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[jamestmedak]

Forced into submission through the simple and unquestionable power of a man’s footstink …

[justanotherfagsblog]

Things a faggot Needs From a Dominant

Rules

Structure & Routine

Consequences

Honesty and Trust

Humiliation & Degradation

Hard Use and Abuse

Assurances (A Second Chance)

Rules –

As a noun, RULES are “a set of explicit or understood regulations or principles governing conduct”. As a verb, the Master RULES His faggot when He “exercises ultimate power or authority” over that property. Rules should be clear and understood by both parties. Rules not only define the expected actions of the sub, but they also serve to define the parameters of the relationship between a Dominant and His slave. It is an important dynamic for the faggot to be given clear and distinct rules which it is then expected to abide by and those rules should always lend themselves to making the Master’s life better.

Examples of rules may include:

Following proper protocol when addressing a Superior

Knowing when it may or may not speak freely

Responding immediately to orders and commands

Being home and completely available to Him (aside from work responsibilities)

Having to ask permission for anything/everything beyond its normal pre-defined routine

Without rules, faggots run amuck and gain ego, losing focus on what’s important to both parties. And that is having the Master in charge – in total Control of the faggot. This quite simply, is what they both want. So, the Dominant should always feel comfortable and secure in making Rules for the faggot to follow. And likewise, the faggot should accept each new rule with a sense of gratitude for a Man who is willing to provide firm control and structure to its life. The more rules imposed upon the faggot, the better opportunity it has to improve the life of its Master.

Structure and Routine –

As rules provide the framework for expected behaviors, structure is what gives those rules meaning. Structure is the organizational foundation on which a rich and dynamic relationship is built. And without structure, a faggot is likely to wander aimlessly throughout the relationship never quite addressing the Master’s needs in an efficient and effective manner that enhances the quality of His life. Routine is the use of structure to develop patterns of (in) behavior that further guide the faggot’s daily actions. Routine equips the faggot with the knowledge and skill set needed to accomplish tasks at various intervals with a consistent degree of quality. It’s important for the faggot to know what is expected of it and what its daily responsibilities are – structure and routine help the faggot learn the Master’s expectations and the parameters of its responsibilities in the relationship. Routine (and structure alike) both provide the faggot with ample opportunity to study and learn from the Master and to carefully discern His likes and dislikes and sub-sequently respond appropriately to His daily needs and desires.

Consequences –

For every action… there need not be an equal and opposite reaction. However, there are (and will be) times when the faggot’s action(s) require some degree of corrective measure. When the faggot fails to follow the rules set forth by the Master, or when the faggot lacks structure and routine, this could result in the faggot falling short of its true potential. It would therefore necessitate the firm hand of the Master to set the faggot back on the right track. It may be something as simple as the Master looking down at it and saying “Excuse ME…?” Or it may be something requiring a more sub-stantial reinforcement of the structure and agreed upon rules. Such as putting the faggot in a particular physical and mental state where it can ponder its actions and why those actions were not appropriate. Or – it might even be something that requires a more strict and rigid punishment in order to curb in-sub-ordinate behavior. “Spare the rod, spoil the child.”

A lack of discipline contributes to laziness which in turn leads to a lesser quality of service provided to the Master. Even good boys need spankings sometimes to help them remember (a) Who is in Charge and (b) what the faggot’s role and purpose truly is in this relationship. And while every act may not require correction, there should be a well thought out Program of Discipline that the Master imposes upon His property. Perhaps a point system where each violation incurs a certain number of points and when the faggot “earns a certain number of points” it is disciplined appropriately. Other times – the faggot’s actions may require a more immediate response, based on a multi-tier level of punishment depending upon the severity of the infraction.

Examples: Level 1, Level 2, and Level 3 Infractions may include (or exceed):

Level 1 – An attention commanding smack across the face…

Level 2 – An unexpected and surprisingly powerful punch to the gut followed by some corner time for the faggot to reflect upon its indiscretion

Level 3 – Binding the faggot and subjecting it to a more intense, rigorous and long-term beating coupled with repeated affirmations of what it did wrong and why it was wrong and what it will do in the future to improve its quality of service to and for the Master

Whichever level of consequence the Master feels is best suited for the faggot at the time of infraction and that will bring about the best positive outcome – He will decide. And the faggot knows that He employs punishment and other consequences only to help it become a better faggot for Him and to help it make His life better. The ultimate goal of both Master and slave.

