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2013 - MBA graduation in 2013 with parents - Dubai UAE
Adam is turning 3 this coming 10th July 2020. How time flies.
Gemini season 2020 ended
A good looking woman with brains, a very interesting person. She has a fast movement and she could not sit still or stand still long. She is able to do many things at the same time and do it fast. If you date her, you will feel like dating many women at the same time. You can not tie her down with the word “Love” because she cares about love but is it not a major factor of her life. You have to be able to adjust yourself to get along with her many different characters. She is a dreamer and has many dreams. She is eager to learn something new all the time. Even she is the 2 in 1 mixed character type, she is quite lucky in love. You have to put all your efforts to win her affection. Even when she likes you and wonder about your wit, she will also see and inspect your bad side at the same time, because it is in her nature. She able to keep all kinds of mixed emotions without annoying you or letting you know at all. She can cheer you up by acting like a free little bird. Her conversation will not bore you. She is able to talk to you in any subjects. She can make you feel like you are the luckiest man alive. She can make you feel like she needs all your care, but once she needs to stand alone, she can stand alone firmly and comfortably. She can be your best buddy and talk to you about anything. She can join all your activities with the same energy that you have. She is a quick a wit person and learn new things very fast. She can see your projects and she can give you good advice. If she thinks you are not sure that you want her for yourself, she will act like your best friend only, a cool woman. She can easily make a guy fall in love with her. Her multiple changes and many moods is a “Charm” for many men. She can be laughing for 2 minutes and later suddenly quiet. She wants to find only 1 true love and she wants to meet her dream guy. She expects a lot and nearly too much. She is constantly waiting for her knight shinning armor even she is with a steady boyfriend. She can fall in love or fond of someone else while she is with you. If you break up with her, she will forget you quite fast, because change is in her nature. The Gemini woman breaks more heart than woman in other Zodiac. Because she is a dreamer and always waiting for her knight shinning armor, so her love life can be complex or a mess. She hates to write a long letter, so if you write her a letter and expect a prompt reply, forget it. Because she has a multiple personality and multiple ideas, so she hates to put them down in written proof. Because she knows what she belief today can be different tomorrow. She could communication with more than 1 language, a real gifted linguistic. If she wants to tell you any bad comments, she won’t say it straight away, but she will talk to you about many other things and accidentally come to that subject without offending you. Normally she will not lie. She will work hard and once a while take a long rest. She can get bored and tired with her own surrounding more than at work. She never feels content with her present work, money, or reputations; she will drive to have more. Don’t ask her what is her ultimate contentment for she will not have an answer. Once you get to know her, she will be a supportive person and always be beside you. She has a beautiful dream and she loves to have someone walk side by side with her, together and equally.
3years of bipolar blogging
FuchsiaFudge ramblings turned 3 today! We hope it was a great year, and we look forward to sharing many more!
Unfriendship friendship?!
Conversation: X: Don't ever forget that somethings which has been said cannot be unsaid...... Y: If they seek apology, will u accept? X: of course. with an open heart and open mind. Janji ikhlas.. but for most people.. ego gets into their way.. sedih. Y: I know...faced the same issue. Took the person 100days to apologize, whereby it allows you to built hatred within the same time. Oh well, some ppl prefer to swallow their ego instead of salvaging the friendship. We’ve all been guilty at one time or another of allowing our tongue to rule a situation. Once words are spoken, they cannot be recanted. Their fury often hurts or even destroys relationships and friendship. We can’t even imagine that we would ever allow our tongue to be disruptive and out of control. Oh, but we do allow it to happen……. We may realize that we have no filters at times. We may speak our mind, be very impulsive and possibly brutally honest. But I'm convinced that we never, and let me repeat never speak with intensions to hurt, harm, disrupt, or interfere, but words we’ve spoken in the past may have been interpreted as such. The one thing I can say in all honesty is Allah truly knows our heart and it’s true intentions, and that should comfort us. We all are far from perfect, but Allah did make us the way we are, our personality, our quick verbal responses, and our aggressiveness. We may speak out of anger or disappointment and regret those words later. We may raise our voice out of determination to make our point known, without regards to how the other person feels....just place ourselves in the shoes of the receiver of our words. .........m scared to be hurt with that snappy 'F***...' statement again. But I know the apology was a sincere.
I won't settle for less.....
