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URGENT - MEDICAL NEEDS

Hiii! I'm always grateful for any help, we couldn't get things done without it. This is so annoying, specially for me, but we truly need this.

Right now, I'm mom's caretaker, and we both go through health issues on a regular, thanks to chronic and age related problems.

Mom has almost none of the things she needs left. I'm with a huge iron deficit and will most likely need IV treatment on top of the now 5 daily pills. I have no other words to say but please.

Pressing needs: diapers, hand equipment (pt), pain management medication, creams, vitamins

$230/370 ($140/€120 left)

Kofi, pypal/wise/pix: [email protected]

HI! 😊 We still need to hit this to be able to buy more stuff for my mom... I wasn't able to get her vitamins/the powder that complements her diet, or diapers, since those are the most expensive (each go up to $40/box). Any help is appreciated. Thank you so very much so far! 💓

PLEASE HELP! Need Assistance With Transportation & U-Haul Rentals!

PATREON | KO-FI | GO FUND ME

AMAZON WISHLIST: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2IYLMSXNYF5HY?ref_=wl_share

PAYPAL: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/penaltywaltz

WISE: https://wise.com/pay/me/debralynnb22

Updated January 29th 2026

**Car Accident Info Post Here**

So bad news first: we had the inspection on Tuesday and, unfortunately, we didn't pass, though we managed to get a ton of stuff done before they showed up. Good news, though, is they fixed the garbage disposal, and are going to get the freezer and washing machine looked at, and we also have a month to get decluttered, deal with the cat litter residue on the floors, and get rid of the cat smell. So it's not like "OMG, we're getting evicted right now!" but it is a ton more work that we need to do.

I can't clean out the other storage unit at least until after we have our second inspection just because the main issue with the apartment was that it's cluttered. A big part of it was my mom's craft stuff taking up, like, the whole living room, but there's also our closet. Currently I can't wear shirts that rub up against the second-degree burn scars on my chest because of sensory issues, so once I get into our closet I'm going to be donating pretty much everything I own.

Now, once we get the washing machine fixed, I can deal with washing and sorting those clothes too and we can see about tackling as much of the clutter as we can, putting the stuff we want to donate out on the patio, and then renting a U-haul to take stuff to Goodwill and also take the recycling to the recycling center to get it off the patio. I figure if we can do one trip around the 8th and another around the 20th we might not kill ourselves in the process. I'm also researching how to clean up the litter residue which hopefully will cut down on the smell, but I may need to get new litter mats and deeper cat boxes.

I'm currently $252 overdrawn and I'll get $380 in about three hours, though my Walmart+ is supposed to come out tomorrow, and I have called two of my loan providers and dropped those loans down to $100 between them. I still have some more loans to pay, but most of my money is going to loans and utilities/bills. My mom is currently $230 overdrawn because she got hit with some overdraft fees, but I might be able to get the overdrafts refunded.

I'll have to figure out transport for some of Lena's appointments and possibly some of my and my mother's appointments, as well as the U-Hauls later. The U-Hauls and Lena's apartments are the most important, because Lena's teeth issues have gotten worse, so I have to take her to her dentist in a week to get new referrals for multiple appointments all over San Diego County, and the U-Hauls will help us get the clutter out of our apartment. But I also have two local appointments on my end next week I have to go to as well.

But yeah. Could have been a lot worse, and we do have time to sort things, so I'm grateful for that.

#transportation #car accident #signal boost #urgent #emergency #time sensitive #trans aid #trans mutual aid #queer aid #lgbt support

I NEED $200 BY THE 5TH!

So I have used Moneylion (an online loan service) and, unfortunately, I am stuck in a cycle of borrowing back money every month that they take out of my account to pay back the loan. Normally on the morning of the 3rd, I am up around 3 AM and I pay the loan back manually and reborrow the money. I had pulled an all-nighter on the 2nd and crashed around 7 PM last night and did not wake up in time to do this, so Moneylion took the last of the money in my account to pay my loan and I still owe them $200. My account is now at $0 and I am now short around $380 in my budget from the money I would have had left after reborrowing the money from Moneylion.

