Baby im howling for you ♬⋆.˚

Dyke with a lot of shit to say Kill the patriarchy 🖤monster luvr 🖤

[futchywerefutch]

⚢ introduction post ⚢

Hello! this is my sideblog for talking about my lesbianism and femininity! I am a Futch(feminine butch) lesbian. I am also really into the paranormal and cryptozoology (if that wasn’t obvious by my username). You can call me either Futchy or Arabella

This is where i share my lived experiences and opinions. I grew up having to figure out womanhood and puberty all by myself as my mother died when i was young and i was the only girl in a house with 5 other men for awhile/early tween to mid teen years. I also spent a few years with people trying to indoctrinate me into the Jehovah Witnesses once my father got reinstated. I hope i can inspire and help others who are going through similar struggles! Some posts may be venty but i’ll tag accordingly.

I consider myself to be an open minded person. I will always listen to others opinions and feelings. I like having respectful and sensible discussions.

I do not have a set DNI but please be respectful. If you are going to debate and argue handle it like a mature adult, do not just go spewing out insults the moment someone or i have a differing opinion than you. 🖤🖤🐺

[futchywerefutch]

the amount of infantilization that exists in the fucking jehovah witness religion is absurd and it’s going to make me go insane.

for an example im an adult, i decided to go to a meeting because my grandpa asked and im a huge pushover. He makes a comment on how my dress is too short(it really wasn’t, it was just slightly above the knee but we all know how women are treated in this religion.) and immediately goes to call my grandmother to buy me a new dress and stuff.

I’m an adult! i can wear whatever i please! i can buy my own damn clothes! Why do you have to go around telling people just because you found something mildly uncomfortable?

that’s just one thing, i mean i could go on about the mind numbing slop that’s regurgitated during every meeting and how none of them think critically and just have the answers given to them like it’s candy. but thats a rant for another day.

[futchywerefutch]

Fearful avoidant attachment sucks and it makes me wanna kms

[futchywerefutch]

the amount of Jehovah Witnesses(especially women) i know that are on anti depressants is ironic

“best life ever” my ass

[exjw-safeplace]

To whoever needs this:

When you finally leave, they’re going to blame you.

And you have to make peace with that.

You have to make peace with it because they are wrong.

You are not at fault for your hurts. You are not at fault for wanting to do better for yourself. You are not at fault if the people who are supposed to love you only do so conditionally.

I know you feel alone right now but I promise you you are not. You are never alone. There are people out there waiting for you who will love you in the way the organization never would and they will love you ten times more and ten times better because their hearts are not beholden to rules written by white men for their own gain.

People out there love so unashamedly.

There’s light at the end of the tunnel, I promise.

Just keep going.

Whoever wrote this you are a beautiful person thank you! This is a very important reminder.

[aposteat]

Jehovah's witnesses: the entire world is evil and needs to be destroyed

People in real life: hey man how's it going

[fisewalafel]

a Goddess creates a Woman, later creates a man so the Woman “isn’t bored”. all humans are referred as the “daughters” of the Goddess. the only male figures in the religion are husbands or fathers of the female prophets; generally males are listed among the properties of a Woman - she has cows, sheep, land and a few husbands. men are advised not only to accept their status, but to take pride in it, since their inferiority is a part of the Goddess’s plan. all religious leaders are female, and they teach Women how to treat their husbands - how to dress them in order to hide their body from Women, how beat them properly.

does this sound like something men could ever accept, believe, promote to each other?

[drbased]

I have longstanding theory the women are more horny than men but we’re tricked into thinking otherwise bc men don’t have to worry about ~~consent~~ so they’re free to experience more sexual desire

[drbased]

Women have better orgasms than men

We have no refractory period between orgasms

We have an entire organ dedicated to pleasure

Our orgasms have no other biological function - we orgasm for the pure joy of it rather than to impregnate/pass on DNA

Our arousal is hidden - I could be literally thinking of sex 24/7 and nobody would know. This is also why I think it should be men who are flaunting themselves sexually in public/all over media - women can experience arousal entirely privately and not be a public nuisance

Our arousal does not make us vulnerable. An erection steals bloodflow and sticks out awkwardly, making it vulnerable to being broken, as well as emotionally vulnerable - men should naturally feel self-conscious about their erections. I think this is part of the reason men are so obsessed with making their dicks out to be some sort of weapon and symbol of power - they are massively overcompensating for their inability to experience an incredibly powerful, intimate and vulnerable sensation privately and safely.

Men being ‘visual’ is a massive overcompensation for the fact that their orgasms just aren’t that good. They lack the sensation in the penis that women do in the clitoris, and so they ‘need’ visual stimulation to give them extra incentive to be sexual.

Examples of women desiring sex from their aging, disinterested husband are commonplace, but every time a woman loses interest in sex we can always point to a man who is uninterested in her pleasure. A lot of those disinterested aging husbands will suddenly find their libido again when they find a younger woman - which, once again, shows that their sex drive is fueled by external factors such as rape/exploitation and being ‘visual’

Unfortunately, a culture of mass dehumanisation of women has rendered consent meaningless for men - men do not have to consider sex as a joint enterprise, meaning they can see a hot woman and fantasise about her sexually as much as they like. An emotionally and morally healthy person may experience arousal regardless, but considering someone else’s humanity and desire will always deflate any arousal to a healthy level. Men have artificially raised their perceived level of sexual desire via rape culture.

