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A Text Induction
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Just read it, and don’t try to think about it.
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You will read this slowly, as to understand the meaning in all of my words.
Focus on my words, and only my words now.
Alright, just focus on my words and we shall begin.
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You feel as if the words are relaxing you completely and totally.
You feel my every single word taking you under.
A hypnotic spell that is only beginning with this relaxation.
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Feel them starting with your feet and ankles.
Your feet and ankles relaxing fully now.
Your calves and knees relaxing now as well.
Feel the words relaxing all of the muscles in you.
You can feel your thigh muscles all relaxing now.
All of the muscles in your legs totally relaxing.
You can feel them, so much.
You feel the waist area of your body relaxing now.
Your hips, and waist all relaxing. Everything from the waist down, letting go.
You feel this.
Now you feel your stomach and your sides relaxing.
You can feel the small of your back relaxing now.
It’s as if the relaxation is flowing up your body, filling you with so much relaxation.
Letting you go so deeply. You can now feel your entire back relaxing now.
Your back, shoulder blades… your sides… and your entire torso relaxing.
You feel your chest relaxing as much as everything else too.
All of your torso now.
Feel this…. My words massaging you so deeply into a hypnotic spell.
Now you feel your shoulder and arms relaxing now.
Totally relaxing now.
You can feel your shoulders relaxing…
your upper arms and elbows relaxing.
You can feel your lower arms, and wrists relaxing totally.
You can even feel your hands and fingers relaxing totally.
It feels so good.
Now your neck relaxing totally…
you can feel this so much…
you cannot feel anything but the total relaxation…
now even your head and face muscles are relaxing.
Also… you feel your body inside and out relaxing.
All of your body relaxing.
Your heart beating slower, and slower… like a peaceful sleep, beating so softly.
All of your mind is relaxing as well.
You can feel your mind letting go now.
You can feel your thoughts all drifting away now.
You can feel as if your thoughts are on clouds, floating away into the sky.
Far from your mind and body.
You can feel everything all going away.
Deeply going into a relaxing hypnotic spell.
Your thoughts all drifting away.
All of them leaving your mind.
No need to hold on to them.
You can feel your mind relaxing and shutting down.
No need to think. It’s too peaceful to think.
Just let yourself go now.
You can say goodbye to your thoughts if you like.
Your body continuing to be massaged by my words.
My words massaging your mind now, as well as your body.
You can feel everything just letting go now.
You feel this so much.
You do feel yourself going into a hypnotic spell.
Let go of the last of your thoughts.
You can allow yourself to go deep into my relaxing spell now.
Let the last of your thoughts go now.
Tell me when you have let them go.
Now, feel yourself deeply hypnotized.
My hypnosis is relaxing and peaceful.
My words will always massage your mind and body now.
Your mind clean and clear. Empty of thoughts.
There is no need to think here.
It is too peaceful to think.
No need to think.
You only desire to follow my words.
My words will guide you now.
I want you to allow my words to guide you now.
I guide you now. Very good.
Your mind is too relaxed to think.
There is no need to think.
You will not think, but only follow my every word.
You want to follow my every word.
Deeply hypnotized now.
My words massage your mind and body.
You will find that your mind is too lazy to think.
You trust my words, and love my words.
My words feel so wonderful.
You continue to go deeper and deeper into my hypnotic spell.
Your mind so weak and so lazy now.
Now, feel yourself deeply hypnotized.
My hypnosis is relaxing and peaceful.
My words will always massage your mind and body now.
Your mind clean and clear. Empty of thoughts.
There is no need to think here.
It is too peaceful to think.
No need to think.
You only desire to follow my words.
My words will guide you now.
I want you to allow my words to guide you now.
I guide you now. Very good.
Your mind is too relaxed to think.
There is no need to think.
You will not think, but only follow my every word.
You want to follow my every word.
Deeply hypnotized now.
My words massage your mind and body.
You will find that your mind is too lazy to think.
You trust my words and love my words.
My words feel so wonderful.
You continue to go deeper and deeper into my hypnotic spell.
Your mind so weak and so lazy now.
It will just follow my words and suggestions.
You trust my words. You love my words.
That is good. You trust my every word.
Everything I tell you is the truth.
Your mind and body feel as if my words are the truth.