Honesty and Trust –

Honesty and trust are the guiding principles that give the previous three constructs validity. Trust is not earned overnight. It requires complete and open communication, takes a long time to build and it is most definitely a two-way street. When it was younger (like a teenager) and worried about getting into trouble, the faggot would sometimes conjure up some mistruths in the hopes it could avoid receiving a punishment. It soon realized that telling one lie would lead to another and eventually it couldn’t remember any of its stories. So many years ago, the faggot realized it was simply easier to always tell the truth – no matter what. And it continues to practice that policy today. As a faggot who, over the past several months, has been diligently “working to demonstrate its value and dedication and commitment to the Master in the hope that HE will decide to take ownership of it” the faggot has never shared a mistruth with the Master. Ever. Furthermore, if the Master is really in charge – He also has no need to lie. About anything. Ever.

Trust is absolutely critical in a BDSM situation. On what it means to be a slave, this faggot agrees that “Even a simple “white lie” can destroy the trust so necessary to really establish [and maintain] this type of relationship”. This sense of complete and utter trust is even more critical when the Master wishes to subject His object to various forms of extreme acts of depravity. Even after months or years of developing a strong sense of trust, one lie or mistruth can cause significant and unfortunate results. Therefore, even “little white lies” are totally unacceptable.

Humiliation & Degradation

When it comes to subjecting the faggot to humiliation, much of that is conjured up during sexual games. However, the Master should know that in addition to the Dominant fix He gets by humiliating a faggot, the faggot also internalizes much of that action beyond sexual means and accepts that type of treatment as part of the BDSM relationship. In doing so, the faggot realizes, recognizes and accepts its position within this dynamic and it is because of the humiliating acts that the faggot learns to become submissive and to remain in a subservient position in relation to the Master. There are many forms of effective humiliation including verbal, sexual, physical, psychological and emotional humiliation. Any of these types of humiliation can be employed at any time the Master feels like He needs to put the faggot back down in its place. Faggots realize they innately respond with Respect for the Master when this occurs.

The Master once asked, “I wonder what is the most depraved thing I can do to you…” Like humiliation, degrading a faggot, whether during sexual acts or other times, helps to put it in its rightful place below the Master. In fact, humiliation and degradation oftentimes go hand-in-hand. Forcing a faggot to engage in degrading acts (for the Master’s entertainment let’s say) can bring about a significant amount of humiliation upon the faggot. These two constructs working together are highly effective in pushing the faggot to the depths of its own level of submission and free it to become a slave that follows orders and meets the Master’s expectations with increasing levels of quality.

Hard Use and Abuse It goes without saying that the faggot was born to serve a Man who captures it and to serve Him in all ways that suit His needs and desires. And of course, that includes being the object of His desire – in other words – what that really means is the faggot is the subject of His abuse. Whether engaged in a fun Saturday afternoon of sexual deviance or if the faggot simply opens its mouth one too many times when the Master is seeking some quiet solitude, He holds unmitigated Rights to treat the faggot as nicely or as sadistically as He enjoys at any given moment. While the faggot may beg and plead for mercy – and it may even cry out in pain (simply gag it), the faggot requires this significant level of abuse in order to frequently remind it of its true place in the hierarchy of nature. It is there to serve. Of course, on the flip side of things, the Master could also decide He wants the faggot around simply to provide Him with meaningful companionship – much like a pet – while allowing Him to continue His regular activities. Assurances (A Second Chance) Even with the best laid out Rules and forms of structure, all faggots fuck-up. And as a result, all faggots require appropriate punishment and abuse when they do. And as indicated above, that abuse should be MEANingful. So, MEANingful that the faggot learns something from each lesson. And therefore it works harder and with more focus to please the Master and satisfy His needs and desires. This is a very simple, but complex concept and after a good beating, the faggot should know in its heart that it was beaten because the Master cares for it and He wants it to be the very best faggot it can be. Period. And while the faggot will always strive to do the best job it can, eventually something will occur that the faggot does (or does not do) that is considered a major infraction. It may be so out of the norm for the faggot, that even the Master is surprised and has temporary fleeting thoughts of discarding the piece of property. Please, please, please always give the faggot a second chance to demonstrate its adoration, commitment and dedication for the Master. And if the faggot has been beaten down to a point where it appears mopey, etc., just give it a bit of time to rebound. Having a temporary mopey attitude is not a sign that the faggot dislikes its place in the relationship. It simply the faggot’s processing of (a) what it did wrong, (b) how disappointed it is in itself and how it wants to do better for the Master. Every thought it has – be it good or bad, is always centered on the Master and what makes Him happy.