We need to rent multiple U-Hauls this month to combine taking things to Goodwill and going to scheduled doctor appointments since I am unsure of what is going on with my medical transportation availability, and I also need Ubers for appointments that I cannot reschedule. If I pay Moneylion the $200 ASAP, I can withdraw about $385, which will cover most of the Uber trips I need to make in the next week or so. Please help if you can! This is an unexpected emergency, and if I can't cover everything I need to, I may lose my housing and my health will suffer.

PLEASE HELP! Need Assistance With Transportation & U-Haul Rentals!

PATREON | KO-FI | GO FUND ME

AMAZON WISHLIST: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2IYLMSXNYF5HY?ref_=wl_share

PAYPAL: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/penaltywaltz

WISE: https://wise.com/pay/me/debralynnb22

Updated January 29th 2026

**Car Accident Info Post Here**

So bad news first: we had the inspection on Tuesday and, unfortunately, we didn't pass, though we managed to get a ton of stuff done before they showed up. Good news, though, is they fixed the garbage disposal, and are going to get the freezer and washing machine looked at, and we also have a month to get decluttered, deal with the cat litter residue on the floors, and get rid of the cat smell. So it's not like "OMG, we're getting evicted right now!" but it is a ton more work that we need to do.

I can't clean out the other storage unit at least until after we have our second inspection just because the main issue with the apartment was that it's cluttered. A big part of it was my mom's craft stuff taking up, like, the whole living room, but there's also our closet. Currently I can't wear shirts that rub up against the second-degree burn scars on my chest because of sensory issues, so once I get into our closet I'm going to be donating pretty much everything I own.

Now, once we get the washing machine fixed, I can deal with washing and sorting those clothes too and we can see about tackling as much of the clutter as we can, putting the stuff we want to donate out on the patio, and then renting a U-haul to take stuff to Goodwill and also take the recycling to the recycling center to get it off the patio. I figure if we can do one trip around the 8th and another around the 20th we might not kill ourselves in the process. I'm also researching how to clean up the litter residue which hopefully will cut down on the smell, but I may need to get new litter mats and deeper cat boxes.

I'm currently $252 overdrawn and I'll get $380 in about three hours, though my Walmart+ is supposed to come out tomorrow, and I have called two of my loan providers and dropped those loans down to $100 between them. I still have some more loans to pay, but most of my money is going to loans and utilities/bills. My mom is currently $230 overdrawn because she got hit with some overdraft fees, but I might be able to get the overdrafts refunded.

I'll have to figure out transport for some of Lena's appointments and possibly some of my and my mother's appointments, as well as the U-Hauls later. The U-Hauls and Lena's apartments are the most important, because Lena's teeth issues have gotten worse, so I have to take her to her dentist in a week to get new referrals for multiple appointments all over San Diego County, and the U-Hauls will help us get the clutter out of our apartment. But I also have two local appointments on my end next week I have to go to as well.

But yeah. Could have been a lot worse, and we do have time to sort things, so I'm grateful for that.

#transportation #car accident #signal boost #urgent #emergency #time sensitive #trans aid #trans mutual aid #queer aid #lgbt support

I NEED $200 BY THE 5TH!

So I have used Moneylion (an online loan service) and, unfortunately, I am stuck in a cycle of borrowing back money every month that they take out of my account to pay back the loan. Normally on the morning of the 3rd, I am up around 3 AM and I pay the loan back manually and reborrow the money. I had pulled an all-nighter on the 2nd and crashed around 7 PM last night and did not wake up in time to do this, so Moneylion took the last of the money in my account to pay my loan and I still owe them $200. My account is now at $0 and I am now short around $380 in my budget from the money I would have had left after reborrowing the money from Moneylion.

We need to rent multiple U-Hauls this month to combine taking things to Goodwill and going to scheduled doctor appointments since I am unsure of what is going on with my medical transportation availability, and I also need Ubers for appointments that I cannot reschedule. If I pay Moneylion the $200 ASAP, I can withdraw about $385, which will cover most of the Uber trips I need to make in the next week or so. Please help if you can! This is an unexpected emergency, and if I can't cover everything I need to, I may lose my housing and my health will suffer.

Heeeey, gays n theys! Happy new year!

