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chapter 33: august 10th (neil pov)
chapter 34: august 24th (neil pt2? potentially?)
chapter 35: august 31st
chapter 36: september 7th
whatâs the big deal about being avoidant. like ohhhh im dodging the bullet quick everyone lets mock the bullet dodger
these are my mutuals. they know who they are
[louder than everyone] MAN I THINK IT DEPENDS!
itâs hot here
lesbian beach time đđïž
neil josten i love youâ€ïž no thats not a speeding truck behind me whattt
omg neil what is thatt ive never seen it before thats sooooo weird...
neil josten i love youâ€ïž no thats not a speeding truck behind me whattt
dont be mad but i laid an egg in your bed and if you try to move it ill get really angry.
it's like . oh my god. no, i don't think a romance novel needs to be a sociopolitical thesis on the real life consequences of being closeted and queer (and in shane's case, autistic + racialized) in a highly bigoted environment, or the geopolitical implications of being a high profile queer russian athlete. but when the romance novel itself brings these things up, only to then brush them off like they're not real concerns as soon as the author stops wanting to think about them, that is both lazy writing and just plain insulting.
i do actually think it is offensive for an author to dismiss queer characters' concerns of homophobia as just internalized shame and selfishness and self-hatred and cowardice. i do actually think it is offensive for an author to bring up homophobic legistlation in russia as a major concern for an immigrant character only to then decide it doesn't matter to him at all, actually, because writing him as an immigrant and doing any research about immigration is somehow too much to ask of ~a romance novel~.
and frankly, i think people who go "oh my god it's just a romance novel!!! you guys are asking too much/reading too much into things!!! it's misogynistic to criticize the romance genre like this!!!" are actually far too comfortable insinuating that the entire romance genre is, by default, full of homophobia, racism, and lazy writing. i actually think it's entirely possible for romance novels to treat the subjects they invoke with care.
if reid didn't want to write about closeted queer people with any compassion, and instead wanted to accuse them of only being closeted because of shame, selfishness, and cowardice, she could have made up a fictional world in which homophobia is simply not as severe an issue as it is today. instead, she chose to invoke homophobia as it exists in the real world, and then simply victim-blamed her closeted characters for being impacted by it.
ultimately, she writes as though the closet is the ultimate sin. this is why she discards ilya's immigrant storyline and doesn't care about the impacts of russia on him as soon as it no longer plays into the ~forbidden romance~ trope in hr. the closet is evil, and wanting to stay closeted is shameful, and therefore ilya (her obvious favorite character) must want to come out. the long game follows the same exact formula as game changer, just with more cruelty in its ending. (it's like if game changer included two sentences about scott getting physically hatecrimed at the end, but glossed over it immediately because he was just sooooo happy to be out it didn't even matter.)
so like. yeah actually i don't think it's asking too much of a romance novel to engage respectfully with its own subject matter. if the author doesn't want to engage respectfully with a topic, then they should just... write about something else. i don't think this is rocket science as a concept.
There is a well documented sociological phenomenon known as occupational devaluation and the concept behind it is simple: When an occupation is primarily performed by women, it is viewed as less prestigious. The average wage is lower. Societal respect for that position is lower.
And if there is a demographic shift and that same job becomes male-dominated, then the average wage increases. Societal respect increases.
The converse is also true. If a job shifts from primarily male-dominated to primarily female-dominated, the average wage will drop. Societal respect decreases. A big example of this phenomenon is secretarial work. In the 1800s, being a secretary was actually considered a manâs job, and it was a very elite one at that. If you were a secretary, you were being groomed for leadership. It was a position of status.
That position shifted to a female-dominated field after the invent of the typewriter. Women were hired for the role as typists, and the position was quickly stripped of its respect, mobility, and high wages. As it was feminized, it was devalued. The work was perceived as less because it was performed by a woman. It is yet another microcosm of misogyny.
The inherent devaluation of what is perceived as feminine is blatant in many aspects of life, but I think it has been achingly apparent in how the heated rivalry fandom has treated romance as a genre.
Romance is a genre that is often perceived as being written for women, by women. It is a feminine genre. And so it is devalued.
This devaluation is another well documented phenomenon. Romance as a genre has long been treated as low-brow. It is the empty calories of literature. There is a pervasive mindset that you read it as a guilty indulgence, not because itâs really good.
But it can be.
This idea that the romance genre is lesser or low brow is a fundamentally false one. I had another post here about what genre is and what the romance genre in particular is, so I wonât get into that here. Romance is just a type of story. It in no way dictates how that story is executed. And any story can be executed well.
We are still studying Pride & Prejudice centuries later because from a mechanical perspective, it is a masterclass. It is a serious and complex work of literature. And it is a romance novel. And Pride & Prejudice is not unique in its excellence. There have been many excellent works of literature over the centuries that can be classified as romantic in nature. Some of Shakespeareâs finest works were his romances. The mere fact that a work is romantic does not demand that it is executed with any less skill. But we still act as if you should expect less from a story because it is âjust a romance.â
This mindset is rooted in misogyny. There is no genre out there where every artist on the planet got together and decided that it would be the place where they shuffled off the literary duds. Thatâs fucking bonkers. And there is no other genre where we act like we did that, because there is no other genre as feminized as romance. It is treated as lesser because it is perceived as being for and by women.
Any story can be written well. And the fact that a story focuses centrally on romance does not exclude it from tackling societal issues in a nuanced and complete manner. A romance novel does not need to be a sociopolitical thesis because no book needs to be anything. But it can be.
I think it is telling that one of the most common defenses of these books is not âno, they handled that topic wellâ but is instead âyou canât expect them to be well executed because itâs just a romance novel, aka the place where dumb fucks go to die.â There is nothing about the fact that these books are romantic that makes them inherently less. And we need to seriously inspect this communal instinct to act like it does. Because the devaluation inherent in that is based in misogyny.
Authors have the freedom to decide what topics they try to tackle in their books, and the audience expects them to do it well. If they do not do it well, then they open themselves up to criticism about that fact. That has been an understood and expected facet of literature since we invented fucking books. Literary criticism has always been a part of societyâs experience of literature. We have spent centuries tearing apart each otherâs writings and pointing out what we think was done well or poorly. And we have never rushed to the defense of other works with âno no no no no donât criticize it like thatâitâs supposed to be bad, youâre just taking it too seriously.â Authors pick their own conflict. It is not too much to demand that they handle that conflict well.
Rachel Reid voluntarily chose to engage with complex topics in her novels. And that means she does not get to excuse herself from criticism around how she engaged with those topics by saying that they were never supposed to be seriously analyzed. She was the one who chose to try to address serious subject matter to begin with. If she didnât want to actually address it, then she should have chosen to write about something else.
(foolish and naive) certainly it cant be controversial to point out the objective fact that rachel reid is weird about Shane's race and sexuality
heated rivalry is fake and just tv but shane hollander is real
âIâm just a girlâ first of all youâre a grown ass woman second of all free yourself
brainstorming on my i love to torture neil josten whiteboard rn
im like a cartoon villain
brainstorming on my i love to torture neil josten whiteboard rn
brb gotta go torture The Character again
neil isnât even that dense andrew is just really fucking bad at flirting
breaking my fucking silence