[jockedjock]

[whitetrashbreedinhole]

[fagsneedalphas]

Love to suck on a sweaty jock hole!

[faguserchicago]

Why (And How) To Use A fag

It’s not like it comes up every day, but it comes up. Friends know I often have a fag around, so they ask “why?”

A fag recognizes itself as inferior to men, so it is happy to be used by men. If I want my home cleaned up, I can get a fag to do it for me. Want your car washed? Your lawn mowed? Your laundry cleaned? FAGS DO THIS SHIT AS WORSHIP. That’s right, guys, it isn’t a chore for these fucks — they’ll probably have a hardon while they scrub your toilet clean. Seriously. In fact, some fags are such fuckups that THEY’LL PAY YOU to do your chores for you!!! Just remember — as a fag’s superior, you don’t ask it to do something for you, you TELL it.

Want some Chipotle? Run out of beer? Dial-a-fag!! “Hey fag, get me ….” Not only do you get free delivery, you get free whatever-you-asked-for!

And because it’s such a sexual/worship act for them, YOU CAN DEMAND PERFECTION. Dinner arrived cold? Throw it on the faggot and demand it start over again. Shirts put away with wrinkles? Bitch-slap the bitch. Find one of your pubes on the bathroom floor? Make it re-scrub the floor with its tongue!

And, sure, they’re fags, so of course they want your cock. Doesn’t mean you gotta give it to ‘em. Remind them it’s an honor to be allowed to clean your dirty undies. If you want to reward the queer, order it to massage your feet.  If you REALLY want to reward it, tell it to use its tongue. If you let a faggot put its head between your legs and merely sniff your crotch, the bitch will probably cum in its pants. See, that’s the twist.  What a fag wants to do is make YOU feel good, so getting serviced isn’t a duty like it is with your wife or girlfriend; it’s a REWARD for them to choke on your prick. So use it as a rare gift from God. (You’re the God, see?)

So, yeah, if you do want to sit back and feel something warm, wet, and soft clenching around your cock, use a fag. Remember, though, it’s all about -you-.  So be as selfish, demanding, and cruel as you want. You wanna fuck face? Grab its head like a melon! Believe me, the harder you treat ‘em, the more eager they are to come back. And if a fag even touches its crotch while it’s taking care of you, THROW THE FUCKWAD OUT!! Replace it with a fag that knows better than to offend you like that.

Oh, one more thing.  There’s NOTHING too twisted for a fag. These are the world’s most depraved whores.  Want to take a piss without getting off the recliner? A fag will happily drink “from the tap” … yeah, they even got a phrase for it! You ever had your ass kissed? Really kissed? French kissed? Fags dream of that kinda shit.  So, man, whatever kink you got, use it on a fag.

Hey, fags … if you’re smart, you’ll reblog this so it gets read by as many Men as possible. And sure, like it as well.  I like being liked.

[fagdestroyer]

Spitting on your faggot

Spitting on your faggot is essential in my opinion. There are two types of faggots - Those who are humiliated by being spat on (usually accompanied by verbal abuse and sexual service) and those that love spit.

Humiliation Spitting on your faggot to humiliate it is one of the best feelings ever. When you are a child you are taught spitting is bad, in a lot of municipalities spitting on the street will get you a citation. Spit is a body fluid, but unlike most body fluid when it leaves the body it is not sterile (which is not the same as disease free) - it contains bacteria from the mouth, if it’s a loogie it contains phlegm. Animals spit at threats, it’s used to intimidate, to warn off and if aimed right, to immobilize (such as spitting in the eye). Finally in society, spitting at or on someone is seen as derogatory, showing contempt. All of this means that when you spit on your faggot you show it that you think it is filth, they it is something that is beneath you, they you fling your loogie a at. Make it keep that spit on its face, in its hair, let your body fluid try and soak into its body….. By spitting on your faggot as a way of humiliating it you are saying to it you are inferior, I spit on you, I humiliate and degrade you, you are nothing!