Just realized I'll need some help to refill some prescriptions before the month finishes:

Antidepressant (Duloxetine): $35/Probiotic (Probid): $25/IB syndrome (Trimeb): $25

Plus mother's sleeping pills, pain pills, some diapers and the pt equipment she needs

$60/200 ($140 left to goal)

Kofi / pypal or wise: [email protected]

Pypal charges me for every donation but any truly helps

Hi, bbs. I need this help by the end of the month latest, cause my antidepressants will be over then, including things my mom has recently started to use more (like diapers to sleep, for example). I'm a caretaker and while things have somewhat got better in the health department for both of us, we still struggle financially like a lot of folks here. We got benefits but they barely cover food when most of it goes to rent currently. Any help is truly a turning point for us every time. Thank you so much.

URGENT: PLEASE BOOST & HELP! My Mother And I Were In A Car Accident And Our Car Was Totaled...Still Need Massive Help!

PATREON | KO-FI | GO FUND ME

AMAZON WISHLIST: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2IYLMSXNYF5HY?ref_=wl_share

PAYPAL: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/penaltywaltz

WISE: https://wise.com/pay/me/debralynnb22

Updated January 5th 2026

**Car Accident Info Post Here**

So on December 19th, my mother and I were in a car accident and our car was totaled (info about the accident is linked above). My mother still has massive bruises on her hip but they're healing; however, she's probably got whiplash and her neck, shoulders and back still hurt. I wasn't able to take care of my relatively minor injuries and had to take care of my family on top of that, and I paid for that last week by being in a ton of pain between my injuries and my psoriatic arthritis. Part of my money was finally spent on weighted heating pads and I feel better now.

We managed to get our rent covered and most of our bills paid thanks to a generous donation and help from a friend, but we still need a ton of help. I am currently $245 overdrawn from having to cover some bills and Uber trips I hadn't expected, and then having loan payments come out when my account was mostly empty. However, two of my payday loans are now paid off completely so provided I don't need to borrow them again I will owe $225 less in loan payments next month.

I do have a few things I need to get money for coming up this month, however: my credit card bill of $41 is due January 17th, I have my Walmart + membership of $55 due on the 31st (even more important now because it gets me free delivery since we no longer have a car), and my daughter does not qualify for medical transportation to any of her medical appointments and we desperately need to get her seen by a neurologist so she has an accurate psychiatric diagnosis, and she has her HRT care and dental care that desperately needs to be taken care of. She also has an appointment for a psychiatric evaluation on January 26th in regards to her disability case that she cannot miss, and I need Uber for that trip. I am getting my food stamps in three days and we have enough food to last us until then, but we will need more help later in the month for food as well.

I'm working on the Amazon wish list, having taken off the Christmas presents I'd had on for my mom and daughter, and I'm currently re-adding a bunch of stuff that I took off to reorganize it. There's going to be a few gifts on there for me because my birthday is January 23rd and there's no money for anything at all for me. Mostly I desperately need the shirts on the list because almost a year ago I got second degree burns and am having trouble wearing most of the stuff I used to own and now need scoop neck and low V-neck shirts and zip-up jackets to wear, but there are a few fun things too.

So yeah. Any help at all would be amazing, whether it's monetary donations or stuff on the wish list. Reblogs are especially helpful as well.

So I am still about $265 and desperately need some help chipping away at as much of that as I can because, while Sally's back sores have healed up somewhat, she's still losing an alarming amount of hair in that area and she's throwing up a lot as well. Any help getting the overdraft covered will give me more money to get her to a vet at some point in early February; otherwise, I will probably have to wait until March.

In other news, we have an apartment inspection on the 27th, so we're doing all the hard work that we had put off after the car accident. I have a ton of organizing, cleaning and furniture building to do, but I think we should manage to get it to the point where we should not only pass but also get them to look at the broken appliances and the garbage disposal, which is a plus.

On that note, as I have mentioned, my birthday is this Friday (45, damn I'm old) and I got an alert I get a free coffee on my birthday, so I'd like to get $35 for an Uber and go super early and do some online stuff I can't do at home and get a coffee and free tea refill after that, then come home and clean. So that would be a lovely gift via PayPal, if anyone is willing

URGENT: PLEASE BOOST & HELP! My Mother And I Were In A Car Accident And Our Car Was Totaled...Still Need Massive Help!

