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Goodbye!!
Sadly I have to leave my Tumblr because my vanilla job has me well off right now and I no longer need the sex work career. Don't get me wrong I loved every minute of it. I learned so much from this life and the people in it especially my fellow sugar Tumblrs. I wish all the best and hope nothing but success for you all. Goodbye!!!
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Am I the only one who thinks that Real Housewives shows and Love and Hip-hop shows are filled with sugar babies and trophy wives?
The Full Potential Challenge
Ever wonder what your life would be like if you lived up to your full potential? Would your body be healthier? Your skin clearer? Bank account bigger? I think about these things all the time, and, judging my a previous post, you guys do to. Below is a chart designed to help all of us live up to our full potential. I’ve broken it down into time frames to help keep you from getting overwhelmed. Write the chart down and hang it someplace where you can see it all the time. I will be starting this challenge tomorrow, 9/8. I’ll check in with you guys every Sunday to track my progress. I have specific goals in mind for myself, and you guys should make some too! I really want to know how you guys are doing. Tag your progress posts with #sbfpc so I can track it and take a look. Let’s get to it!
EVERY MORNING
Stretch. First thing. Really give your body enough time to wake up. Touch your toes. Roll out your shoulders. Do not hit snooze!
Do your full skincare routine. I have mine detailed here, but do whatever works for you and your complexion. Be gentle and consistent.
Brush your teeth and floss. I used to be a big floss-skipper too, but you’d be amazed at how dig of a difference it makes. Rinse with a whitening mouthwash. I use one by Crest, and I notice a major difference in my teeth’s overall whiteness in just a few days.
Give yourself enough time to get ready. Whether you’re a wash-and-go kind of girl, or someone who spends an hour doing a full contouring routine before class (and either one is fine!), make sure you aren’t rushing. If you need to wake up a few minutes earlier than normal, so be it. Rushing sets an awful, stressed-out tone for the rest of the day. Allow yourself to be relaxed before taking on the day.
Eat something. I’m not going to say eat a big breakfast, because some people (myself included) just can’t eat in the morning. But you should eat, or at least bring a little something with you to work or school. If you can’t eat a full breakfast, grab a fruit! You won’t be as hungry come lunch time, making you less likely to gorge yourself.
Shower. You can do this at night, in the morning, whatever. Again, this is something you should allow some time for. I don’t wash my hair every day, but I do condition it every day (from the ears down). Scrub yourself with a delicious-smelling body wash. If you shave, make yourself as smooth as a dolphin, dude. If you don’t, then don’t and don’t ever ever ever let anyone make you feel bad or weird about it. When you get out of the shower, wrap yourself in a fluffy towel and totally slather your sexy self with lotion. Top to bottom. Do it as soon as you can post-shower so it can really sink in.
Put leave-in condition throughout your damp hair and comb it through.
Put on an outfit that makes you feel good! So important!
Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!
Take a look at your daily to-do list. Knock out the most pressing stuff first. Take pride when you cross things off your list.
Make your bed! Oh my god, make your bed. Do it. Do it. Do it.
EVERY AFTERNOON
Follow the “touch it once” approach. This is a truly life-changing thing. When a task is in front of you, no matter how big or small, just do it right then and there. How many times have you gotten a work email or homework assignment and thought, “Eh, I’ll do it later”? And then later never comes? Once something pops up, do it once. Squash it and be done. Cross things off your list and feel like a badass.
Try to go for a walk at lunch. Even one little lap around the block or campus will reenergize you like nobody’s business.
Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!
Be present. This is so hard for me too, but you have to make a major effort to be present in whatever you’re doing. Be engaged and plugged-in and just exist in the moment. Give 100 percent.
Be friendly to friends and strangers. A smile goes a long way.
Eat something. Eat what you packed for lunch (see below) and take a break from working while you do it. You need “you time”!
EVERY EVENING
Take your makeup off as soon as you’re in for the night. Wash your face with your full routine and let your skin have a break.