Faggots that love spit Faggots are nasty creatures. They will like spit, piss , cum, sweat up because it has come from a real man, they love the taste and they love what it represents. You can use this to your advantage. Teach it that spit is a reward, it will teach your faggot to worship you, savor you. When you spit on it you will have its undivided attention. When you see random spit in the street make it kneel down and lick it up- this rewards the faggot, reminds it of its place, teaches it that it has no control over its body, what it ingests or what man’s body fluid it must accept. Someone once asked if I was worried what was in some random spit…. I think they were over thinking it, at first your faggot may be a little repulsed but as its standards lower it will greedily lick it up (faggots are greedy by nature), the spit should then not be seen as merely a bodily fluid, but as something more, it represents a masculinity a faggot will never achieve , It represents a level of self control and control over ones self and body and faggot should never experience and it allows the faggot to express itself openly, to show its submissive nature, to bring forth its self destructive personality and to experience the high risk behavior you see in all faggots but I a control situation (noting that controlled does not mean safe)

[oldfag1966-deactivated20161130]

Bullying Guide for Straight lads

[grover3]

oldfag1966

Bullying Guide for Straight lads

This guide assumes you are sufficiently homophobic that you have no objection in principle to bullying faggots, but it is important (if you want to get the most out of bullying faggots) to understand the faggot’s motivation.

Faggots often by their nature are bothersome to real men but equally they are submissive.

A faggot not controlled by bullying will end up getting into all sorts of trouble in their fucked-up pursuit of real men, seeking both sex and domination from them. If you like being in-charge, these queers need someone to be in-charge of them

Need for Abuse: The average faggot - but not all - thinks of themselves as weak, wishy-washy, more feminine yet male. Deep down, they they are submissive around dominant people & feel they need to be abused because of it. The faggot does derive pleasure from your abuse, whether it’s verbal, written, or real life. Faggots need bullying because they need verbal abuse and aggression.

Need for Discipline: Closely related to the abuse is the need for control, a control that they could do themselves but which feels more ‘right’ when coming from a straight guy - a real man. Faggots wish they could be real men but can never be because, while gay, they also have an unnatural fixation on heterosexual men. Faggots, being submissive, need / want to be kept in line by someone in-charge and to be punished / disciplined when they fall out of line. Faggots need bullying because they need discipline. 

Living Vicariously through Real Men: Many faggots feel they are not a real man - a real man is tough, rough, strong, cocky, masculine, a stud. Therefore many faggots want to hear about your exploits as a man who is doing masculine things that they cannot do or do a piss poor job at. These faggots want to hear about your day, your sport, your work (if you work in a blue collar ‘manly’ type job), the chicks you bed, what you like doing in bed, etc. They look up to you, they idolise you. Through the bully, they can understand what life as a real man is like. Faggots need bullying so they learn their place.

[imlostinvertigo]

If you could give someone new to BDSM and kink sides of life info about this kind of life. what tips would you give that new sub?

Well, I’m a new-ish sub myself, having only been at this seriously for a bit over a year. So I don’t want to pass this off as coming from the wizened voice of experience or anything. But I’ll share 10 things I think I’ve learned on my journey so far.

1) You’re ok and nothing’s wrong with you. All of those dark, twisted things you find yourself wanting to do? The way you want to submit yourself to another man and hand over some of your personal power to him? It just means you’re wired a bit differently than most people. And that’s absolutely fine. Different isn’t bad - it’s just different. Don’t waste any time feeling guilt or shame about it, because there’s nothing wrong about these desires and there’s nothing wrong with you for feeling them.

2) Don’t let fear hold you back. At the beginning of my journey there were a lot of activities I was plain scared of. In fact, most everything related to letting someone else hurt me freaked me out to some degree. But because I trusted my Sir, I allowed Him to take me to those places that scared me, and I’m very glad I did. Because now some of the things I feared the most are some of the things I love the most. If you’re at all curious about something, try it. No matter how much it scares you.

