Always love answering this. Let's start with the most important part in my book, The Gag (because it ain't bondage without one): I like mine thick. Layered. Wide. TIGHT. Whether I'm the gagger or gaggee. While I love ballgags and leather gags as much as the next gay, I'm a huge fan of the "make your own gag" method. Homegrown, artisan gagging. You've gotta start with some sort of stuffing, depending on (ironically) the sub's gag reflex -- whether that's a bundled up wad of handkerchiefs the size of a baseball or a dirty gym sock or a robust knotted cleave to be shoved in the mouth. If you didn't opt for the knotted cleave and went with stuffing, then some sort of tight cloth cleave gag should be administered next to really bind the stuffing in place. For the following layers, it's mostly up to personal preference -- thick bandana layers, duct tape (I love extra wide 3 or 4 inch DT), ace bandage(s), vetwrap, sports tape, gym socks or work socks (the stinkier the better), handkerchiefs (XL), rags, ripped sheets or t-shirts, pillowcases... You can get creative. You can even opt for an OTN (over the nose) layer or two on top of everything -- envision a huge bandana that's holding a sweaty sock bunched up right under the nose. (OF COURSE, make sure your gagged victim can breathe correctly at all times whether or not you're constructing a massive GAG. Safety first). My favorite method, both as a sub and dom, is: sock/bandana stuffing, bandana cleave, ace bandage wrapped from nose to chin, 5 bandanas/hankies OTM, and an OTN layer. More layering if the sub can take it, of course! Now... The Tie: I'm a huge proponent of rope bondage -- something tells me most of us on here are. From the look to the feel to the practical use, rope just takes the cake. Again, I'm very vers, so whether I'm the dom or sub, my favorite positions are in this order: 1) chairtie 2) spreadeagle 3) hogtie 4) hand-to-foot 5) pig tie. Still not as experienced a bondeur as I'd like, and I know there are countless other creative positions out there, but sometimes the classics are, well, just classic. Oh, did someone mention GAGS again?...
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