Workout. You can also do this in the morning. Whatever works for you. Make a great playlist and go hard af. Get your cardio in. Get your strength training in. Earn every freaking sweat bead forming on your forehead. Earn your shower!
Knock out your homework. Life is infinitely better you don’t have anything hanging over your head. Half the time, the energy and emotion you spent dreading/putting off your work is ten times worse than the work itself.
Make a list of what needs to be done tomorrow. It’ll set you up for success the next day, and you won’t forget anything!
Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!
Lay out your clothes for tomorrow. This will save you SO MUCH TIME in the morning omg I can’t even tell you how important this is.
Eat something great. And once you’ve decided to be done eating for the night, be done. Brush your teeth so you can’t eat again.
After brushing, do a whitening treatment. Whether it’s classic baking soda, a Crest white strip, or a laser. Do something. And floss! Retainers in too, ladies 0:)
Relax! Take a few hours to do what YOU want to do. Scroll through Tumblr, binge on some Netflix, FaceTime gossip with your friends, anything. Do whatever makes you happiest.
Shut the electronics off an hour before you want to go to bed. Put your phone on sleep mode. If you stare at the screen, it will keep you awake and alert and you won’t be able to fall asleep. A good night’s sleep is crucial for weightless and general happiness lol
Do a quick sweep of your room and see if there’s anything you can put away real quick. A clean space is a happy space.
Crawl into your bed (aren’t you happy you took the time to make it?!) and read a book by lamplight for a while. When you start to feel sleepy, go to sleep. Don’t push it. You kicked ass today and you deserve rest.
EVERY WEEKEND
Do something with your friends. It just has to be one thing. Even if you’re just hanging out at the coffee shop, spending time with your squad will make you a better, happier person.
Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!
Do something just for you. Set your laptop up in the bathroom and watch a Netflix marathon while you take a bubble bath. Buy an old school bottle of Mr. Bubbles ($3 at Target!) and really just soak. Relax. Light a candle.
Do something creative. You can read a book, write, blog, draw, code, anything. It just has to be something that speaks to your passion.
Track your progress. Just do this once a week so it doesn’t become all-consuming. And remember that non-scale victories are just as important as shedding pounds.
Take the time to be grateful. Tell your friend how much you admire her taste in music. Mention to your mom how much you love her cooking and how happy you are that she takes care of you. Thank your teaching after an especially interesting lecture. When you do something awesome, take a moment to admire yourself. Be grateful for even the little things.
Anything I missed? Reblog + add yours! Don’t forget to tag your progress!
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Doing Too Much
If you read my blog you probably know that I've been webcamming, escorting, managing escorts, and keeping up with three POTs. Oh and I have a vanilla job. So this weekend my body shut down because I was doing way too much and I also suffer from anxiety. Keeping up with all that stuff stressed me so much that I was bed ridden all weekend and could barely move. That weekend pretty much told me to slow down and focus so I cleaned up my life a little while cleaning up my house (cleaning & organizing calms me). So now I have only two POTs, I'm putting regular relationships on hold, no more Web camming, I'll help girls out but I won't manage them, of course I'm keeping my vanilla job, and I'm going to focus back on being known in my city. Hopefully I can get my life back on the right track while still making good money. Wish me luck ladies. Also enjoy Black Love Day February 13th
*Updated* Ultimate Guide To Being A Sugar Baby
Update: I just updated this on my page but I also have some other really fun news! I now have an instagram and snapchat under the handle hollidayhoney. You can send any private messages and advice to me through Snapchat Texts. I really look forward to talking to you guys soon!
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The Ultimate Guide To Being a Sugar Baby
Opinion Pieces
Staying Humble And Gracious How Being A Bad Bitch Hurts Your Sugaring Plus Sized Girls In The Sugar Bowl Why I’m Scared For Aspiring Sugar Babies Dear Minor Aspiring Sugar Babies My Warning To Those Approached My Journalists and Filmmakers What Is A Good Age To Start Sugaring? Why No Job Is “Beneath” You Do I Have To Be Conventionally Attractive To Be A Sugar Baby? Is Sugaring Feminist?