PATREON | KO-FI | GO FUND ME

AMAZON WISHLIST: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2IYLMSXNYF5HY?ref_=wl_share

PAYPAL: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/penaltywaltz

WISE: https://wise.com/pay/me/debralynnb22

Updated January 5th 2026

**Car Accident Info Post Here**

So on December 19th, my mother and I were in a car accident and our car was totaled (info about the accident is linked above). My mother still has massive bruises on her hip but they're healing; however, she's probably got whiplash and her neck, shoulders and back still hurt. I wasn't able to take care of my relatively minor injuries and had to take care of my family on top of that, and I paid for that last week by being in a ton of pain between my injuries and my psoriatic arthritis. Part of my money was finally spent on weighted heating pads and I feel better now.

We managed to get our rent covered and most of our bills paid thanks to a generous donation and help from a friend, but we still need a ton of help. I am currently $245 overdrawn from having to cover some bills and Uber trips I hadn't expected, and then having loan payments come out when my account was mostly empty. However, two of my payday loans are now paid off completely so provided I don't need to borrow them again I will owe $225 less in loan payments next month.

I do have a few things I need to get money for coming up this month, however: my credit card bill of $41 is due January 17th, I have my Walmart + membership of $55 due on the 31st (even more important now because it gets me free delivery since we no longer have a car), and my daughter does not qualify for medical transportation to any of her medical appointments and we desperately need to get her seen by a neurologist so she has an accurate psychiatric diagnosis, and she has her HRT care and dental care that desperately needs to be taken care of. She also has an appointment for a psychiatric evaluation on January 26th in regards to her disability case that she cannot miss, and I need Uber for that trip. I am getting my food stamps in three days and we have enough food to last us until then, but we will need more help later in the month for food as well.

I'm working on the Amazon wish list, having taken off the Christmas presents I'd had on for my mom and daughter, and I'm currently re-adding a bunch of stuff that I took off to reorganize it. There's going to be a few gifts on there for me because my birthday is January 23rd and there's no money for anything at all for me. Mostly I desperately need the shirts on the list because almost a year ago I got second degree burns and am having trouble wearing most of the stuff I used to own and now need scoop neck and low V-neck shirts and zip-up jackets to wear, but there are a few fun things too.

So yeah. Any help at all would be amazing, whether it's monetary donations or stuff on the wish list. Reblogs are especially helpful as well.

#mutual aid #signal boost #community aid #urgent #venmo #bills #time sensitive #gofundme #emergency #paypal

So I am still about $265 and desperately need some help chipping away at as much of that as I can because, while Sally's back sores have healed up somewhat, she's still losing an alarming amount of hair in that area and she's throwing up a lot as well. Any help getting the overdraft covered will give me more money to get her to a vet at some point in early February; otherwise, I will probably have to wait until March.

In other news, we have an apartment inspection on the 27th, so we're doing all the hard work that we had put off after the car accident. I have a ton of organizing, cleaning and furniture building to do, but I think we should manage to get it to the point where we should not only pass but also get them to look at the broken appliances and the garbage disposal, which is a plus.

On that note, as I have mentioned, my birthday is this Friday (45, damn I'm old) and I got an alert I get a free coffee on my birthday, so I'd like to get $35 for an Uber and go super early and do some online stuff I can't do at home and get a coffee and free tea refill after that, then come home and clean. So that would be a lovely gift via PayPal, if anyone is willing

sugurucupcake

Hi friends, my car is troubling again and I have no money to travel to work next week. i need just $40 more towards my goal for transportation next week pls pls help me 🙏

I Really can't afford to miss work, any small amount is appreciated. If 4 people send 10$ i can reach my goal 💔

0/40 $

P*yPal

sugurucupcake

Please guys just need 35$ more I'm ready desperate

nanifer

While I still need foor for Roman and the animal, I had a terrible allergic reaction at work and was out for almost a week. I am back at work, however I'm not sure when worker's comp will kick in. My landlords have asked that I have at least $200 to give them by Friday, Oct. 17th. I'll do tarot readings again, just please consider sharing to help a queer afro indigenous person and their family. @scars-of-beauty is opening comissions on her page and can vouch for me being a real person as can a few others if more is needed. I also have pics of me at the hospital, i cant figure out how to censor it but message me and ill send em.