3) On the other hand, don’t be afraid to say no. Everyone has limits. Some are hard (“I’ll never let someone do that to me”) and some are soft (“I’m not ready to do that - yet”). You should be ready to have your limits stretched and pushed on, especially the soft ones. But it’s ok to say no to something you just can’t do, for whatever reason. You decide how much of your power to give to your Dom, and the only things that should happen to you are the things you consent to. Period.

4) Building on that: Communicate, communicate, communicate. Your Dom isn’t a mind reader. It’s up to you tell him what you want, what you don’t, what your limits are, what you’re scared of, what worked for you in a scene or didn’t, etc. Talk this stuff out BEFORE you have your first scene with a new Dom; but that’s not enough, you need to keep checking in as things progress because your thoughts and feelings will change. As a corollary, you need to find a Dom who also values communication and encourages it. A Dom that doesn’t seem interested in good communication should be a huge red flag.

5) Figure out the kind of commitment you want as a sub. Are you just looking for a Dom you can submit to occasionally for a scene? Are you interested in finding a 24/7 Master? Something in-between? Do you want to be collared or are you just playing around? Is it just about some fun kinky sex for you, or does your need to submit run deeper than that? There is no right answer here, it’s all about determining what you need and can handle. And realize that this may change over time.

6) Treat the world of kink like a buffet. Try everything you’re curious about. Go back for extra helpings of the stuff you like. Don’t feel obligated to eat more of what you don’t. BDSM covers a wide range of activities and mindsets, and you don’t have to be into everything on the table. Into bondage and humiliation but don’t want to get beaten? Great. Want to get paddled until you cry but the thought of getting pissed on is a major turn off? Ok. You’ll see a lot of stuff online about the “right” way to be a sub. All real subs do this, you can’t be a sub if you don’t do that. Ignore it all. There are no rules here but the ones you make for yourself. You don’t have to please the Internet - just your Dom.

7) Slow and steady. You might feel like a kid at a candy store when you first start out and want to try everything at once. But the store isn’t going anywhere. Take your time. Savor your new experiences before moving on to the next one. When it comes to taking pain, you don’t want to start with a single tail whip. Start slowly and work your way up to more intense scenes. A good Dom will push you steadily but not throw you directly into the deep end before you’re ready.

8) Pain can be really hot if administered by someone you trust who knows what they’re doing and how to read you. But it’s still going to hurt. So be ready for that. Don’t try to fight it, try to flow with it. Think rolling with a punch instead of tensing up for one. It’s a mental challenge to try to process really intense stimulus that keeps coming at you, and it takes time to figure out how to do it. I’m still learning it myself. For me, one thing I learned early on was to not try to be stoic about it; I scream, I thrash, I cry sometimes. Whatever I’m feeling, I let it out. It’s easier for me that way, and my Sir appreciates hearing and seeing the result of his work. A buddy told me early on to try to think of the pain as energy my Sir is pouring into me and that I transfer back to Him by way of my reaction to it; since it comes from Sir, it’s a gift. I try to think about it as a series of waves that I try to stay on top of, mentally. It also helps, I’ve found, if I’m worked into a highly submissive state before we start something painful, as the more submissive I’m feeling the more I can take and the more I’ll enjoy it. Worshiping my Sir’s feet and being tied up, for example, help get me into the right space. Find what works for you.

9) Make sure you and your Dom talk about your safeword, and how you communicate a safeword if you can’t speak because you’ve got a gag in your mouth. Don’t be afraid to use it if you need to. Using your safeword don’t mean you failed or that you’re a bad sub. It means you’re taking care of yourself. Period. A good Dom won’t hold this against you, because he doesn’t want to truly injure you, physically or mentally.