Frequently Asked Questions
Should I Sell My Virginity? I Don’t Know What I Want From My Arrangement ls What I’m Getting For My Allowance Enough? How Do I Convince My Sugar Daddy To Take Down His Profile? How Do I Deal With Rude Men? I’m Ready To Have Sex With My SD. Should I ask for STD/STI results? Is it Really Possible To Ask For A High Allowance? Should I Ask For First Date Compensation? How Do I Make Sure A Platonic Arrangements Stays Platonic? Can I Sugar With Self Harm Scars? Do I Need To Live In A Big City To Find An SD? What To Do When You Wanna Sugar But Have No Dating Experience What To Do When A Promising Prospect Disappears Do Sugar Daddies Always Assume An Arrangement Is Romantic?
How To Become a Sugar Baby Beauty Sugar Baby Makeup Body: Diet (Weight Loss) My Beauty and Fashion Must Haves
Mind Is Being A Sugar Baby Right For Me? Advice To New Sugar Babies Sugar Baby Reading/Media List On Etiquette Education If You’re A Shy Sugar Baby Fashion Affordable Clothes For A Starter Sugar Baby Affordable Clothes For A Plus Sized Sugar Baby Sugar Baby Fashion: The Casual Date (Spring)
How To Find a Sugar Daddy
Warm-Up, Practice, and Training Freestyling Guide My Routine For A POT Date How To Ask For A Platonic Arrangement Sex Free Sugaring Sending Your First Message to a Sugar Daddy Sites I Love, Sites I Hate The Difference Between A Salt And A Sugar Daddy
How To Keep A Sugar Daddy
What Your Sugar Daddy Is Paying For Date Night Ideas On Flirting and Seduction What Normal Relationships Can Learn From Sugar What To Do When You’re Falling In Love With Your Sugar Daddy How To End An Arrangement
Safety and Privacy Best Websites and Apps For A Sugar Baby Basic Online Safety Tips Indicators of Aggression and Violence Should I Post Full Facial Pictures? Public Face Pictures How To Remove Personal Information from Pictures Should I Use a Fake Name? Enrolling for an SB Site With A School Email How To Stop Men From Treating You Like Shit
How To Hustle What Do I Say When __________? How Much Do Sugar Babies Make? When To Ask For Your Allowance What Makes A Successful Sugar Baby? When To Use A Card When You’re A Cash Only Sugar Baby How To Turn A Gift Daddy In To Sugar Daddy Calculate Your Allowance & How To Ask Your Sugar Daddy For It
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Love masterpost!!!
Once upon a time I was a new, innocent, naive sugar baby. I’ve been in the sugar bowl for almost a year and a half now. It’s had its share of ups and downs, and it’s through the downs that I learned from my mistakes.
Here are 5 of the most common (in my opinion), mistakes that sugar babies new to the game make, and most importantly, how to avoid them. I hope you gals find this useful — I know I would have.
1. Falling in love with your sugar daddy. Do. Not. Do. It. Ever. It will end badly. I foolishly fell in love with my first sugar daddy. I got caught up in the thrill and newness of it all — connecting with someone older whom I actually shared a lot of life experiences and personality traits with, someone who was successful and knowledgeable, someone who treated me well by opening the doors for me, paying for everything, and just knowing how to be a real man. I wasn’t used to being treated well by shitty college guys my age. And when you’re spending time with someone talking over long dinners and relaxing in hotel rooms, it’s easy to let your emotions run high and get carried away. Lust and love get confused very easily in these types of arrangements. I thought I had a future with my first SD, and so did he. But he was married and we lived on opposite coasts. So eventually we broke up.
