Mars 🌸💫 @femmetastrophe - Tumblr Blog

i bring a sort of “you should maybe interrogate your so-called ‘preferences’ to make sure they’re not literal textbook examples of severe unconscious bias” vibe that my woke gay friends dont really like

#*ahem* “genital preference” lesbians *ahem*

vibribbonpsx

staff stop nuking trans women challenge

saltoncity

im not a girlblogger im an ADULT. im a WOMANblogger this is WOMANblogging

sen-thebootbimbo

All you cowards hiding fat butches and femmes and dykes in your likes, cause you don’t wanna ruin your “aesthetic” or whatever are fuckin cowards.

This thin, lean, jacked, “masc” standard y’all are obsessed with is a new thing!! Fat butches and femmes are the fucking BLUEPRINT in butchfemme! Fat butches built the fucking ground you walk on, and fat femmes strode it in heels and fringe.

Y’all need to put some fucking respect on the fat dykes in the world right now.

gaysun-deactivated20230205

trans women r essential to the lesbian community!!!!!!! there is no arguing w/ this, there is no gray area!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

prettyprincess-12

I have such a deep-rooted love and admiration for mascs and butches, and I don't even mean it sexually right now. How they speak, how they act, how they present themselves. How they can be rough and soft at the same time, tough and sensitive. How those pretty eyes adore the world around them even when the world rejects them. How they are trying to love themselves even when "society" and "patriarchy" tells them how wrong they are for simply existing the way they do.

I wish more people would stop treating them like men and expecting them to act like it. I wish we could stop for a second and realize masculinity isn't exclusively for men, you don't have to tie the masc presenting folks out there to strictly men. I wish more people would understand that masculinity is what feels right for them, is what they call "home" when the world around them feels too hostile, too out of the reach.

Kiss them on their forehead. Bring them water and little treats when they are overworking themselves. Buy them little trinkets and surprise them with small presents when they are down. Buy them flowers ans chocolates. Cuddle them and be the big spoon. Comb and braid their hair. Stand by their side when they feel like the world is crushing them. Bring them a warm blanket and pills when they are on their period. Make them feel loved and seen!!! Mascs and butches are not sexually fantasies on two legs. They are real people, with feelings, dreams, fears, insecurities.

busket

you can be pro plastic surgery and pro bodily autonomy while also recognizing that plastic surgery is an Industry that profits on making people feel insecure about their bodies, and often selling them quick fixes that in the end may do more harm than good.

like im a trans person, of course I support anyone who wants to go under the knife to change their body. Ive had top surgery, I've known people who have had FFS and are so happy with the results. but I also know that shady surgeons will insult you during a consultation to make you feel bad about your nose, your jaw, your brow, your cheeks, to make you pay extra to get those """fixed""". i know clinics will be happy to take your money to inject shit into your skin and lips and they'll tell you that it will cure all your insecurities; and it might for the time being! but they know that your self worth now hinges on how much money you can give them when your body overcomes the botox or when the filler migrates or deflates.

so get plastic surgery or cosmetic procedures if you want, it's your body! you should be able to do everything with your body that you want! but please PLEASE do your research, make sure your surgeon/practitioner is legit and has your best wellbeing in mind and not your money. make sure the procedure is time honored and tested, that it will hold up as you age, that it won't harm you down the line, that you won't regret it or have to pay more to get it fixed or reversed.

botanicalswitch-deactivated2026

may this kind of life attack me

juliasbored

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butchdyke12

I’m gonna rip out my uterus and burn it

Don’t need it, don’t want it

I hate periods :(

vamptits

I can't keep having the same conversations about love languages, mbti, iq, bmi, "brain fully formed at 25" and shit over and over again...

vamptits

these things exist on a spectrum from untrue to straightforwardly racist btw. so if we could retire them forever that'd be nice.

hareofhrair

“Love Languages” are just common couples therapy techniques mangled and repackaged by an unqualified homophobe. Relationships generally need all 5 love languages to be fulfilled, which is to say, everybody needs to communicate with, spend time with, and do things for their partners, and that’s got nothing to do with any special way you communicate affection.

MBTI has been proven completely ineffective at predicting anyone’s success at a particular job, and half the people who take it twice will get different results. Reputable psychologists do not recognize it, and the company that owns the rights to it uses it to scam people. People don’t adhere to strict binaries in basically anything. Very few people are going to be exclusively introverted or extroverted. It’s just astrology repackaged as pseudoscience. Shockingly enough, you can’t boil the complexity of the human experience down to a dozen Types of Guy.

The concept of IQ is flawed from the start— “intelligence” is an abstract concept that encompasses many different skills, from social intelligence to emotional intelligence to the very narrow kind of problem solving intelligence IQ tests generally measure for. It cannot predict how fast you learn, how much you know, or how logical and well read you are. It mostly measures how good you are at solving puzzles. Coincidentally, it’s also a pretty good predictor of income and education level, take a guess why. Most people’s IQ will change throughout their lives, because it’s inconsistent bullshit we’ve only held onto this long because we’re still kinda hoping we can breed the ubermensch. IQ tests and the way they attempt to categorize people are explicitly eugenicist and racist.

BMI was developed by a man known as the grandfather of eugenics, who first of all was a mathematician, not a doctor, and second never intended the formula to be used to categorize individuals. It’s intended to give a rough estimate of obesity in populations, and it’s not even good at that. It hangs around because of fatphobia and insurance companies who want it as an excuse to charge fat people more.

The study which determined people’s prefrontal cortex was still developing at 25… stopped measuring at 25. Evidence suggests your brain probably never stops developing. Stop infantilizing grown adults. This is a branch off from the larger mess of misinformation surrounding fMRIs.

If you haven’t put together what all these things have in common yet, here’s the moral of the story: STOP TRYING TO CATEGORIZE PEOPLE. STOP TRYING TO PUT PEOPLE IN A GODDAMN BIOLOGICAL HIERARCHY. EUGENICS IS BAD, AND WILL ALWAYS BE BAD, NO MATTER WHO’S DOING IT.