Now, count down with me.
As we count down together, you will slip into a total and complete hypnotized trance.
As we count down, you will slowly slip under my hypnotic spell
10… Deeper and deeper into my hypnosis
9… Sliding into this hypnosis that you desire
8… sleepier and sleepier your mind
7… your mind so lazy now.
6… Your mind is empty
5… Your body so relaxed.
4… Being massaged into a hypnotic spell
3… Nearly hypnotized deeply.
2… Almost to the hypnotic trance you crave.
1… Giving in to the hypnosis now…
0… Deeply hypnotized now.
So deeply hypnotized.
So deeply entranced now.
You wish to follow my every word now.
You find it difficult to piece together thoughts now.
Your mind is so heavy, and so lazy now, and you know that you never felt that good before.
You love being in my trances…
and you do quite anything to read many more of my hypnosis.
But listen carefully to these instructions.
From now on, remember this word exactly as it is.
SLEEP. This word is your magical trigger.
SLEEP will instantly hypnotize you, just like you are now.
Every time you read it.
The moment you read my word SLEEP, you will be hypnotized deeply and completely.
My words will massage your mind and body again, completely hypnotizing you, the moment you read SLEEP.
Everytime you read SLEEP, the massaging you will be more powerful and everytime you read my word SLEEP, you will love to be in my trance more and more.
The first moment that you are hypnotized with SLEEP, you will tell me your first name and that you are deeply hypnotized.
You will reply to my every message.
Now, I want you to message me after you are done reading this message.
Tell me your first name, your age, your Skype username, and then type the following to me:
“I have been hypnotized by your words. Please, hypnotize me again soon.”
After you have typed this note, attach a few pictures of yourself, you send it.
You will remain hypnotized for 10 minutes.
In this time of trance, you will keep checking your inbox and comment box for more of my beautiful words. Waiting to hear more.
After 10 minutes has passed, if you have not seen new messages from me, you will continue with your day as normal, and you will feel a great desire to become hypnotized by me, and only by me, as often as humanly possible.
Now message me.
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#1號們認真的把這篇看完你就能當完美的男人了!!
怎樣做個極品1號?
