. I love stories about powerful women and these three are such an inspiration.
What are our take-aways from this fashion masterclass?
The Power Dress: A power dress can take you where no boxy suit ever will. How else do you get to combine power and style in your work wardrobe? All the dresses in this feature would not look out of place in the boardroom.
Texture: One of the themes running through FLOTUS, Anna Wintour's and Emily Rafferty's dress choices is texture. Texture is your friend, especially if you are not yet ready to take risks with colour. It is a great way to add interest to a wardrobe.
Fit and Cut: All the dresses here fit immaculately; Victoria Beckham in particular is the queen of 'fit.' Although FLOTUS is not averse to a sleeveless dress, all the dresses have sleeves of varying lengths which make them especially work appropriate.
Accessories kept simple: Both FLOTUS and Anna Wintour have kept their shoes simple which is a good call given the rich texture of their dresses combined with bling. A really busy shoe would have been too much for either of these outfits.
Finally, a power quote from FLOTUS:
'Those of us blessed with the opportunity to succeed have an obligation to reach back and take others along with us'
- First Lady Michelle Obama
Going 'Above and Beyonce' to achieve (Lu)perfection: Women of Colour and 'Power Potential'
This month has been a good one for women of colour.
This week, black girls and women everywhere saw Beyonce on the cover of TIMES 100 Most Influential People and Lupita Nyong'o named by PEOPLE Magazine as the 'World's Most Beautiful". When I say it has been a 'good' month for women of colour, what I really mean is that it has been a 'POWERFUL' month for women of colour.
The distinction is crucial. 'Good' on its own is not enough; 'power' is the ingredient that moves, shakes and shifts those tectonic plates to achieve eye-opening change. There is no doubt that these two women, and other game-changing women of colour, are high up on the power-metrics. The lesson we can all learn from these powerful women is how to harness our 'power potential.'
Beyonce
Let us start with Beyonce. Sheryl Sandberg said these incredible words about Beyonce:
"Beyoncé doesn’t just sit at the table. She builds a better one. Today she sits at the head of the boardroom table at Parkwood Entertainment.
In December, she took the world by surprise when she released a new album, complete with videos, and announced it on Facebook and Instagram. Beyoncé shattered music-industry rules — and sales records"
In these circumstances, insane talent is necessary, but not sufficient, particularly for women of colour. To make such a game changing move, you need to be powerful, effective and prepared to go the extra mile even though this involves taking risks.
What struck me about Sheryl Sandberg's quote is what she did not say about Beyonce's game-changing visual album. When the album came out, the thing that made my brain explode was the fact that she had created a 17-song visual album in SECRET, whilst on a SOLD OUT TOUR, with a TWO YEAR OLD baby in tow. If that is not effectiveness, then I do not know what is.
How does power fit into the equation? Power was the thing that meant that no one would consider leaking a single note of any tune in Beyonce's album. Power was the force that enabled Beyonce to tell the music-machine to take a hike and do things her own way. Beyonce was powerful enough to bear the risks and the responsibility of this new approach to releasing music albums. And boy, did she reap the rewards.
Ps: For all those who take issue with Beyonce appearing on the cover of TIME Magazine in her underpants, remember what she said in her album. She is a grown woman. She can do whatever she wants.
Lupita Nyong'o (aka Luperfect)
Having Lupita Nyong'o at the top of the 'World's Most Beautiful' is a huge deal, particularly for women of colour. That said, Lupita is much more than an incredibly beautiful face. Lupita's epic journey to the Academy Awards has given us a chance to experience her immense inner beauty, remarkable talent, eloquence and poise. This package of substance and style that 'comprises' Lupita is incredibly powerful because it reveals her potential to influence change.
I dare you to stay dry eyed after reading this acceptance speech Lupita made at the 7th Annual Black Women in Hollywood Awards. An exerpt of this is below:
"...When I saw Alek I inadvertently saw a reflection of myself that I could not deny. Now, I had a spring in my step because I felt more seen, more appreciated by the far away gatekeepers of beauty, but around me the preference for light skin prevailed. To the beholders that I thought mattered, I was still unbeautiful. And my mother again would say to me, "You can’t eat beauty. It doesn’t feed you." And these words plagued and bothered me; I didn’t really understand them until finally I realized that beauty was not a thing that I could acquire or consume, it was something that I just had to be..."
Lupita's power potential is evidenced by the sheer number of magazine covers she has accrued and the waves she creates on social media. When Ellen Degeneres ordered pizza at the Oscars and collected money from celebrities, Lupita dropped her lip balm in to Pharell's hat. The lip balm more or less sold out overnight. As expected, the big beauty brands took notice of Lupita's power potential. In April 2014, Lancome named Lupita as a new face of the brand ('ambassadress') making her the first black person to do so.
