Why do you enjoy being a dom
Blow jobs whenever I want? 🤷🤷🤷
Why do I enjoy being a Dom?
Because the journey of building trust with someone and seeing them give me more and more of their submission is one of the most amazing and truly intimate journeys I experience as a human.
Seeing someone give themselves to me, giving me control over their body, their safety, their growth, their mind, their basically everything is a treasure that's hard to quantify.
You'll hear many guys claim to be a Dom but only want or care about the sexual stuff. Those guys are Tops at best, and abusers at the worst. They care nothing about aftercare, boundaries, emotional, physical or mental safety, and they damn sure don't care that you're choosing to trust them with such a huge gift.
When I have a sub I worry about everything for her. I worry about the sleep she gets, the water she drinks, the career she has or wants, the Drs appointments, the family stuff, etc. I worry about the anxiety she has from some trauma ten years prior that she's only told to maybe a handful of people and I'm one of them. I worry about every piece she chooses to share with me and because of that effort by me, she then let's go and becomes the amazing Sub or Little I deserve.
I'm always extremely confident in my abilities as a Dom, and some would see it as cocky, but I'm also well aware that my job as a Dom isn't just sex or beating someone. My job is proving to her that I can be trusted with all of it. I don't break boundaries, I don't abuse safewords, I don't even consider sex as a need in a D/S relationship, I know. Shocker. It's an amazing bonus once I've earned that right, but it's not a need.
Why do I enjoy being a Dom? Because I enjoy letting her be the best most amazing sub she can be because she trusts that I will always have her back, take care of her, lift her up and keep her safe. If I do all of those then I earn all the dirty, naughty, filthy, fun things we do as a d/s couple. A partnership. Yes I'm in control but it is a partnership. Without her submission I'm just a weird lonely guy hitting himself in the the thigh with a flogger thinking "this would be fun to use on someone else" 🤣
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