Spencer Porter

" Wisdom and experience don't change the man. Time doesn't change the man. The only thing that changes us is Love." - Paulo Coelho "I do the very best I know how- the very best I can; and I mean to keep on doing so until the end." -Abraham Lincoln. Happily married to my high school sweetheart. Father to two beautiful, very different little girls and a wonderful set of twins. Also retired from a very successful career as Miami Dolphins Best Ever Quaterback. Life sure worked out amazingly for me. Time of change though, as I recently retired from my assistant coach position for the University of Miami. It finally gives me some time to concentrate on what truly matters, my husband, Teegan, Harper and our twins Brynn and Aiden..

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Flashback: Kiawah Island.

Our daughter Teegan headed to the beach and wondering why I’m randomly taking her picture…

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That wasn’t taken long after she fell off her bike...poor little thing...

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New Headshot.

Needed an updated one for dance. Looking beautiful as always, Tigs…

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Still think of her as a little girl...

Growing up way too fast

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Family Picnic.

My husband likes to take my picture at weird angles…

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Is that the nice way to say I don’t know how to take a picture?

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Nah. I think you just like my adams apple.

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Yeah I like running my tongue along it and seeing it bobbing up and down when you swallow me whole...

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Family Picnic.

My husband likes to take my picture at weird angles…

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Is that the nice way to say I don’t know how to take a picture?

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Flashback: Senior Project

My favorite work from my capstone…

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Very cool...

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Happy Mother’s Day!

We love you to the moon and back, Mom! 

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YES WE ALL DO <3 hope you enjoyed your gifts...

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Had a great time Friday night at the National Wildlife Foundation’s Charity Gala! 

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I think Brynn loved it the most her little face when Harper made her pet that bird so cute...

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Flashback: A very young and sleepy Harper...

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Flashback: New York

Our Harper giving peace 102 stories up…

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The girls really seemed to like it there...me I think Miami is the place for me...what about you babe?

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Baby girl.

Look at that smile. We love you, princess…

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Total cutie just like her papa...

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Home again.

Hey Spence…can you come upstairs?

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Keep reading

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Hope that’s for me....drooling...

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Dessert

No Harper. We’re all sharing that…

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She can have my share cos no way I’m eating that...

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Short trip...

Headed to our place in Snowmass for the 5-day weekend. Tigs is thrilled to be taking her best friend.

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And Harper brought her  best friend too how are we gonna cope with all them kids?

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Fast-Forward Para: Wedding Bells (Part 1)

7th of October 2052

The sun was setting in Los Angeles, and with the girls now on the plane to the bachelorette party, there was finally some peace and quiet. Without question, Spencer and Alistair adored all their children, but seven additional women sleeping over the previous night was a bit much.

So things were finally back to normal, just two parents and the twins.

“Announce…dinner in 30 minutes,” Alistair said into his phone. The message was sent to all the rooms, causing a light dinging sound and text to pop up on screens.

Spencer entered the bedroom, sweaty after a long workout. Even at 55, he was toned and gorgeous, although Alistair would think so regardless.

“30 minutes?” Spencer said, eyebrows furrowed. “You’re going cook something in 30 minutes?”

“We’re ordering in, babe,” Alistair replied. “Those sandwiches you like.”

“Cool,” Spencer said, nodding and pulling out his phone. He quickly started to check his email, but his husband wasn’t having it. Alistair grabbed Spencer’s sweaty t-shirt and pulled him in for a kiss.

Even as they grew older, their physical relationship never did. But just as they were deepening the kiss, there was a knock at the door.

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Just as Spencer was sneaking a few fingers under his husband’s shirt someone had to go and interrupt typical really they really never had that much time alone  with their 4 kids but hey the plus side was that they were so used to being interrupted that when Aiden entered the room they both had a learnt expression of innocence cos traumatising the kids was a big no-no in Spencer’s book. Aiden looked nervous , rubbing the back of his neck playing with the short hair with his long fingers. He reminded Spencer so much of himself when he was younger and he had to confess to his parents that he wrecked his car again or that his grades were due to his teacher’s strong dislike of him and nothing to do with the fact that the only time he opened his Maths book was to hide an embarrassing erection from his mom. So that expression did not usually mean good things.