How to avoid: Make the money your number one focus. Once my SD and I transitioned from an arrangement to a real relationship, the money sent was less and less frequent. I even felt bad asking him for money for things because I felt like I was taking advantage of him. My SD knew I was stressed working on-campus and going to school, so he sent me the money each month that I would’ve made working my minimum wage job — no extra. If you keep things strictly an arrangement, you’ll get exactly what you’re owed.
2. Having sex on a first meeting. Back in January of last year, I started talking to this POT off SD4Me. We agreed to meet at the local mall. I thought our first meeting was under the pretense of getting acquainted with each other and discussing a possible arrangement. Ithought we would talk, and shop a bit. He ended up buying me over $500 worth of clothes and didn’t seem too bad. After we shopped, I suggested we go to a restaurant nearby to have dinner and discuss an arrangement. He replied that he didn’t have much more time to be here and would like to have private time. I panicked. I realized that he wanted and expected sex. I felt like an idiot for expecting something for nothing. So we went to a crappy motel, and his sweaty and overweight body was ontop of me for over an hour and a half. When I got home, I immediately showered and consoled myself with my new clothes. $500 for sex withthat was not worth it.
How to avoid: Always tell your POT that you are not doing anything sexual on a first meeting. There is an exception if you’re getting your already discussed allowance upfront and in cash. Otherwise, first meetings should have no expectations. If you do decide to have sex with a POT on a first meeting, make sure you’re comfortable with him (trust your intuition), and what you’ll be receiving (is X — $500, 600,… an iPad, a LV bag, etc. worth it?). If I could, I would take back that encounter because it still leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
3. Letting POTs string you along. Time is money. Especially in the sugar world. On all of the sugar daddy sites, there are 95% losers and only 5% actual sugar daddies. I’ve wasted countless hours texting, emailing, and calling POTs. They were just looking for cheap, prostitute pay per play situations, essentially phone sex — when they call you and the conversation goes like this (Him: Hi, how are you? Do you like anal? Are you okay with threesomes? I want to cum inside you, okay? You have a really high sex drive too, right?), or just looking to waste my fucking time probably jerking off to my pics.
How to avoid: Once you’re in communication with a POT, set a date/time/place tomeet as soon as possible. It’d even be best if you could discuss what exactly you’re looking for before you meet. If a POT wants to send countless emails, repeatedly asks for pics when he’s seen the ones you have on your profile, or asks tons of stupid and personal questions — forget him. And if your POT dances around the idea of an allowance and refuses to give you a range — forget him. Suit and I discussed my expectation for an allowance before we even met. Talking about money in-person is awkward. On our first meeting, he suggested my $5k allowance and an extra $2k for the first month as a shopping bonus. Talking about money isn’t classy, it’s tacky. We haven’t talked about my allowance since.
4. Letting your sugar daddy string you along. Once a POT becomes your SD, you’d think life would be easier. And it should be. Now, this has never happened to me so I cannot speak from personal experience, but there are girls who end up not receiving their agreed upon allowances from their sugar daddies short-term and/or long-term. These men made excuses like they couldn’t get to the bank, they couldn’t take out that much without their wife noticing, or they forgot. Yeah right. That’s like “the dog ate my homework” kind of shit. And yet they had no selective amnesia when they were supposed to meet their babies. Convenient right?
How to avoid: If your sugar daddy doesn’t give you your allowance, stop seeing himimmediately until he does. And especially do not have sex with him for free until you have that money in your hand/bank account. Suit forgot to give me the $300 he said I could spend on lingerie, and I gently reminded him and he did. But he would never forget my $5,000 allowance on payday.
5. Managing your money badly. I’ll admit, when the dough started rolling in I went a bit, well a lot, crazy. I bought a new Macbook, tons of clothes, shoes, high-end makeup, things for my room, things for my dog — anything. But after I had literally nothing else that I wanted to buy, my logic and senses started coming back to me. I decided to put my money in a safe to save, draw up a budget and goals list, and try to buy less unnecessary things. I’m still not perfect, but I’ve got a decent cushion for leeway.