$120. Landlords gave mercy and agreed to extend until Tuesday to pay some of the rent or eviction will happen. I'm nervous, I don't want to lose everything again...

PP: [email protected]

CA: $lokisbignaturals

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Voting ended onOct 21, 2025

nanifer

i'm sorry to tag so much but thank you for sharing! 🫂❤️ @beserkerjewel @lgbtmutualaid @stemmonade @daloy-politsey @tariah23 @paparoach @capricornpropaganda @ankhisms @yekkes @momperlman @donateandreblog @nonbinary-support

#mutual aid #community aid #signal boost #urgent #time sensitive #venmo #bills #paypal #gofundme #emergency

Heeeey, gays n theys! Happy new year!

Just realized I'll need some help to refill some prescriptions before the month finishes:

Antidepressant (Duloxetine): $35

Probiotic (Probid): $25

IB syndrome (Trimeb): $25

$0/80

Kofi

Kofi/pypal charges me a bit for every donation but anything truly helps me

#car accident #burn victim #urgent #signal boost #time sensitive #trans aid #trans mutual aid #queer aid #emergency #lgbt support

URGENT: PLEASE BOOST & HELP! My Mother And I Were In A Car Accident And Our Car Was Totaled...Still Need Massive Help!

PATREON | KO-FI | GO FUND ME

AMAZON WISHLIST: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2IYLMSXNYF5HY?ref_=wl_share

PAYPAL: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/penaltywaltz

WISE: https://wise.com/pay/me/debralynnb22

Updated January 5th 2026

**Car Accident Info Post Here**

So on December 19th, my mother and I were in a car accident and our car was totaled (info about the accident is linked above). My mother still has massive bruises on her hip but they're healing; however, she's probably got whiplash and her neck, shoulders and back still hurt. I wasn't able to take care of my relatively minor injuries and had to take care of my family on top of that, and I paid for that last week by being in a ton of pain between my injuries and my psoriatic arthritis. Part of my money was finally spent on weighted heating pads and I feel better now.

We managed to get our rent covered and most of our bills paid thanks to a generous donation and help from a friend, but we still need a ton of help. I am currently $245 overdrawn from having to cover some bills and Uber trips I hadn't expected, and then having loan payments come out when my account was mostly empty. However, two of my payday loans are now paid off completely so provided I don't need to borrow them again I will owe $225 less in loan payments next month.

I do have a few things I need to get money for coming up this month, however: my credit card bill of $41 is due January 17th, I have my Walmart + membership of $55 due on the 31st (even more important now because it gets me free delivery since we no longer have a car), and my daughter does not qualify for medical transportation to any of her medical appointments and we desperately need to get her seen by a neurologist so she has an accurate psychiatric diagnosis, and she has her HRT care and dental care that desperately needs to be taken care of. She also has an appointment for a psychiatric evaluation on January 26th in regards to her disability case that she cannot miss, and I need Uber for that trip. I am getting my food stamps in three days and we have enough food to last us until then, but we will need more help later in the month for food as well.

I'm working on the Amazon wish list, having taken off the Christmas presents I'd had on for my mom and daughter, and I'm currently re-adding a bunch of stuff that I took off to reorganize it. There's going to be a few gifts on there for me because my birthday is January 23rd and there's no money for anything at all for me. Mostly I desperately need the shirts on the list because almost a year ago I got second degree burns and am having trouble wearing most of the stuff I used to own and now need scoop neck and low V-neck shirts and zip-up jackets to wear, but there are a few fun things too.

So yeah. Any help at all would be amazing, whether it's monetary donations or stuff on the wish list. Reblogs are especially helpful as well.

URGENT: PLEASE BOOST & HELP! My Mother And I Were In A Car Accident And Our Car Was Totaled...Still Need Massive Help!

