#sugar advice

[sortagolddigger]

Learn to recognize when you can do better.

If he makes you feel guilty for wanting to be taken care of, you deserve better. Since the 1700’s women have only survived because they chose men who were capable of providing and protecting

Don’t let these new age dusties gaslight you into accepting the poverty love they offer

[fillmeupwithsugar]

Gotta love it when I don't even need to leave my bed 🎀

[haruharuz]

Advice no one wants to hear:

You HAVE to put in the work or it isn't going to happen.

This means, yes, you're going to need to actually work constantly for a solid year to reach your goals. Probably longer than that, honestly. You are going to be tired and it isn't as easy as anyone makes it out to be.

But if you don't get up and make the change in your life, no one is.

[luxurybrownbarbie]

Beauty is a currency for women, but you need to be spending it in the right places. It also can’t be the only thing you leverage. It needs to come with charm, wit, intelligence, poise, and allure. And this isn’t just about romance, it’s about every facet of life; careers, networking, friendships, eventual connections. Things don’t just “happen” to beautiful women. Most beautiful women cultivate other areas which draw others in. There are plenty of beautiful women who lean solely on being pretty, and others tire of them quickly.

[ladamevogue]

Hellooooo Lady’s 💕

I’ve been MIA, my apologies, I broke up with my old SD for so many reasons & feel so much better. I’ve been able to make much more without him breathing down my neck.

I also had to cut V-Card Buyer as he hasn’t sent me any money in sometime. I haven’t seen him since last year but just like the universe does with men, one goes another one comes!

I had to charge him a“re-entrance fee” to get back into my life after failing to be financially consistent. He accepted of course. He sent me the equivalent of a lady dior bag since we’ve communicated and I love it here! I actually don’t have to do anything with him, not even see him besides little texts here and there and he’s one of the least demanding men I keep on my roster. This is why I keep saying, don’t cut men off unless they’re utterly dangerous or disrespectful! One will always serve you whether he wants to or not. I always advise women and genderqueers to always leave a wealthy or generous person on a “good” note if they’ve served you good purpose in the past. You never know when they can come in handy, and this man happened to send me thousands in less than 24 hours!

PS: If a suitor is sending you money via paypal, separate it into different transfers, that way your account doesn’t get limited/flagged xo

Happy GoalDigging!

✨

Dame vogue ok

[goldiesugar]

How to charm a group of men?

Make eye contact. That will show them you think of them as an equal.

Say less, listen more. They love feeling important.

Show vulnerability but don’t become vulnerable.

Men and their egos will do the rest. Of course I’m assuming you dress well, you know your role as seductress, etc. 

[laristocratebohemienne]

Do not do sugaring if you are broke, depressed or insecure!

Let me explain… sugaring is not easy. You have to have the right confidence to do it. You have to know which man you want and what are you willing to give up. It can be your time out of your personal life, unhealthy food because you gotta stay in shape, a certain level of comfort/safety, and money (because you gotta take care of yourself). Do not use your sugar daddies as comfort. Don’t tell them your secrets and insecurities. Only a few to make them think they know you, but not all. You tell your insecurities to your friends and your therapist, and your mom. Not to your SDs! Unless of course you are pursuing a long-term relationship, then things are a bit different.

Meditate. Breath. You have to be focused in this. Sugaring can either break you or make you, but no. 1 thing you have to remember is - have faith! Have faith, have confidence.

[a-philanthropistswife]

Hi! I am going on a orchard walk/fruit picking date and I am wondering what I should wear? I am nervous since its my first date out in a while. Thank you!! xx

Aww babe I love the sound of an orchard fruit picking date. I hope you have so much fun and thank you for inspiring my next autumn/winter date ;)

Since its fall I went in a cool weather direction with these outfits and since you said you'd be walking I'm highlighting comfortable shoe options.

Mini skirt w/ tights or thigh high boots

I love this silhouette for fall/winter cause you can wear a flat boot, loafer, or a small heel and still look very chic.

Statement jacket/coat and fitted pants

Sometimes its just too damn cold to wear a skirt or a dress. That doesn't mean you can't still look cute.

that's all i have for now! hope it helps

xoxo