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i’m so tired of listening to myself think all the time shut the hell up bitch

3 types of self soothing thoughts

Validation: it’s ok that I hurt and want to feel better

Reassurance: I can handle this pain even though it hurts

Perspective taking: I’ve had bad days like this before and I’ve made it through them. I can remember my better days and know I’m not always hurting this much

icecream-eaterrr

I just heard this woman say “you procrastinate because you are afraid of rejection. It’s a defense mechanism, you are trying to protect yourself without even trying.” and I think I just realized what was wrong with me.

eupheme-butterfly

Yep, this is a very, very common reason for procrastinating. It’s also why procrastination, even though it’s often associated with laziness, is a fairly common trait in a lot of people with anxiety and perfectionism issues.

explicitcherry

uptional

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“Because I like your voice. There are voices that leave me literally tired. You have a most pleasant voice.”

— Virginia Woolf, from a letter to Vita Sackville-West c. November I928

yourbigsisnissi

You are in control of your attitude. Even on your worst day, you can treat people with kindness and respect. Going through a tough season is not an excuse to take that out on the people around you. Hold yourself accountable for your emotions and responses. And if you find yourself reacting negatively, be quick to apologize. Do not buckle down and let pride convince you you have a right to be a jerk. Own up to your bad attitude and apologize for projecting that on someone else’s peace.