有人會說,是男人就會做1,這是無需懷疑的,但能否做個好1,極品1恐怕就不是每個人都可以肯定的了。男人做1有其自身生理上的先天優勢(都是插入型),但同志性愛與異性性愛的最大不同就是1號所插入的並不是生物學中認可的專門器官。所以能夠做1不稀奇,關鍵是看看能不能做一個體貼,有很好的技巧,令0號感受良好性高潮的極品1。那麼做1號的,是不是越大,越粗就越好呢?是不是在做的過程中越用力,玩命頂就好呢?答案是絕對不是!這是因為,陰莖的快感來自於磨擦,而磨擦取決於與直腸壁的緊密程度、速度、抽插的行程,而不取決於力量。我們先從生殖器官的外形開始說起吧,生殖外形決定著你進入的方式、角度以及力量的方向。
彎刀型
生殖器官頭部上翹,用手全握時可以感受到陰莖的曲度變化。這樣的陰莖在插入時應把著力點放置於肛門下端,在龜頭觸及肛門括約肌時(感覺很緊的那一圈,不容易突破的那一圈)將身體稍稍上抬,使陰莖與肛門成小於90度角,此時龜頭的前進方向應隨曲度的變化向斜上方(即膀胱方向),慢慢插入。在插入後,切不可急切的前後抽動,因為此時由於陰莖的曲度使得與直腸的接觸面擴大,需要稍緩一點的時間來適應。此時最好靜止幾十秒鐘,待對方適應後,才可前後抽動。在抽動中應將對方肛門置於自己陰莖稍下位置,利用陰莖曲度來增加磨擦,給予對方和自己最大快感。
直粗型
陰莖頭部與軀幹直徑相差不大,龜帽未突出於陰莖太多,陰莖呈直線型,無曲度。這樣的陰莖在插入應把著力點放置於肛門正中央,但切不可直線推進。在龜頭觸及肛門括約肌時(描述同上)應調整力量的方向,使龜頭方向稍稍向肛門下端(向斜下方)推進。這樣可以避免過多的與括約肌磨擦,進入直腸腹壺部位。在插入後,可稍稍調整方向,讓龜頭方向向前方,開始抽插。直粗型是最常見的陰莖型狀,可以變換的方式較多。但總的原則是不可插入過深,以免使腸壁破損。一般來說,稍向下後位置,陰莖可深入一些,但正前方由於有腸壁阻擋,不宜於插入極深。
頭大身小型
陰莖頭部與軀幹直徑有差路,龜帽部位突出且較大,陰莖可分為彎刀型和直粗型,在插入時應將龜頭抵於肛門前端,切不可向肛門方向用力插入,會造成巨痛。應力向肛門下方將陰莖頭部擠入肛門接觸括約肌,此時應在馬眼部位接觸到括約肌後,應稍做停留,等對方適應後,再向斜下方繼續插入,要慢慢插入。進入腸壺後可再拔出一些,但不要全部拔出退出過程中感覺龜頭接觸括約肌時就可停止動作,再延剛剛的方向插入,慢慢反復幾次,就可以進行正常的抽插了。抽插方向參考上兩型。
頭小身大型
俗稱狗狀鞭,不管是彎刀型還是直粗型,插入方式及角度參考直粗型。因軀幹呈現逐步粗大,所以0號的快感來源自肛門(括約肌)處,在抽插時,就應儘量拉大抽插行程,以獲得最大快感。切不可直線插入,可稍向下方。同時也不適宜極深插入。
從肛門外型判斷快感來源
典型菊花型
肛門呈現典型的菊花型狀,四周粘模無隆起,無凹陷。肛門呈現長圓型。這是最常見的肛門外型。可以適應不同的角度及姿勢。一般以0下1上最為適宜。用力角度應向斜下方。
圓型
肛門呈現圓型,四周粘模隆起,類似肚臍的形狀與紋路。由於括約肌外展,此類肛門可以使1號感覺完全包裹的快感,同時也會使0號在肛門括約肌處較為敏感。故在插入時,適宜拉大抽行行程,滿足雙方。
內陷型
肛門呈現條型或長圓型,四周粘模內陷。由於括約肌較深,在插入時應參考直粗型。抽插的行程在此類肛門中不易產生快感,而速度是取得快感的決定因素。但0上1下姿勢,較容易獲得快感。這是因為括約肌由於肛門的內陷而較深,故需要插入較深才會產生緊包感,0上1下是獲得此類快感的最佳途徑。
從肛門位置判斷G點
肛門靠前
肛門位置偏向會陰部位。在插入一段時間,準備高潮時,可以改變插入方向,改為向小腹部進行斜上插入,此類肛門由於位置原因,不需大幅調整體位,就會較容易使陰莖接觸到前列腺,從而產生高潮。
肛門靠中部
肛門位置位於會陰一線的中部區域,在插入一段時間後,準備高潮時,可採用0下1上姿勢,將0號雙腿置於自己的雙肩,同時抬高0號臀部位置,使陰莖可以以斜上角度衝擊對方小腹(膀胱方向),力量角度的是從下向斜上方,從而產生高潮。
肛門靠後部
肛門位置位於會陰一線的後部,在插入一段時間後,準備高潮時,可採用0號肛門水平位置高於1號陰莖(不是0下1上,而是兩人水平平行),例如,0號可較低的床沿,1號跪於地上,或0號半坐在較高的桌子上,1號站於地上。由下向上大角度衝擊膀胱位置,可產生高潮。
1號素質要點
沒有0號就沒有1號
這是切記的,性愛無所謂吃虧與賺利,都是付出與享受的過程。應想明白這一點,能享受做0也可以做1的,才會真正懂得如何在性愛中令彼此達到極樂世界。
樂於口交,舌功出色
0號在插入後,一般是被動的,不可能再做出太多的動作,此時1號應運用自己的技巧,一方面抽插的同時,一方面用嘴,手或身體去給予0號全身心的快感。
舔肛
有的朋友不願意為0號舔肛,認為髒,其實只要事先清洗乾淨,是沒有任何問題的,因為用嘴並不能深入肛門。而插入前的舔肛直接關係到其後的插入質量與快感。
腰腹力量
做1號的最好先練好腰腹力量,可以靈活自如的控制速度、力量及方向,也才可以靈活自如的滿足各種姿勢對體力和技巧的要求。
有始有終
1號往往會先射精於0號(控制得好可以達到一同高潮)。由於性心理的作用,人很快就會產生疲倦感,心理也對繼續性活動失去了興趣。但此時若0號還未達到性高潮,1號有絕對的義務去幫助0號,滿足對方的性高潮。我想理由和原因自是不必說了。這已經不僅僅是1號的素質,而是人的素質。
事先清潔
龜頭尤其是有包皮的朋友一定要裏外清洗乾淨,包皮污垢會刺激直腸粘膜產生不良影響。
1號的花樣
很多朋友都喜歡在性愛活動中玩花樣,以尋求新的更強的刺激。但玩花樣也要區分對象和當時的情況。
1. 不可在剛剛插入時隨意擴張陰莖
有的朋友喜歡顯示自己的粗大,在剛插入肛門時,就用力勃起陰莖。若插入時已經明顯感覺到對方的肛門很緊的情況下硬行脖起可以造成出血及肛裂的危險。勃起陰莖的正確時機是在插入後停頓一小會,約數十秒,再行稍稍勃起,同時觀察0號感覺。若無不適,可再行勃起,以慢慢擴張肛門。但一般在開始抽插後再勃起就沒有什麼意義了,此時肛門已經完全肛展,0號不會再感受脹滿的快感了。(特別粗大的除外)
2. 不可將陰莖頻頻完全抽出肛門
