So my girlfriend, the closed off, “keep my personal stuff to myself, of a wonderful woman that she is; pulled a fast one on me this morning.
Back story. I have been in love with her for a very long time. I have told her on many occasions and I never thought that anything beyond that one night of drunken sex would happen between us. I was wrong.
For a while, she says, she has been fighting her feelings. She has been fighting falling in love with me. She was unable to prevent these feelings. Now, she is NOT the touchy, feely, lovey dovey kinda gal. But, I guess she just needed to do things on her own time. I continued to wait for her.
Recently, a month or so, she opened up to me and confessed. We have been seeing each other on the down low since then to see if things could, indeed, work for us. She is not a fan of titles or possessiveness. But, alas, she gave in. She fell for me.
So, to this morning. We were getting the kids ready so we could leave for work. I forgot to put my phone on the charger and woke up LATE and didn’t make us breakfast like I said I would last night. I felt bad, but she was okay with it. She seemed a bit rushed too. I plugged in my phone, and proceeded with getting the kids ready. I then went to my room to put on my socks and boots for the day. She decided to be sneaky. The one year old, girl, had my phone off the charger and playing with it. She, girlfriend, mentioned that she was just messing with it. But, nothing made me think to check my phone because, well, I’ve nothing to hide and her fingerprint is in the phone too.
As we were walking out the door she asked if I saw what she changed in my phone. I was confused. Everything looked normal. I asked her, she said I’d find out eventually. We put the kids in her car and kissed her cheek and said see ya later.
I had to wait until I got to work because well driving in the dark and in ice whilst looking at your phone is VERY dangerous!
Upon my arrival to work, I asked her again. She asked if I had been on Facebook yet. Nope. I look, and to my surprise BAM! She changed our relationship status. Not, that it’s about the whole “Facebook Official”, it was her way of being comfortable telling the whole world, and surprising me at the same time. I’ve accepted it that I am VERY hard to surprise. I can read people and actions speaking louder than words, I know what to expect.
So, in short, she has made it official that we are 100 percent together. Today is the happiest day of my life, year, and future to come.