PATREON | KO-FI | GO FUND ME

AMAZON WISHLIST: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2IYLMSXNYF5HY?ref_=wl_share

PAYPAL: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/penaltywaltz

WISE: https://wise.com/pay/me/debralynnb22

Updated January 5th 2026

**Car Accident Info Post Here**

So on December 19th, my mother and I were in a car accident and our car was totaled (info about the accident is linked above). My mother still has massive bruises on her hip but they're healing; however, she's probably got whiplash and her neck, shoulders and back still hurt. I wasn't able to take care of my relatively minor injuries and had to take care of my family on top of that, and I paid for that last week by being in a ton of pain between my injuries and my psoriatic arthritis. Part of my money was finally spent on weighted heating pads and I feel better now.

We managed to get our rent covered and most of our bills paid thanks to a generous donation and help from a friend, but we still need a ton of help. I am currently $245 overdrawn from having to cover some bills and Uber trips I hadn't expected, and then having loan payments come out when my account was mostly empty. However, two of my payday loans are now paid off completely so provided I don't need to borrow them again I will owe $225 less in loan payments next month.

I do have a few things I need to get money for coming up this month, however: my credit card bill of $41 is due January 17th, I have my Walmart + membership of $55 due on the 31st (even more important now because it gets me free delivery since we no longer have a car), and my daughter does not qualify for medical transportation to any of her medical appointments and we desperately need to get her seen by a neurologist so she has an accurate psychiatric diagnosis, and she has her HRT care and dental care that desperately needs to be taken care of. She also has an appointment for a psychiatric evaluation on January 26th in regards to her disability case that she cannot miss, and I need Uber for that trip. I am getting my food stamps in three days and we have enough food to last us until then, but we will need more help later in the month for food as well.

I'm working on the Amazon wish list, having taken off the Christmas presents I'd had on for my mom and daughter, and I'm currently re-adding a bunch of stuff that I took off to reorganize it. There's going to be a few gifts on there for me because my birthday is January 23rd and there's no money for anything at all for me. Mostly I desperately need the shirts on the list because almost a year ago I got second degree burns and am having trouble wearing most of the stuff I used to own and now need scoop neck and low V-neck shirts and zip-up jackets to wear, but there are a few fun things too.

So yeah. Any help at all would be amazing, whether it's monetary donations or stuff on the wish list. Reblogs are especially helpful as well.

URGENT: PLEASE BOOST & HELP! My Mother And I Were In A Car Accident And Our Car Was Totaled...Need Massive Help!

PATREON | KO-FI | GO FUND ME

AMAZON WISHLIST: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2IYLMSXNYF5HY?ref_=wl_share

PAYPAL: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/ladycat242

WISE: https://wise.com/pay/me/debralynnb22

Updated December 19th 2025

So we're finally back home now, but about seven hours ago as of this posting, we were in a pretty bad car accident. We were, ironically, on our way to my mom's doctor to follow up on her discharge from the hospital earlier this week, and now she'll have to be seen for two separate ER visits, plus i have to figure out how to see my doctor, too (bless the person who took my call and told me my medical clinic has a free ride program for patients in a 14 mile radius...I just now have to get up early on Monday and make an appointment, but I don't need to wait two days for medical transport from my insurance at least)

My mom had neck pain and hip pain, and she's currently got a huge bruise on her hip because her car door was pushed in about six to eight inches from the impact. They actually had to saw off the door to be able to get it towed; fortunately, she was able to crawl over and get out on my side.

The woman who hit us was an older woman complaining of chest pain who started having a panic attack in front of me as I was fielding calls about the accident from the sheriff's office so they would know what to expect, but I was level-headed enough to try calling her son and daughter-in-law for her so they were aware of what happened. I got voicemails initially but the son did call back while the sheriffs were there, so he got details from them.

I was running on so much adrenaline I didn't realize how badly injured I was until about two hours after the fact. I ended up not being around my mom the first hour and a half I was there and then finally went into the ER after filing a claim and updating my mom's Facebook and informing my sister of what happened so they wouldn't worry. Nothing is broken, but my knee is banged up, my hips/lower back/right shoulder all hurt, and I still had to come home and make two different dinners and I have to clean out the tub before I can go soak in it, so I am stressed and tried and fucking sore.

