fourth time's the charm

margo, she/it, tme, awesomesauce

[fatherwife]

hi! im margo!! <3

my daddy is @irramdiated, its a dyke and its cutes and it loves meeee :3

she/it, system ageslider, rlly autistic. kanna introject among other things. if u know me from outside this blog then nuh uh no u dont!! we collectively r tme + white + disabled + are on testosterone hrt in a girl way.

im not great at social cues and reply times, and im very anxious about initiating convos, so i promise if im bad abt this stuff its NOT u!! <3 i guarantee if u are also a princess or a forever victim or a dollgirl or a little sister or anything else, i love u and i love hearing from u <33

transfeminism NOW or i kill u, this is not negotiable, trans women are my friends and sisters. i love u transfems

men can hit on me if they prove they rlly like me first, weird and/or predatory dykes can do anything they want forever.

disclaimers: this is NOT exclusively a porn blog but it IS nsfw. + this is a blog about my real life risk-aware consensual kink dynamic w my daddy!! im in a grownup body, i can consent to stuff just fine!!

[tomb-mold]

im listening to this little thing called Music

[melonsnek--evildoer]

well im listening to this "little thing" called Women

[tomb-mold]

#Real

[loveandjoy]

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[wound-tree]

Pisses me off soooo bad that dudes still act like TME means transmasculine. It is such willful ignorance at this point. You have to be purposefully talking over trans women to convince yourself TMA/TME is “dividing the trans community” when they’re just helpful terms for trans women to discuss their oppression. TME means everyone in the entire world who does not experience transmisogyny. Barack Obama is TME. Sabrina Carpenter is TME. Every time you attack a transfeminist for using these terms you are participating in transmisogyny. and you’re a loser

[fatherwife]

next person to post some stupid "makes you think" bullshit psa about how diy testosterone is incredibly illegal/dangerous/difficult to obtain/etc is going to taste my fucking demon blade

[fatherwife]

being a system is so fucking fake btw. im curled up in a ball sobbing and 5 inches to the left of me in my mind theres just a dog.hey man can i help you

[fatherwife]

lately ive been under the unshakeable impression that everyone is merely tolerating my presence because they're too nice to tell me to piss off, but they're all excitedly waiting for me to become unavailable so that they can do the things they actually want without having to deal with me. unfortunately i have not had a single interaction recently that's assuaded this fear in the slightest. in fact every sign is pointing towards me being correct. how to make people stop being bored and annoyed with you

[fatherwife]

you can literally walk in and go "hey im having a panic attack so bad rn that im genuinely gonna hurl, im in acute and severe agony as we speak" and then nobody will. like. even acknowledge that you have spoken. not even like a pity "ugh that sucks im sorry." WHAT CAN BE DONE

[husbanddaughter]

hard pill to swallow here but. the normal number of people to have their accounts removed from your platform, without being given any warning or an opportunity after the fact to request any kind of appeal, based solely off of the false reports being made by open and proud bigots and serial harassers, is none. that shouldnt be happening to anyone. and it certainly shouldn't be happening almost exclusively to an extremely vulnerable minority demographic, to the extent that it is noticeable and verifiable that this is the case. and in the event that all of that did happen, repeatedly and consistently, for months on end without reprieve, recourse, or restitution, you should probably have a response a little better than "oopsie woopsie im sorry you feel like we're targeting u tee hee! but please feel secure in the knowledge that we aren't doing any of that ^_^"

[pizzaback]

if as a transmasc you want to be tall, then say you want to be tall. if you want to be feminine then be feminine. if you want to be thin say you want to be thin. if you want to be alt then be alt. if you want to have a penis say you want to have a penis. just say which physical traits you want to have (preferably on your own post) and stop saying you want to “have the gender” of whichever trans woman’s selfies you’re commenting on. her gender is female and you would explode if you had to deal with even a fraction of the things she’s dealing with

[pizzaback]

i’m sure i’ve said it before but i really think that when transmascs say they “want the gender” of whichever woman they’re looking at what they really mean is that they want to be a feminine person with a penis, which is both achievable and should be achieved, but projecting this desire onto trans women is pretty disgusting actually, considering those aren’t what qualifies her gender, she might not even enjoy having whichever traits you’re pining after, and you will not have and do not want her gender anyway

[fatherwife]

multiple of the closest people in my life agreeing that im really frustrating and difficult to do stuff together with and then laughing about it and then nobody addresses me for the next like 20 minutes as i go dead silent and start crying Ok thats really cool im going to kill myselffffff

[fatherwife]

being disabled sucks so fucking bad and it always feels like everyone is intentionally rubbing your face in it even when theyre literally acting completely normally. euuuhgh

[fatherwife]

u become friends w/ people over shared hobbies and then u become too disabled to regularly engage in those hobbies anymore and u cant, like, realistically be upset that ur friends are doing stuff without u. because they havent even changed their behavior at all! theyre engaging in the same passions that theyve always loved and that make them happy! except that it used to be something that You loved and that made You happy and u just have to watch ur friends do it without u now. of course ur friends are not doing something wrong or being malicious in literally any way at all but Ow

[fatherwife]

being disabled sucks so fucking bad and it always feels like everyone is intentionally rubbing your face in it even when theyre literally acting completely normally. euuuhgh

[fatherwife]

most age affirming experience ive had in maybe my whole life is where i got really high and went out to eat with dad and its partner. and i got to carry a plush around and cuddle it and i made the big people tell the waitress what i wanted to order. which is also what i did when i was ten, bc i had insane social anxiety and would cry if i had to talk to people... partway through i got a little too high and started mildly freaking it and dad got kinda annoyed with me but i also used to freak it in restaurants and irritate my parents when i was ten. so its still age appropriate behaviors for little girls

[boringkate]

You can tell a girl is really cool and tough and badass if she's hugging a stuffed animal. Only the most really badass babes hug stuffed animals.

[fatherwife]

my proudest achievement is getting a girl from being an egg to being on estrogen. my second proudest achievement is turning a different girl into a transage plural system. i will never stop until girls outnumber every other lifeform on this planet ten to one

[trans-bunny-boy]

TME transfeminists you need to start your girl-making journey now.

Start treating the unhappy "cis boy" friend — the one who prefers the company of girls and/or reacts to femininity in ways "other" boys don't — like the sweet, beautiful princess she is and help get her some cute dresses and estrogen.

And love and support her forever and ever.

Don't just leave everything to trans girls like we've always done.

[fatherwife]

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