How to avoid: Keep your cash in a safe or a savings account. I avoid depositing my allowance into the bank because I do not want to get flagged for suspicious activity. By keeping my money in a safe, I know exactly where it is and how much I have. And each time I go into the safe, I internally ask myself if I really need whatever it is I’m taking the money out for. I feel a little guilty taking away from the thick envelope, so that helps me make better choices. I have a lot of nice things to show for what I’ve spent a lot of my money on, but no real good investments. I did pay off my credit cards (yay), but other than that I’ve been a bit frivolous. Save for things that matter. Like tuition, a car, plastic surgery, rent, utilities, grocery money. And each time you meet that big goal, you’ll feel accomplished and responsible — because you are. Here are my current sugar goals.
Good luck!
Sugar Tip: 5 Newbie Sugar Baby Mistakes & How to Avoid Them
Thought I’d share this! Very important.
I know I posted this before but I needed to post again just as a reminder especially for myself.
let’s stop being surprised when beautiful women are also intelligent
Positive Affirmations to Attract Wealth & Prosperity
1. Money flows toward me.
2. I surrender to my higher good.
3. My wealth is safe and expanding.
4. I am prosperous.
5. I feel good about the money I spend.
6. I am receptive to unexpected financial bonuses.
7. I am a magnet for financial success.
8. I deserve my wealth.
9. I am wealthy beyond my dreams.
10. I use my abundance for the good of mankind.
When Your Sugar Daddy Does Something Wrong
What You Should Never Say On A POT/SD Date!
This is going to be one of my rare ‘’shorter’ posts.
Again, a lot of my self help/ relationship advice doesn’t just apply to the sugar community. It applies to everyone that wants to work on their appeal, attraction and confidence.. male or female.
So there are four main things I would avoid talking about on a first date.
1) Weight
Sometimes, as girls, we have the tendency to bring up issues on our weight or body shape or body size. The problem with this is that it always comes across as insecure so just ignore that whole area. You want to exude confidence not insecurity. Think of it like this, when I say “Don’t think about a pink elephant” whats the first thing you imagine … a pink elephant right? It’s the same with your body. When you bring up something about yourself that you dislike, suddenly a man that may not have paid any attention to it before, now notices it.
2) Your Ex’s
In the beginning, when you are having a conversation with someone you are interested in and you are getting to know each other there is no room to talk about your past relationships. This is a new relationship so don’t go into old partners. Now i know that I will get asks from anons saying “well what do you say if he asks what your last sugar relationship was like”. To which my response is, even here, don’t make it about your past sugar daddies. You don’t need to start giving him information on what your previous SD did for a living or how he snored terribly. Simply layout what the relationship entailed, (like shopping, movies, trips, etc,) but it’s not necessary to go into the gory details.
3) Why you are still single?
When a man asks “Why are you still single?” or “Why don’t you have a sugar daddy yet?” don’t say “Well I just don’t get approached” or “ sugar daddies keep arranging to meet with me but then they just flake”. Because all this says is that you are UNDESIRABLE! So just avoid that topic by saying something more charming like “Well i just haven’t met anyone that meets the standards that I set for myself and for a relationship”. What this does is create a sense of worth and he now thinks “ ahhh, this is a high value woman”.
4) Rejecting Compliments
It actually amazes me how many people don’t even realise they do the following. Someone gives you a compliment on your hair or your clothes etc, and you say “ thanks but that’s not true because … ( there’s a hole here, I feel unattractive in this, I actually need to fix my split ends … you get the jist)”. Stop taking compliments badly. Just smile and say “Thank you”. After all, a man wants to compliment you but he doesn’t want to reassure!