‘What’s up Ace?’ Spencer asked

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“I just…had a question,” Aiden answered, slowly shutting the door behind him. He folded his arms and gripped the side of his shirt anxiously. 

“Something wrong?” Alistair replied, becoming more concerned. He sat down on the edge of the bed, and quickly shared a glance with his husband. 

“No,” their son said. “I mean, not really, and it’s not like a question really.” Aiden attempted to calm himself, trying to smirk to appear collected. It was what Spencer always used to do to hide some sort of apprehension, and both of Aiden’s parents could read it like a book. 

“Okay…” Spencer replied, furrowing his eyebrows. 

Aiden bit his lip and looked at his feet. “Teegan said…that I could take a date to the wedding.”  He then picked his head up again. “So, yea.”

“For sure,” Alistair shrugged. Their son had taken a girl to the last couple of school dances, so he couldn’t understand what the big deal was. 

“Why would we have a problem with that, Aiden?” Alistair asked, looking at his husband once again and then back at his son. 

“Oh cause…” Aiden muttered. “Cause I’m actually gay. He’s a guy…”

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Spencer relaxed visibly , chuckling slightly to himself only Aiden would be nervous about telling them that he was gay. Alistair was telling him that it was okay and asking details about the boy in question to which Aiden replied  stuttering and blushing like crazy shattering his tough guy exterior and Spencer knew that feeling all too well. He smiled brightly at his husband and turned towards their only son.

‘Same rule as your sisters no boys in your room after curfew and we meet him before the wedding’ Spencer announced smugly.

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Fast-Forward Para: Wedding Bells (Part 1)

7th of October 2052

The sun was setting in Los Angeles, and with the girls now on the plane to the bachelorette party, there was finally some peace and quiet. Without question, Spencer and Alistair adored all their children, but seven additional women sleeping over the previous night was a bit much.

So things were finally back to normal, just two parents and the twins.

“Announce…dinner in 30 minutes,” Alistair said into his phone. The message was sent to all the rooms, causing a light dinging sound and text to pop up on screens.

Spencer entered the bedroom, sweaty after a long workout. Even at 55, he was toned and gorgeous, although Alistair would think so regardless.

“30 minutes?” Spencer said, eyebrows furrowed. “You’re going cook something in 30 minutes?”

“We’re ordering in, babe,” Alistair replied. “Those sandwiches you like.”

“Cool,” Spencer said, nodding and pulling out his phone. He quickly started to check his email, but his husband wasn’t having it. Alistair grabbed Spencer’s sweaty t-shirt and pulled him in for a kiss.

Even as they grew older, their physical relationship never did. But just as they were deepening the kiss, there was a knock at the door.

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Just as Spencer was sneaking a few fingers under his husband’s shirt someone had to go and interrupt typical really they really never had that much time alone  with their 4 kids but hey the plus side was that they were so used to being interrupted that when Aiden entered the room they both had a learnt expression of innocence cos traumatising the kids was a big no-no in Spencer’s book. Aiden looked nervous , rubbing the back of his neck playing with the short hair with his long fingers. He reminded Spencer so much of himself when he was younger and he had to confess to his parents that he wrecked his car again or that his grades were due to his teacher’s strong dislike of him and nothing to do with the fact that the only time he opened his Maths book was to hide an embarrassing erection from his mom. So that expression did not usually mean good things.

‘What’s up Ace?’ Spencer asked

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Flashback: Sweater.

Modeling my attire for Glee Club’s Ugly Sweater Party. Thank fuck that was a one time thing…

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Still can’t believe you didn’t win cos yuck...at least gave me an excuse to take it off you...

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Flashback: Proud Dads.

This woman on the plane was nervous about her first flight, so Harper offered to hold her hand for takeoff. 

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We raised her well...actually scratch that you raised her well cos I would have never done the same at her age probably just piss myself laughing...