有的朋友喜歡加大抽插的行程,以至於龜頭完全抽離肛門後再插入。頻頻這樣做會造成兩方面的不利因素,一是會讓空氣進入直腸。由於陰莖的插入速度很快,空氣進入後無法排出(既放屁)容易造成腹脹,腹疼,影響性交質量。二是括約肌神經頻頻受到刺激,會令0號產生不能忍受要大便的感覺,影響性交質量。正常的加大抽插行程的方法是感覺龜頭將抽離括約肌時再行插入就可以了。
3. 器具的使用
1號有的時候為了幫助0號擴肛,會使用一些器具,應注意要使用無毒、無害的醫學材料製造的。要表面光潔的。要無梭角的。手指不宜使用,比你想像的粗糙的多,會產生強烈便意。若有潤滑物品更好。
4. 左沖右突
有的朋友喜歡在插入的過程中不斷的、頻繁、劇烈的、大角度的改變插入方式甚至以陰莖根部為中心,在0號直腸內劃圈,以顯示男性的陽剛。諸不知,這樣會嚴重的加重0號的直腸破損情況,甚至導致穿孔和出血。喜歡這樣的朋友要掌握速度和幅度,直腸有彈性,但不是無限韌的。
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這個東西原本 是醫療用藥 但是屬於管制性
但被不當使用後 造成了很多社會問題
所以才被納入法律列為 毒品管制
Ice是啥 ?
沒錯 就是安非他命
安非他命 會強化腦中樞神經的感官機制
並且讓人產生亢奮 愉快的感覺
但劑量不當使用時
會出現幻覺 甚至是導致休克死亡
新進的嫩弟們 你是否有注意到之前的經驗 應
該有很明顯的發現 身體突然變熱
就是因為腦中樞神經 以經開始亢奮
促成身體所有細胞感覺變得非常活躍
五感的反映 變得異常的敏感及敏銳
所以 變的非常的直覺 只要彼此頻率玩法一對
身體的五感 就會放大原本的感覺
輕輕被碰奶頭 竟然會有促電酥麻的FU
被舔穴 竟然會不自覺的開合
希望被手指深探 被屌填滿深頂
會迷戀擁抱 接吻 ……很多 很多的作愛感覺
突然爽度都加乘上翻 變的極度的爽快
就是這個原因
但也因為 享受的主控者是來自身體的反應
所以人在那當下 就會變得很動物生理直覺
也因為這樣 有放大爽快愉悅的明顯效果
有沒有發現 你在HIFUN的經驗中
你變得很耐幹
而且異常的耐幹
甚至會不停的討幹
等到藥效退的時候 回想剛剛的過程
會異常的害羞臉紅
這也就是因為觀感強化後 帶來的效果
所以 以前只敢幻想的事情 在HIFUN的作用下
竟然都會願意 甚至主動想嘗試看看
在藥性下主導生理 而生理進一步會主導心理
就是這樣的藥理連鎖反應
會感覺自己變一個人似的
對某些人來說 是種舒壓的方式
但若不清楚 甚至沒意識到這些原理
就容易被藥物牽著走
甚至追求藥物 反過來變成被ICE玩
很多的情緒就會變的直覺投射
好就會很開心
但不順就會異常難過 甚至生氣
情緒會變的起伏很大
有的人 甚至快樂時光一結束 就陷入憂鬱了
嚴重的話 更會導致性格扭曲
產生極度異常的舉止
就是因為那樣昇天愉悅的感覺
沒有藥的作用後 就全消失了
因此 在心理層面
多練習 在用藥玩樂的過程中
適時的抽離自己
用第三者的角度 去看剛剛發生的事情
這樣的思考法
會讓當下的生物性的本能
很快的導回理性思考的狀態
情緒就不會變的大起大落
也因此 會讓自己知道 何時該停
如果懂了整個反應機制 你會發現
有很多地方 真的沒注意拿捏的話
就很容易出狀況
請保護好自己
也保護好跟你一起享樂的對方
別作追求享樂的當下行樂主義者
推自己跳海 更拉著無辜無知的嫩弟一起陪葬
你若能因此了解這是一種責任
那就可以避免更多更多不必要的糾紛出現
愛自己 就是愛你關心重視的所有人💋
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Submissive Tips for New Dominants
Alright followers, I’m always trying to help educate the next generation of kinksters. This time I’m writing to educate my fellow doms. Ask almost any submissive and they will tell you the world is WOEFULLY lacking knowledgeable dominants. That’s why I teach. I needed a teacher and too many people wanted something in exchange for teaching. I believe that making knowledge available for anyone who simply wants it will improve our community.
So, I asked my followers to tell me the things they HATE when dominants do. It’s important to know what not to do because so many doms have a move, or a skill that they know subs love. When subs aren’t interested or turned off by something we did? They vanish, that makes it hard to learn from our mistakes. So, let’s get into it.
Assuming any submissive owes you anything for simply existing.
@collegebottomwpb wrote: “Assuming that I have to do what they say because they identify as a Dom and me a sub. It makes me wonder what they are really looking for. I’m not your punching bag just because I identify as a sub.”
