most bisexuals i know and i identify as bi because im attracted to ALL genders, but someones gender does play a part in my attraction? like some bisexuals are attracted to some genders more than others and some bisexuals find a certain quality attractive only in one or some genders, etc. thats what makes bisexuality different from pansexuality. even if bisexuality once meant attraction to two genders, it doesnt anymore.
see thats my idea behind it too. like pansexuals are regardless of gender, but tbh i like the genders differently, and it DOES matter to me. but apparently i'm an oppressive, exploitative asswipe bc of that oops