Huh? What do you mean?!:) Well to me, it means I won't accept less than I'm able to realistically obtain given what I have to offer. Now then, I'm happy being alone or just dating until such time as someone enters my life whom I cannot just live with, but would not want to live without. ~Being someone who is worthy of you and you are worthy of him.~ I am far from rigid about my expectations, but I do have minimal standards which I won't compromise (e.g., I won't accept anyone who gamble, for instance). If someone is offended by my standards, it is usually because they don't meet them:) I will only date men who respect themselves and respect others too. Just because men assume I live alone it means I desperately want them in my life…….that’s not true Yes men seem to think that way. Its like they think I’m going to settle. There are some things you will put up with and some things that are no big deal I work hard to pay my bills, holidays, re-current shopping I splurge myself & family with good and fine things in life. I treat my family & friends expensive birthday gift, if I want and can afford it I won’t date a man who is too lazy to work. Now, I’m not talking about men who lost their job of no fault of their own. Just lazy men who don’t want to work. I won’t date a man who constantly gets sensitive over small petty stuff. I won’t date a man who does drugs I won’t date a slob (good-for-nothing) I won’t date a man that no one and I mean no one likes. That’s a RED warning sign right there. As long he knows what respect is and follows it, then I have no problem. Ladies out there, never settle for less than you deserve. Let the great X-factor plays its role and must always believe Allah has plan for us.:) I know age is catching up and I’m not getting any younger (celebrated my birthday 4 days back), but why settle if you’re not happy? Life is too short to NOT be happy. I’m imperfect person and I don’t wish for a perfect person. I just want someone to act silly with, someone who treats me well and loves being with me more than anything. < -----okay, this is my lil prayer every night before I go to sleep. I won’t give up on us, Mr X! (whoever you are) :p
Life is too short....
There comes a time in life when you have to let go of all the pointless drama and the people who create it and surround yourself with people who make you laugh so hard that you forget the bad and focus solely on the good. After all, life is too short to be anything but happy.
We had a fantabulous day today. Whole day outing with some dear friends to Al Ain - picnic at Jebel Hafeet and 'educational trip' to the Zoo.
I hope someone will come out with some great outing idea soon...Winter is soooo pleasant to be wasted INDOOR!
How to spot a Narcissist? in details....
By Samuel López De Victoria, Ph.D.
At the core of extreme narcissism is egotistical preoccupation with self, personal preferences, aspirations, needs, success, and how he/she is perceived by others. Some amount of basic narcissism is healthy, of course, but this type of narcissism is better termed as responsibly taking care of oneself. It is what I would call “normal” or “healthy” narcissism. Extreme narcissists tend to be persons who move towards eventually cutting others off and becoming emotionally isolated. There are all types of levels on that road to isolation. Narcissists come in all shapes, sizes, and degrees. I would like to address how a person becomes an extreme narcissist. Narcissism, in lay terms, basically means that a person is totally absorbed in self. The extreme narcissist is the center of his own universe. To an extreme narcissist, people are things to be used. It usually starts with a significant emotional wound or a series of them culminating in a major trauma of separation/attachment. No matter how socially skilled an extreme narcissist is, he has a major attachment dysfunction. The extreme narcissist is frozen in childhood. He became emotionally stuck at the time of his major trauma of separation/attachment. In my work with extreme narcissist patients I have found that their emotional age and maturity corresponds to the age they experienced their major trauma. This trauma was devastating to the point it almost killed that person emotionally. The pain never was totally gone and the bleeding was continuous. In order to survive, this child had to construct a protective barrier that insulates him/her from the external world of people. He generalized that all people are harmful and cannot be trusted. The protective insulation barrier he constructed is called a false persona. He created a false identity. This identity is not the true person inside. The many types of false personas or identities that an extreme narcissist creates can vary.
Some narcissists may have the ability to change into a variety of identities according to the situation. The wounded child inside may choose to present a front as a “bad ass” and tough individual. He may look, by appearance, intimidating and scary to the average person. He could also play the “nice guy/person” whom everyone likes. A corporate type version can be one that is diplomatic, proper, and appearing to care but in reality does not. Another very likeable extreme narcissist can be the one that chooses the comedian role. He is the life of the party and has everyone in stitches, making them laugh constantly. Everyone wants to include this person because they are a lot of fun. Try to get close or ask personal questions as to how he is internally doing and feeling and you will find is that he will quickly distract you. They will sidestep the question with another joke, making you suddenly forget what you were asking. Narcissists can be very skilled at dodging and ducking personal questions. If you press them, they will then slot you as “unsafe” and will begin to avoid you and exclude you from their life. There is also the success oriented narcissist. She will be your friend and keep you close to her as long as you are useful. Once you do not have anything more to offer and she has taken all they wanted from you, you are history. You are no longer desired, wanted, or sought. I remember a significant half dozen of these in my life. One narcissist in particular avoids me like the plague because he knows that I do not ultimately plan my life around whether people like me or not. Hence my behavior cannot be controlled by him. He is threatened by my self-assuredness. I’m not safe to him. It does not matter that I have helped him in critical moments of his life. When he realized that he could not control me to make him look good when I was with him, he dropped me like a heavy weight. I received no more phone calls and was taken off his radar screen.
