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“What is a normal house?”

This was, with no hesitationj or doubt, classified as a genious question.

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Vi ska akta oss för att ge andra ansvar för våra känslor & vi kan aldrig förvänta oss att människor ska vara andra än de är, det enda vi kan göra är att vara medvetna & anpassa vårt eget agerande. Folk förändras sällan & långsamt & så gott som aldrig efter andras önskemål är min erfarenhet. Det är lätt att bli upprörd på olika vis över andra människors agerande men i de flesta fall är agerandet inte ens riktat mot oss utan personen agerar utefter sina egna intressen, sedan triggar det en känsla i oss & vips så blir det personligt. För mig är det väldigt hjälpsamt att se varifrån människor kommer; vad har de för referensramar, vilka känslor ligger nära till hands för dem & inverkar på deras agerande, hur är de vana att bli bemötta av omvärlden, vad har varit normal i deras liv, vilka värden har de blivit uppfostrade med osv osv osv.

#konflikthantering #LaFrida #känslor

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Follow your heart <3

My brother sent me this one, we share a passion for dumpster diving.

introvertunites

If you’re an introvert, follow @introvertunites.

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Hug your introvert today, but wait until they are ready :)

I’m currently reading this book that is unexpectedly exciting. There are dying goods, immortal humans, perfume, beets & a journey through time & places around the globe. I find it inspiring in a way I couldn’t imagine from reading the back cover & I warmly recommend you to read it.

#Books

Find a new way.

When I ask for something I try to present my need rather than my solution to leave the possibility of inspiration & learning open. If I for example need to cut a piece of string my first instinct would be to ask for a pair of scissors. If the person I ask don’t have scissors my string might still be uncut to this day. If I instead explain that I need to cut this string I might be presented with a new solution - a knife, a flame, a sharp rock, teeth... - & next time I find myself without scissors I might have a new way to handle the situation.

To present the need rather than the solution keeps a door open for new solutions.

#LaFrida #my thoughts

Thailand 2014

a head full of dreams has no space for fears!

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a head full of fears has no space for dreams

Mantra for Joy: Aad Pooran Sit. Relax. Listen. You are absolutely perfect. You always were perfect. You are utterly complete and whole. And the highest of th...

Aad Pooran Madh Pooran Ant Pooran Paramaysureh

Forever nerver.

A dear, adored, important person left my side today. I was sad that our part of my life is over & I wept silently.

Then I remebered that it’s never over. I lived it & therefore it is forever a part of my life.

I still miss you but I’ll always have you.

frecklenog

Love is a beautiful thing.

We often come across people sharing their views of how love in relationships should be; exclusive, open, gender based, closed, symbiotic...& so on with as many different opinions as we are people.

Why do we feel it’s important that others share our view of what’s right & wrong, good & bad? Why do we like to preach, judge, lecture, praise, condemn? Instead remember the essence - avoid causing suffering.

Love is a beautiful thing, just pray & hope we will experience a lot of it. In infinite different shapes & shades. Receive it when we get it, give it when we have it, feel it, live it, be it. Love is for all of us in any way that is right for us.

<3

No clear idea, a little bit of this & a little bit of that

Was told this is my approach to life, I agree.