For women of colour, achieving such power potential requires not just incredible talent, but the ability to take risks and an inherent capacity to go the extra mile. All this has to be served to perfection, on demand. Lupita's performance as Patsey was nothing short of perfect, which is notable for such a challenging role. By joining forces with Micaela Erlanger Lupita found the stylist who could translate her personality into beautiful clothes; together they lit up the red carpet. Lupita surrounded herself with a good team to maximise her power potential.
Lupita's propensity to stand out, go the extra mile and to aim for perfection did not happen overnight. It is simply the way she is. While at Hampshire College students were asked to submit two films for an assignment. Lupita submitted five films. Lupita is the person who gives out gifts on her birthday instead of merely receiving them like us mere mortals. Striving for excellence is normal practice for Lupita Nyong'o. Through systematically approaching things in this way, Lupita Nyong'o has raised her power potential to stratospheric heights.
Kerry Washington
Kerry Washington also made the Times 100 list and Valerie Jarrett had this to say about her:
"...In a world that too often tells little girls to choose between womanhood and success, between femininity and a seat at the head of the table, both onscreen and off Kerry Washington embodies the promise that lives in all our young people to shape their own destinies and succeed as “gladiators” for the causes in which they believe..."
In her role as Scandal's Olivia Pope, Kerry Washington shows us that femininity does not have to succumb to power. The two elements can work in tandem; women can be powerful AND stylish.
The one aspect of power potential that Kerry Washington embodies is calculated risk taking. In her role as Olivia Pope, Kerry was the first African-American female lead in a network drama for almost 40 years. The stakes were high and Kerry Washington brought superb acting and elegance to this role. One only has to look at Kerry Washington's acting portfolio to recognise that she has the talent and going the extra mile thing down.
Adding to the recent gains by women of colour, Kerry Washington was appointed creative consultant and face of Neutrogena Skin and Beauty Products.
Jourdan Dunn
Completing the home run of achievements by women of colour is Jourdan Dunn, recently unveiled as the latest face of Maybelline Cosmetics.
In addition to being an award winning model and mother to a four year old son, Jourdan is not afraid to venture into uncharted territory by diving head first into interesting projects. She has an easy confidence about her whether she is hosting a cookery show on Jay'Z's You Tube Channel or appearing on Beyonce's music video 'Yonce'.
Harness your 'Power Potential'
So what lessons can we learn from these amazing women about improving our own power potential?
Aim for perfection by nurturing and refining your talent: Always strive for excellence in your body of work, whether this is in the professional context, in creative pursuits or in the sporting arena. This is the foundation of building your power potential, as portrayed by all the women featured in this article.
Going the extra mile should be the norm, not the exception: Lupita gave the performance of a lifetime in '12 Years A Slave'; she did not allow the fact that she had recently graduated from Yale to hold her back. Beyonce silenced the naysayers by breaking records with her secret visual album. Make it a habit to do more than you need to.
Be effective: This is the heart of raising your power potential. Look at all your internal and external resources and try to find ways to maximise your output. In every situation think about the patterns, the links, the distinguishing factors and always trying to achieve more than one goal with each undertaking you pursue.
You have to be in the game to change the game: Timing is everything. Beyonce did not attempt to release a secret 17-song visual album in the early stages of her career. Beyonce waited until she had built up and leveraged her power potential before releasing her game changing album. Lupita had a manager before she graduated from Yale; when the opportunity of a lifetime came up for her, she had the right set up in place to go out and get it.
Do not be afraid to take calculated risks: It is possible to do more than one thing brilliantly. Say yes to every opportunity chimes with your inner values and takes you out of your comfort zone, like Kerry Washington taking on the role of Olivia Pope. Closer to home, I attended a brilliant event hosted by The Fold where the keynote speaker, Barbara Cassani, said "..I do not know why people need role models in business. Just go and do it. Be the first one..."
Work with people who enhance and inspire you: Beyonce sampled Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie in her song '***Flawless.' Not only did she succeed in blowing minds everywhere, she converted an author into a rockstar. It is important to acknowledge and recognise the people who have bolstered and supported you.
Now go out there and harness your power potential!
x
J
PS2: A special thank you to Sasha Charnin Morrison (@SashaCharnin)- UsWeekly's Fashion Director- from whom I first heard the divine words 'Above and Beyonce.' Please follow her on twitter.
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