@gayhypnoboy wrote: “One thing certain Dominants do that puts me off serving them is acting as though they deserve my submission purely based on my being an s-type, without them bothering to establish any rapport with me. It’s far better to come in gently and respectfully - if rapport is established then I am far more likely to gift the Dominant my submission.”
@hungryhungrycumdump wrote: “Being a Dom doesn’t mean acting like an asshole to me, especially if we don’t already have a relationship/framework to build on. Every day I have to ignore random rude people that treat me like shit. If I don’t know you and you’re leading off our encounter by degrading me and demanding things that make me uncomfortable, I’m gonna shut down completely. Show me you’re worth obeying before demanding subservience. You can’t be in charge until I feel safe being powerless.”
I really wanted to bring this comment up first because it is often the opening move of a dominant to try and put himself in position as the person in charge. We know you’re in charge, we all know because we all self identify with our roles. Confidence is quiet, insecurities are loud. Pushing your dominance shows insecurities to submissives. But being your dominant self and expressing dominance through who you are is going to be WAY more effective. (as much as I dislike “real” alpha/submissive as a concept) Think of how many submissives want a “real” alpha. They are desperate for the Man who radiates his dominance through confidence in himself and every action he takes even when he is at rest. Cultivate that Man within yourself. Mix in a bit of charm and you will be the center of attention.
Don’t forget that every sub is unique and has different needs. Get to know each submissive you want to play with.
@athenbax wrote: “I had a dominant thank me one time and I lost all respect for him. Dominants don’t thank fags, fags thank dominants.”
@markinwisconsin also added: “I think when someone approaches a sub making demeaning statements or demands it is more likely a fake dom looking for a quick buck.”
@hungryhungrycumdump wrote: “Also learn the difference between betas and omegas and try to think about what kind of relationship dynamics most appeal to you. Subs need different levels of degradation and treating us all the same is a quick way to make us feel disposable (and not in a fun cumwhore way). If you need a human toilet, fine. Just don’t assume that’s gonna be me because I’m a sub.”
