URGENT: PLEASE BOOST & HELP! My Mother And I Were In A Car Accident And Our Car Was Totaled...Need Massive Help!
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Updated December 19th 2025
So we're finally back home now, but about seven hours ago as of this posting, we were in a pretty bad car accident. We were, ironically, on our way to my mom's doctor to follow up on her discharge from the hospital earlier this week, and now she'll have to be seen for two separate ER visits, plus i have to figure out how to see my doctor, too (bless the person who took my call and told me my medical clinic has a free ride program for patients in a 14 mile radius...I just now have to get up early on Monday and make an appointment, but I don't need to wait two days for medical transport from my insurance at least)
My mom had neck pain and hip pain, and she's currently got a huge bruise on her hip because her car door was pushed in about six to eight inches from the impact. They actually had to saw off the door to be able to get it towed; fortunately, she was able to crawl over and get out on my side.
The woman who hit us was an older woman complaining of chest pain who started having a panic attack in front of me as I was fielding calls about the accident from the sheriff's office so they would know what to expect, but I was level-headed enough to try calling her son and daughter-in-law for her so they were aware of what happened. I got voicemails initially but the son did call back while the sheriffs were there, so he got details from them.
I was running on so much adrenaline I didn't realize how badly injured I was until about two hours after the fact. I ended up not being around my mom the first hour and a half I was there and then finally went into the ER after filing a claim and updating my mom's Facebook and informing my sister of what happened so they wouldn't worry. Nothing is broken, but my knee is banged up, my hips/lower back/right shoulder all hurt, and I still had to come home and make two different dinners and I have to clean out the tub before I can go soak in it, so I am stressed and tried and fucking sore.
Our car is absolutely totaled. As I said, they had to saw it off because of how far in it was pushed. I managed to get them to unlock all the doors so i could get my mom's walker out of the trunk, or else she'd be a complete shut-in because she has to use it when going outside our apartment. And the worst part is we just cut back on our insurance last month to save money, so we won't be able to get a rental car, and we may not get a payout from the insurance of the woman who hit us on top of things. So, we're really stressed right now.
On top of that, PayPal is fucking with both my mom's bank account and her PayPal account. They initially charged her $150 in two transaction and her bank declined them, so PayPal took them out of her balance and charged her two more times for $30 worth of charge. Her bank rejected those as well, so my mom's PayPal account is now $230 overdrawn for some weird reason. But on top of that, they pushed the $150 in charges again, so right now my mom is currently $451 for charges they're already taking out of her PayPal balance. So now PayPal is fucking us over as badly as her bank. Plus, I need $87 in my account in the next week to cover my PayPal overdraft or they'll send it to collections.
I'm just so tired of it all. I'm tired of things looking up a little and life kicking me while I'm down multiple times. I just...we need help. We need serious help. So please help if you can and reblog if you can't?