Don’t forget to follow me here on tumblr for more tips and advice.
xxx
BronzedSugarUK
The problem with SB tumblr
I have met some of the nicest girls on here, seen girls uplifting eachother and giving eachother advice. Found SB friends close to me that are supportive and can make sure that we’re staying safe and offer rides if a POT date goes bad or quick texts or phone calls throughout the night so the POT knows someone is keeping in contact and he can’t put her in danger without someone finding out immediately. The one annoying thing on this site are the girls who think they’ve got it all figured out. Who put other girls down because they’re just starting out and not making as much money. Girls literally telling other girls to delete their blogs and treating eachother like shit just because they think they’ve reached some professional state and are above everyone else. The only thing worst than a know-it-all is a know-it-all who acts like she’s “helping” other girls by being a bitch to them.
I want to mention something I think needs to be said and its a key part of making sex work become, for lack of a better phrase, “morally sound” for you.
All my new hoes and experienced ones read this!
Girls that are saying shit like “there needs to be an attraction for it to work” “I have to be attracted to him he has to be interesting etc“ (especially new girls!) No he doesnt! He really doesn’t. For like 8 months before I made this blog, I was just doing research in the sugar bowl and wasn’t in the game myself. This was a few years back, when I first turned 18. Im 20 now. I REALLY wanted to do it, I dont even like talking to kids my age that much bc like..Im actually interested in talking about world history and business methods and weekly news stories and shit. During high school I used to fuck guys I didnt even really like just because of the pressure they’d put on me. I actually lost my virginity at 16 at a party in a THREESOME with two people, the girl i was tight with but I barely knew the guy, I didnt care I just really wanted to get the whole ‘losing it’ thing over with. So like OBVIOUSLY Im okay with being a hoe for free. So doing it for money should be a breeze right?? Especially since I’d be able to converse with these men and enjoy it as well. But no. I tried a couple times in the early days and got so many offers, great offers from rich and smart men, but I was just terrified to go alone on a date with an older man I met online. I kept thinking Id be nervous and unsure of myself and what to say, i kept thinking since theyre older successful men I must be respectful and shy and whatnot.
NO. THIS IS THE WRONG MINDSET!
This is why I didnt succeed at first.
The right mindset is something like what one of my SB friends told me:
“I treated every wealthy man that I met as a prey and a potential come up.”
You have to think of this as a game.
You have to think of the men as victims, you have to think of it as you manipulating them to get what you want. HE can think its a genuine beautiful connection yall have, you just need to sell it. This is a JOB not a relationship. Of course it can also be both. But if youre like me and really want to get into it, but feel weird about how to act with them, or you feel weird about pretending to be interested in a dude your fathers age, just tell yourself its acting. You see actors on TV kiss each other and fake whole relationships believably for their paychecks. Thats what you’re doing. Make it a game for yourself to see how good of an actress you can be. It actually gets quite fun after you get good.
Be flirty, be cute but most importantly BE IN CONTROL. These men absolutely NEVER get the attention of pretty young women like yourself, but you get whistles and catcalls from these older men every time you walk down the god damn street. Who is in the position of power? YOU. Always. They know there is no chance you would ever talk to them if it wasnt for the money. You on the other hand get approached by older men at bars and shit all the time. Its a power difference that isnt emphasized enough. You have the pussy you have the power. Stay safe out there SBs and remember never give him the upper hand. Never catch yourself saying “do you think itd be ok if….” or “would you mind if?” or “i think maybe…” NO. say your words with confidence and control. Say “no, im not doing that.” Say “I want to go shopping today babe.“ not, “do you think itd be okay if we went shopping later?” Just tell him its happening. Dont leave any room for him to have a say in it.
If you are or want to be a sugar baby or any other kind of sex worker fav and reblog. I want to follow y'all!
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My favorite part of sugar bowl is how some sugar babies help each other on tumblr. It's so important that every single one share experiences and tips since we're doing the same thing.
I’m mean sometimes I smile reading a post cause I never see girls helping each other like this before (and imma a feminist!). Like babes I kinda love y'all and how y'all took and take care of me and other girls 💓