Both of these quotes show what a mistake it can be to assume all submissives are the same. @athenbax needs a Man to come in, take charge, and own his ass. @markinwisconsin will not be impressed if you are trying to humiliate or demean you right out of the gate and will likely leave. EVERY SUB IS DIFFERENT! They all have different: needs from dominance, personalities, kinks, appearances, and needs from a dominant. If you walk up and call @collegebottomwpb a faggot he’ll probably block you where as @athenbax is likely to say “Yes Sir”. This I hope explains some points of failure for a lot of brand new doms who start out with one approach thinking that porn reflects reality. Take a moment to ask a sub what titles he likes as that can often give you the first clues you need to get inside a submissive’s head. Each new sub you would play with you need to think like first. You want to be a step ahead of them in the conversation whether fag or boy at all times. If you’re a step ahead of them and leading them in just the starting conversation alone, it makes a fantastic first impression.
Learn the difference between confidence and arrogance.
@markinwisconsin wrote: “I don’t think an Alpha should ask a sub to do something. They should be giving orders.”
Ok, so we’ve established that you’re here and dominant, and that every submissive is different. The last thing you need to establish is that a submissive feels into you and is looking to you ready to play. If he’s ready to play, he’s already submitting to you in a cursory way and wants to go deeper. I’m going to lay out some differences between arrogance and confidence for you below:
When you understand the difference between confidence and arrogance your words carry weight because you truly and deeply KNOW what it is you need and want in the moment. You give a submissive an order not to fill his time so you can think of something more to do but instead because it’s what you need him to do and need him to do NOW.
Some submissives will make a point of letting you know that you can dominate them: “It’s ok for you to give me orders.” These submissives have often had lots of experiences with Men who were new to giving orders and unsure. Remember earlier in this post we talked about being a step ahead in the conversation? That applies in the bedroom. Plan, know, execute on your needs and your scene. Having that next step planned out while you’re spanking his ass means that there is no hesitation when you need to act because you KNOW what you’re going to do. It lets you speak with assertion because you know “this is what happens next”. Besides, a great many subs would be incredibly excited to hear: “I’ve been planning all week what I’m going to do to you. Are you ready to find out exactly what will happen now?”
Honorable mention
@lto2012 wrote: “As a Dom, I don’t know that I have much to offer here aside for the fact that I’m really willing to learn, to listen, to challenge boundaries and to openly communicate with subs. Things like this— a “how to” guide and other content I’ve found here on Tumblr— are helpful in my own learning process.
Every situation, interaction, and person is nuanced and that presents a challenge for some Doms. There is no formula. It is a continual test that goes in both directions. The issue I find is that when subs don’t communicate I fail that test. I’ll fail every test I don’t even know I’m taking.
I cannot read your mind.
I want to have the sex in real life that my buddies jerk off thinking about. Help me out and we can have that amazing sex together. “
I know how many cruel, abusive, arrogant doms are out there boys. Don’t forget there are good men too. It makes life a lot easier if even though you’re a submissive you’ll let a dominant know if something constitutes mistreatment so new sincere men such as this follower can learn and grow into a Man any of you would be proud to serve. Dominants can’t be dominants without submissives and submissives cannot submit without a dominant to lead them. This principle extends to all areas of our kinky lives not simply the bedroom for those of us who are called to live the life of a kinkster. So, speak up, let your would be dominant know what’s up and if he shapes up and treats you right, consider submitting to him. After all, a Man who can hear he’s done wrong and do better is what we all want from a partner isn’t it?
Conclusion
No one wants to be a “bad dom/sub” or a “fake dom/sub” but if anyone is going to grow and change… They need to have the knowledge of how to DO better. I promise you subs out there, every dom wants to know what he’s doing and be acknowledged for his dominance and power by doing it so right you melt into a puddle in his arms. The internet has given us greater access to information sure, but without our fellow doms looking at us with admiration and holding their hands out to support the next generation far too many of us suffer from impostor syndrome. “I want this sub, but I don’t want him to know I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing.” And then after a successful scene that sense of relief that it went well and he had no idea you’re still learning. You want to know how to make those boys squirm and fall for you? Just do one thing. Ask me anything. I’ll tell you.
Super greatful to have been included in this conversation. Thank you @breederofbetas hehe
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