Our car is absolutely totaled. As I said, they had to saw it off because of how far in it was pushed. I managed to get them to unlock all the doors so i could get my mom's walker out of the trunk, or else she'd be a complete shut-in because she has to use it when going outside our apartment. And the worst part is we just cut back on our insurance last month to save money, so we won't be able to get a rental car, and we may not get a payout from the insurance of the woman who hit us on top of things. So, we're really stressed right now.

On top of that, PayPal is fucking with both my mom's bank account and her PayPal account. They initially charged her $150 in two transaction and her bank declined them, so PayPal took them out of her balance and charged her two more times for $30 worth of charge. Her bank rejected those as well, so my mom's PayPal account is now $230 overdrawn for some weird reason. But on top of that, they pushed the $150 in charges again, so right now my mom is currently $451 for charges they're already taking out of her PayPal balance. So now PayPal is fucking us over as badly as her bank. Plus, I need $87 in my account in the next week to cover my PayPal overdraft or they'll send it to collections.

I'm just so tired of it all. I'm tired of things looking up a little and life kicking me while I'm down multiple times. I just...we need help. We need serious help. So please help if you can and reblog if you can't?

Sorry I didn't update sooner; I was trying to get all my Christmas posts up before the holiday was over, and my laptop is dead (for now) so I've been stuck on my phone and carpal tunnel/arthritis in my hands and wrists makes typing in general harder but it's worse on my phone.

Good news first: we got the car taken care of with the towing company. It ended up being the slightly higher amount, but they did waive the $300 in storage fees and I got to do one last check to make sure we got everything plus I took the disabled plates and my mom's favorite license plate holder off (we can turn the disabled plates into our local AAA and swap them out when we get a new car).

Also good news: my overdraft and PayPal debt have been covered, along with a few smaller bills that needed to be paid, and I negotiated smaller payments on some loans I have upcoming payments for.

Now the bad news: I can't use my laptop right now at all. The laptop keyboard is barely responsive (half the keys don't register they've been pushed when I push them). Most of my money in January is going to rent and my few loan payments/storage unit payment/internet & electricity, so I need to come up with some money to get it looked at. It's not a major issue, but it's going to make my hands hurt a lot more to be stuck on my phone. So any help covering that on top of saving up for Uber rides to get my daughter her medical treaments/saving up for a new car would be much appreciated.

So to add to everything else that has gone wrong, my phone's call volume is so quiet I can barely hear my incoming calls, and my phone bill is dues today and funds are tied up. If anyone can help immediately via my PayPal (my mom currently owes PayPal $275 on the account linked above), my direct PayPal account is https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/penaltywaltz. I'm looking to raise about $175 for the new phone, a cheap case and the bill. Walmart gift cards of up to $125 for the phone/case would also be a huge help, as I use Walmart's Straight Talk plan.

I just got $30 via PayPal! Thank you so much! I'm literally under a dollar away from being able to pay my phone bill right now.

URGENT: PLEASE BOOST & HELP! My Mother And I Were In A Car Accident And Our Car Was Totaled...Need Massive Help!

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Updated December 19th 2025

So we're finally back home now, but about seven hours ago as of this posting, we were in a pretty bad car accident. We were, ironically, on our way to my mom's doctor to follow up on her discharge from the hospital earlier this week, and now she'll have to be seen for two separate ER visits, plus i have to figure out how to see my doctor, too (bless the person who took my call and told me my medical clinic has a free ride program for patients in a 14 mile radius...I just now have to get up early on Monday and make an appointment, but I don't need to wait two days for medical transport from my insurance at least)

My mom had neck pain and hip pain, and she's currently got a huge bruise on her hip because her car door was pushed in about six to eight inches from the impact. They actually had to saw off the door to be able to get it towed; fortunately, she was able to crawl over and get out on my side.

The woman who hit us was an older woman complaining of chest pain who started having a panic attack in front of me as I was fielding calls about the accident from the sheriff's office so they would know what to expect, but I was level-headed enough to try calling her son and daughter-in-law for her so they were aware of what happened. I got voicemails initially but the son did call back while the sheriffs were there, so he got details from them.

I was running on so much adrenaline I didn't realize how badly injured I was until about two hours after the fact. I ended up not being around my mom the first hour and a half I was there and then finally went into the ER after filing a claim and updating my mom's Facebook and informing my sister of what happened so they wouldn't worry. Nothing is broken, but my knee is banged up, my hips/lower back/right shoulder all hurt, and I still had to come home and make two different dinners and I have to clean out the tub before I can go soak in it, so I am stressed and tried and fucking sore.

