Hi! I agree a lot about the fandom etiquette issue in the Total Drama community in the present. It is awful and genuinely exhausting to not be able to even engage in most fan media without encountering something associated with that kind of behavior. It’s honestly miserable and I am baffled by how much hate these (often) children spew out over characters and perceptions of morality…
I recognize that it’s an issue in most modern fandom spaces but I cannot emphasize enough that it is significantly worse in the Total Drama community compared to any other I belong to, at least from my personal experience of course.
Being someone who cares about Coderra, and genuinely loves both Cody and Sierra, is like a death sentence lol.
As silly as it is, Cody as a character is so important to me as an autistic person with a special interest in TD and Cody himself! I see him as a good, though flawed of course, person. The amount of discourse I’ve seen surrounding him recently rarely seems productive and is excessively negative and has hindered my ability to enjoy a character I love, which I hate to say. It’s like I view everything he does through a filtered lens of negativity, including scenes that used to bring me joy. It shouldn’t get to me! I’m trying to give myself grace instead of beating myself up over this wearing down on me because of being autistic lol. Feeling like Sierra <3, haha.
If you’d like to share, what are a few headcanons you have for Cody and Sierra (alone and / or together)?
I’m sorry for the long ask! It feels less judgmental here :). It’s all good if you can’t / don’t want to reply. It’s refreshing to read your posts!
Thanks for giving such a passionate and sincere response anon, don't apologize for getting a bit rambly with it. It's really heartening to see I'm not the only one who has noticed how rapidly the fandom has gone downhill since Covid.
You're absolutely right about the hand-wringing, pearl-clutching morality discourse and how it's absolute poison to having any fun discourse. Instead of discussing the positives about the characters and all the unexplored nuance you have people spewing vitriol over what often amounts to slapstick comedy taken deathly seriously. Like, you see multiple active posters on the TD reddit saying that comedy scenes were "murder attempts." It's madness I tell you!
If it helps at all get you some of your enjoyment back, remember that the show isn't that serious. It helps me to remember that these people are the ones tweaking out over silly cartoon characters getting up to wacky hijinks. That doesn't mean you can't take them seriously, but that doing so is an opt-in experience and these people are choosing to opt-in to all the negatives without any of the positives. If you're going to take something this frivolous this seriously, then why not have fun? Be joyful and whimsical, let the characters be their best selves!
Do you really want a bunch of Ipad babies who can't handle even a tiny bit of discomfort in their media get the better of you?
As a reward for listening to my rambles, if you've made it this far, then a few Cody and Sierra takes off the top of my head:
-Cody is a huge mecha anime weeb. Definitely insists that Evangelion is the greatest anime of all time and describes it as a life changing experience. He's a huge simp for Rei Ayanami, of course. (he has arguments about this with Harold and Noah, who are Misato and Asuka stans respectively.)
-Sierra's plan for the prize money is to throw the world's first DramaCon- a convention by total drama fans, for total drama fans. She'd like to meet other fans IRL, but unfortunately all the people she knows are online. Having a place to meet up would help that, though with her disastrous organization skills its for the best that she didn't get the money after all...
-Maybe it's a bit too obvious, but Sierra is absolutely the type to tell the cashier that Cody ordered no pickles when they get his order wrong. In fact, I think she'd probably unwrap the burger at the counter when they get their food and inspect it, so that he doesn't accidentally bite into a burger with pickles on it. She's very concerned like that.