Another extreme narcissist stopped calling me when I got my Ph.D. I believe that, in his insecurity, he could no longer look “better” than me and be the focal person. As a result, he felt threatened that I had a more powerful image than he did. I think it is silly because I do not care about whether people have degrees to validate their intrinsic value as a human being. In my ministerial past, I have had several colleagues that I considered to be like blood brothers. We had sworn honesty and loyalty to each other. Once I opened up my weaknesses to them and then asked them to reciprocate, they looked for excuses to label me and reject me. The more I pressed them about their lack of being forthcoming and failing at their own promise of commitment to the friendship, the more vehement they became at avoiding disclosure of their warts to me. Of course, I already knew many of their flaws and already had no problem accepting them. Now it was their turn and they shut down and put up the thick wall. This is what genuine narcissists do. This is sad but it happens all the time with individuals that are scared to go down the road to becoming whole and healthy. It is like going under the knife of a surgeon. When there is a legitimate organic threat as with a malignant tumor, it can be hard to submit to the truth and then the treatment. This, however, is a door to a better life. Is there hope for an extreme narcissist living in an emotional and relational fort of isolation. Is a narcissist able to have a healthy life? Definitely!
I’ve seen many extreme narcissists become extremely healthy in their emotional and relational life. The first step is to find competent and safe help that knows how to heal emotional traumas. Just because a counselor may have all kinds of credentials it does not mean they are competent in dealing effectively with trauma issues. Because extreme narcissists tend to have an early history of emotional wounds they are full of distrust. If they can get past this hurdle then they can begin to find help to heal. Second, extreme narcissists have to be willing to enter the realm of their feelings again. They have been the masters of covering and hiding, even to themselves. They now have to start uncovering painful wounds. They have taught themselves to stuff and disconnect their own feelings for years. Because of this, they tend to live inside their heads, in the realm of so called reason.
They are likely to live in the world of rational principles, laws, rules, which are all linear. This domain is a realm they feel they can control. It is devoid of feelings. The realm of the heart or feelings is very intimidating and unsafe to them because it is non-linear and there is very little control of the outcomes. If extreme narcissists can overcome these two hurdles then there is much hope for them. They are on their road to healing.
This is interesting, I wanna be in this flight for a change. @nisaisma
Isn't she adorable?!...and her statement...whooppaa!
READ this: reality check! Thank you @AjaxShams
Sedih dengan mentaliti sesetengah orang kita. Terasa diri hebat, nak tegur secara terbuka di FB+Twitter. Kan ke lebih baik PM/DM dan bagitau apa yang salah supaya yang ditegur tak terasa aibnya. In the end, semua manusia cuba menuju jalan yang satu. Tak perlu outdo each other sebab wut we r seeking for adalah sama, dat is barakahNya.
Lunar Eclipse in Dubai
Currently I'm blogging away with my macbook watching the Lunar Eclipse from my apartment balcony (luckily I'm on a high floor). I'm blessed to witness the most beautiful full moon being covered by Earth's shadow...well, the moon is hiding now!!
Do you know that Middle-East is one of the best places to see it? Here in Dubai especially. I guess if you're out in the desert, the view would be magnificent.
Based from the internet info, the total eclipse starts 11.21pm (NOW!) until 1:05am. It will ends by 2.05am.
How I wish to have a DSLR camera and someone on my side now..romantic moment, hiks!
Being Happy (Part deux)
Being Happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect but actually it means that YOU (me, myself & I) have choose to look beyond the imperfections.
I used to know this person before, XX and I used to be SO jealous of her perfect life. But when I got to know her better, I realized her life wasn’t perfect, even though it appeared that way. And she wasn’t trying to fake us out in any way. It was just a personal thing she chose not to disclose. Her life was not perfect, even though it appeared that way sometimes.
Basically - there’s always more than the pretty pictures. It doesn’t always mean there’s bitter conflict in their lives, it just means the not-perfect stuff is not always put out there, for numerous reasons.
I know it’s hard to think of it that way sometimes, but try to remember that when negative aura starts to blanket you.
The Haters
Someone will hate you for no obvious reason
Someone will point out all of your grammar mistakes.
Someone will hate your style
Someone will hate the way you LOOK. Allah is GREAT, remember that!
Someone will questioning on how you make,spend and save your money
Someone will be positively horrible, mean, nasty. About how you lead your life? *why I'm still single?!*
It is totally endless. I’ve experienced them all. All of them sting, feel like a punch to the gut, some shed tears.
All, in the end, are borne out of their inner self, inferiority complex, frustration, jealously, anger, boredom, exhaustion or just plain sadness.
No matter how much they hurt, remember that 'friend' or 'lover' who subtly puts you down to build themselves UP...let them go.
Being Happy
In general, I’m just a happy person. I hate being in a bad mood – HATE IT. Being depressed makes me…well…depressed. (Brilliant. I know:))My Zodiac facts of the day...#Geminis, like to enjoy life and experience every thing that life has to offer.
New blog?...maybe:p
Loving my new microblogging site..check out my tumblr page!!
High tea is one of my favorite past times. yummss!
My Dubai friends at Lanvin H&M event last year. We shopped till we drop. I miss this two ladies, Arnie + Sabira.