[drbased]

Oh also: the fact that men’s ‘visual’ attraction seems to be largely based on what’s considered attractive for the time period and/or culture - I’ve always considered that odd bc if attraction is supposed to be this primal biological drive then why is it so easily influenced by fashions? Why are some cultures attracted to women with artificially raised necks, bound feet, corseted waists? Men are pathologically obsessed with attractions to women based on symbols of submission and literally restricting our ability to get away, not to mention the fact that they can be sexually attracted to bodies and faces so distorted that they don’t look like human women at all - this says to me that men actually have a lot more vulnerable feelings about sex than they’d like to admit; they want their sexual desire so safe and protected from pesky things such as consent, humanity and mutuality. If we took away such symbols of submission would men be as hyper-sexual as they claim?

[futchywerefutch]

people are so insane because why are you drawing women being murdered, mutilated and raped all because they held up a ‘i love pussy’ sign.

That’s totally progressive and empowering 😐😐😐😐😐 totally showed them😐😐😐

[futchywerefutch]

attending a jehovah witness funeral event really shows me how much of a cult it is.

All they can say about the deceased one is how spiritual they were and how much they loved Jehovah. Can’t you say anything about their funny quirks? their favorite activities? Jfc.

[futchywerefutch]

I don’t care what anyone says puberty and womanhood is traumatic, especially when you are navigating it on your own.

When I got my first period, I got yelled at, and I got pillared at in the middle of the store for not knowing what brand of pads would fit my needs. Mostly because I didn’t have a female figure in my life, I lived with all men. I grew up with a higher standard being pushed on me, and I would get in trouble if I didn’t hold to it. House chores were put on me, being the emotional punching bag for all the men in my life was put on me, having the responsibility to make sure everyone was on time was put on me, hell, my father even made me call his work to tell them he couldn’t show up. I envied all my friends with prominent women in their lives. My girlfriends were often the people I’d have to go to to ask about things like periods or breast growth and pains(it was very awkward to see stretch marks where my breasts were growing in, especially since I didn’t understand my own body), sexuality, and libido. While i was very fucking miserable and it definitely made me hate my femininity for a while i don’t think i would change my circumstances if i could. I think learning it on my own has made me more independent and strong, it helped me figure myself out better and it makes me wanna help girls in similar situations even more!🖤

People in my personal life always bring up my experience with no mother and stuff and ask if I think I'm ‘feminine’ or ‘okay enough,’ and I think I'm perfectly fine! Femininity is not just getting married, doing house chores, being a mother, and dressing all cute. It’s much more than that. Femininity and womanhood are different for everyone, and just because someone expresses it differently or has a different experience than the vast majority doesn’t mean theirs is tainted or that they are ‘less of a woman.’

[fxlthyangxl-deactivated20240122]

website

[hesbythecampfire]

StopNCII.org is operated by the Revenge Porn Helpline which is part of SWGfL, a charity that believes that everyone should benefit from technology, free from harm. Founded in 2000, SWGfL works with a number of partners and stakeholders around the world to protect everyone online

Sounds legit

[songue85]

StopNCII.org is operated by the Revenge Porn Helpline which is part of SWGfL, a charity that believes that all should benefit from technolog

[nosferatusnoopy]

everyone reblog this!!

[anxiouslyliquidcurse]

liberals disappear so fast when you want to criticize islam instead of christianity or when you want to talk about arab colonization instead of european colonization

[raddish-world]

Alabama woman sues alleging she gave birth on prison floor as guards watched - raddish.world

[bushpropaganda]

oh my god this is horrific :(((

so she was thrown in jail for taking substances that might harm her fetus due to the overturning of roe v wade, only to be forced to give birth alone on a dirty jail floor??? even worse, female inmates on the cell block were punished for helping deliver the baby, and any staff who tried to help were threatened with being fired from their fucking job???

just goes to show it's never been about protecting fetuses, but about punishing women in the most barbaric ways possible, any way they can.

[gringx]

ok heres my hot take: women can make whatever fictional content they want i trust them to still be normal irl. men are mentally fragile, easily influenced and should not be allowed to read

[gringx]

women will write someone being graphically mutilated and killed and then go to their job in a grocery store and make friendly small talk with the customers. men will see one movie with a morally grey protagonist and start torturing small animals about it

[suzziepsyche]

[nightwife-deactivated20160308]

Always reblog

[sarcolin]

Woah

[rainbowcoffin-blog]

well he really should have worn more protective clothing if he didn’t want that to happen sounds to me like he was asking for it

[fission-mailure]

Are we really sure he was actually shot and decapitated? Idk, sounds like something he would’ve made up. Guys make false decapitation accusations all the time, you know. 

[timeisamanysplendoredthing]

If he didn’t want to be decapitated, he shouldn’t have worn a shirt that showed off his neck

[imcombat-ready-deactivated20141]

I mean, not all woman decapitate people. I’m not like that.

[leftlines]

Was he alone? He shouldn’t have been alone. I mean what was he expecting?

[bookofknives]

not my art but some graffiti i spotted :-)