10) Think less of yourself and more about your Dom. Submission is about service. Whether you are submitting for a scene or as part of an ongoing relationship, your one job is to please your Dom. That doesn’t mean that you won’t enjoy what the two of you do, but your pleasure isn’t the point. His is. Don’t go in with a laundry list of things you want done to yourself and expect your Dom to just go down the list ticking each one off. By all means, share your desires - but realize that He may not choose to meet each one of them. And you need to be ok with that. Submission involves self-sacrifice and a shifting of focus from your wants to someone else’s. The good news is that, if you’re wired anything like me, this will make you feel good. Being told you’ve been a good boy for your service will feel better than your own orgasm. The bad news is, we’re selfish creatures and self-denial comes harder than you think it does. You have to examine your thought process and work at putting your Dom first in those thoughts.

Bonus: Enjoy the fuck out of yourself. If you’re not getting physical/mental pleasure out of your subby activities, you’re either not really wired for it or you’re doing something wrong. Submission can be a wonderful release from your outside responsibilities. It can be hot as all hell. With the right Dom, it can be beautiful and fulfilling and lead to some of the most intensely bonding connections you can imagine. Let yourself go, TRULY let yourself go, and enjoy it.

[pupnobley]

^ Read this right now y’all!

[m4mdiscipline]

How to fully control Your sub in 9 steps

1:  You  need to get into his head.

-Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.  Use this information against him and to Your advantage.

-Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

-Make him show his loyalty to You regularly.  Reward him, even if it’s just with positive attention when he does.

- Aside from family, close friends and work, give him 0% privacy.  Don’t hide this process from him, make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”  

-Make him need You for everything.  Point out how You help him, how You guide him, and how You accept the negative things about him that others may not.

- Hypnosis, especially while they are sleeping can help transfer messages, ideas and ideals about You deep into their faggot head.

2:  Punish him often for everything, no exceptions!

- Don’t let him get away with anything!  When You let your sub get away with something. You are telling him that You don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

- You can Spank, paddle, or whip him.

- Humiliate him past what is easy for him.

- Long term bondage

- Corner time

- Food restrictions

- Writing standards/lines\

- Write a book report or essay.

- Ground him/take away privileges.

- Wash his mouth out with soap.

- Make him do anything he hates.

- Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

- Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending Your control over him as a punishment.  That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

3:  Routinely discipline him.  This is different than punishment.

- Spank him once a week, just because You can, not too hard, not too soft.

-Humiliate him often.

- 5-10 minuets of corner time a day can do wonders for him, like a sub’s meditation.

- If he is stressed, give him a break and put him in some comfy bondage for a while.  You may or may not want to integrate impact play with this.  For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.

- Routine discipline will save You time and energy in the long run.  You will have to punish him less as a result.

- Taking care of You can be part of his discipline.  Have him do Your laundry, cleaning, etc.

4:  On some level, even if it’s small, keep Your sub horny for You.

- Talk sexy to him.

-Sexualize non sexual things/activities You are interested in. He will see whatever it is You’ve sexualized as such and be more interested/eager to engage.

- Have Your sub do some or all of Your body grooming. This can be Your baths, Your nails, shaving, trimming, waxing, etc.

- Scare him by telling him when and what You’re going to do to him in the near future.

- Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

- Make him give You orgasms.  This is different from sex.  This is a service.

- Let him rest on You to smell You as You watch TV or read.

- Give him underwear/items of Yours to smell as he sleeps.

- Hypnosis, especially while Your sub sleeps can help with this too.

5:  Control Your own feelings of guilt.

-      Your sub needs You to be strong “with” him.  You may show vulnerabilities in Yourself for other aspects of Your life. When it comes to him and Your control over him, be firm!

-      Some meanness and cruelty will be needed from time to time to help break Your sub down.

-      Your sub may not want everything You give him/ do to him, but he needs it.

-      Letting Your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because You feel guilty adequately and severely addressing it is weak.  You need to control that shit.

-      Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them.  Sometimes real men need to show the fag that they are inferior.  This can’t always be done by talking.  And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

-      Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs.  You are filling his needs.

-      Remember, You both need to be happy.  But happiness comes from different places for different people.  If there is communication, and Your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then You are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

-      A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop You from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does be there for him.

6: Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

- Have him wear a small butt-plug for a time, wifi enabled if possible.

- Have him be naked or close to it, around You and or Your friends.

- Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

- Make him wear a chastity device sometimes.

- Teach them “tricks” like sit, drop to their knees to kiss Your crotch, etc.  In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure Your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.