Our car is absolutely totaled. As I said, they had to saw it off because of how far in it was pushed. I managed to get them to unlock all the doors so i could get my mom's walker out of the trunk, or else she'd be a complete shut-in because she has to use it when going outside our apartment. And the worst part is we just cut back on our insurance last month to save money, so we won't be able to get a rental car, and we may not get a payout from the insurance of the woman who hit us on top of things. So, we're really stressed right now.

On top of that, PayPal is fucking with both my mom's bank account and her PayPal account. They initially charged her $150 in two transaction and her bank declined them, so PayPal took them out of her balance and charged her two more times for $30 worth of charge. Her bank rejected those as well, so my mom's PayPal account is now $230 overdrawn for some weird reason. But on top of that, they pushed the $150 in charges again, so right now my mom is currently $451 for charges they're already taking out of her PayPal balance. So now PayPal is fucking us over as badly as her bank. Plus, I need $87 in my account in the next week to cover my PayPal overdraft or they'll send it to collections.

I'm just so tired of it all. I'm tired of things looking up a little and life kicking me while I'm down multiple times. I just...we need help. We need serious help. So please help if you can and reblog if you can't?

Sorry I didn't update sooner; I was trying to get all my Christmas posts up before the holiday was over, and my laptop is dead (for now) so I've been stuck on my phone and carpal tunnel/arthritis in my hands and wrists makes typing in general harder but it's worse on my phone.

Good news first: we got the car taken care of with the towing company. It ended up being the slightly higher amount, but they did waive the $300 in storage fees and I got to do one last check to make sure we got everything plus I took the disabled plates and my mom's favorite license plate holder off (we can turn the disabled plates into our local AAA and swap them out when we get a new car).

Also good news: my overdraft and PayPal debt have been covered, along with a few smaller bills that needed to be paid, and I negotiated smaller payments on some loans I have upcoming payments for.

Now the bad news: I can't use my laptop right now at all. The laptop keyboard is barely responsive (half the keys don't register they've been pushed when I push them). Most of my money in January is going to rent and my few loan payments/storage unit payment/internet & electricity, so I need to come up with some money to get it looked at. It's not a major issue, but it's going to make my hands hurt a lot more to be stuck on my phone. So any help covering that on top of saving up for Uber rides to get my daughter her medical treaments/saving up for a new car would be much appreciated.

So to add to everything else that has gone wrong, my phone's call volume is so quiet I can barely hear my incoming calls, and my phone bill is dues today and funds are tied up. If anyone can help immediately via my PayPal (my mom currently owes PayPal $275 on the account linked above), my direct PayPal account is https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/penaltywaltz. I'm looking to raise about $175 for the new phone, a cheap case and the bill. Walmart gift cards of up to $125 for the phone/case would also be a huge help, as I use Walmart's Straight Talk plan.

I just got $30 via PayPal! Thank you so much! I'm literally under a dollar away from being able to pay my phone bill right now.

strawhatsufi

hi everyone im making a post for my friend/collaborator/sister @prrkxentrrkrr3 who as an immigrant is not covered by national health insurance yet who still needs a major surgery for a health condition that leaves her in constant pain.

the short version is she needs all her teeth removed and replaced with all-in-4's, and while she's put a few thousand dollars away for this, her campaign has been stalling for months and she's not even making enough to live off of and she needs to dig into that savings for rent and stuff.

i would like to raise $1200 for her by christmas which i know is a long shot but you miss every goal you don't shoot

support her here

aa yes it me hi. 105$ so far

130$

230$ with a week until christmas

270$.... still a pipe dream but what if we got me to half the original goal.... $600....

hi everyone. good news is i got my old account back, bad news is that because i didn't have this account, i came in WAY under target last month.

i'm a chronically homeless disabled trans woman with severe autism and ptsd, and i rely entirely on the support of friends on this shit website. and i'm also out a few hundred dollars because of loans i made to other ebeggars on here

let's set a smaller goal i need a win

0/500$

support my very very very very small business