- Make him masturbate for You.

- Slap him in the face.

- Spit on him.

- Treat him as an inferior in public.  (Ex: he carries all bags, opens doors, eats Your leftovers, holds Your drinks, tie Your shoes  etc.)

- Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

- Talk down to him in front of others

7: Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please You.  Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.

- If You want to change his body to Your liking, do so.  Control his workouts, diet etc.  Make sure and be realistic with this one.

- Make sure he is available during some of Your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve You during those times.

- Put him on a sleeping schedule.  Lots of fags are not able to adequately manage their sleep times.  The better rested he is, the better he will serve You.

- Go through his closet/things and throw away/put away any clothing You don’t like him to be wearing.

- Sign him up to learn new tasks or prefect tasks/skills that will help You.  (Ex: massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.)

- Change their grooming habits to Your liking.

8: Help Your sub be grateful for everything he has.  Make sure You are at the top of that list.  One great way to do this is to deny him things.  Yep, it’s time to say “No.”  Subs need boundaries, and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.

- You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

- Make him show his gratitude to You often.  Faggots will show this to You in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to You.

- Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain why well enough. Then take it from him.

- You can take things/items from him that You know he does not need, but likes.  (Make sure he can afford for You to take them and that they are not of an additional value such as sentimental etc.)  Let him know from time to time that You enjoy something that You took from him.

- Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what You make him do. This could be sort or long term.  

9:  None of these actions will work without real trust.

- If Your sub is Your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes You and Your power.

-  If Your sub is not Your partner, make sure You two are real friends. That You appreciate how his inferiority completes you.  The more You two know about and do with each other. The more thoroughly You can control him.

-Part of trust on the subs part is trusting that You will follow through when You say You are going to do something to him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

-  When a sub fully trusts You. He can submit to You his mind and privacy. Letting You go in and re-arrange/manage his life.

- Subs need constant reassurance.  Let him know that no matter what, he is Yours.  If a serious sub feels disposable. He will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

- If Your life is getting too hard for a bit or You need help with something. Trust that Your sub will be able to take over for You and act in your best interest until You are back in shape.  Giving  sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that You are not actively controlling him 100% of the time.  If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for You. Then drop him like a hot potato.

-Talk to Your sub often.  Ask him how he is feeling, and let him honestly know how You are feeling on anything and everything.

- By taking things away from him, You are in a sense rewarding him when You give them back.  Also, nothing he has is his forever.  You need to re-take things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right.  Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog.  Your sub needs be docile enough that You can take his food bowl away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and patiently wait until the food is returned

-Please note: Do not ever deny him from being with Friends or family.  Make him realize that the only reason You allow him to have constant contact/interaction with good friends and family is because he “helps” them by being a good friend or family member.  Make sure the he understands that the happiness that comes from being with them is “second” to the happiness that he brings them.  Basically, he needs to understand that if he pulls away from loved ones. While he is under Your control his loved ones will suffer. That is why he is allowed (and encouraged) to keep and/or strengthen the bonds he has with them.

Please note: The following is a list of things to control a sub only. Please do not implement these ideas if You do not care about and are not committed to Your sub.  This list is not all inclusive of how to treat Your sub.  This list leaves out the important kind necessities that Your sub needs such as reassurance, love, respect, being protected, allowed to be protective of You etc.  These ideas are for a long term 24/7 arrangements, not a scene.  Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things on the list that will work for You.

[nyfeet]

[followyourslaveheart]

There are natural-born Alpha Men in this world who were born to rule. You’ve known them in high school and worked with them as an adult. These Men just know that they were born for greatness and understand on some deep level that others, like us, were simply born to serve Them. They understand Their superiority and a recognition fires up within Them the second someone addresses Them as Sir!

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[roughalphastraightdomblog]

You had cleaned my apartment, licked my toilet clean, bought me groceries, cigars and liquor for the weekend, you had washed my truck, bought me tickets to the weekend concert, set out the condoms by my bed for after the concert with the chick I would pick up.

This is what you fagg0t get as a reward (and I already know you’ll come back to $erve me again…)

[swallow34]

[patheticgafag]

Open wide, faggot. 

[humiliate-and-bate]

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