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[garlicjohanssen]

Tumblr is a hole where people can act like they're different people and form paranormal relationships to validate their unhealthy behavior. When I was a teen I was so addicted to Tumblr and feeling like I had someone listening when I vented, but people online are no more real than penpals to inmates.

Tumblr fueled me to exercise a lot and eat less. I used to never sleep, I was on Tumblr until I learned what workout anorexia was and I wanted it. I was already overweight when I'd found the term, so no one told me I was being unhealthy. No one noticed my silent tears when I ate an apply and cried bc of already had half my milk. No one on Tumblr and no one in person, because I'd already isolated myself to Tumblr.

And now we have so much victim culture instead of survivor culture where I can't even put into words how disgusted I am someone would lie that I was raped by multiple men for their own attention.. but I'm not a victim of assault, I have survived my trauma. I am proud of myself and Tumblr has never seemed like a healthy place to me. This blog was made for nonsense so I don't plan to be active.

[garlicjohanssen]

I've realized that the unfortunate truth, there never was a doxxer or stalker. So no one needs to contact me: I want 0 contact with my sister or anyone associated with her. Legally it's fine of course, but it's my wishes not to talk to her until she's in therapy and on medicine. So I hope she gets the help she needs.

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There was never even any concrete proof that family saw. Nor police when given the blogs.

Thankfully the anon message to herself made that clear as day. I forget that watching all these true crime shows that sometimes the crime is committed by the person claiming to be victim. Like that girl who was bullied by her pedo mom in Utah--its so sad it was from within and the perpetrator of that wants to act like she's so broken bc trauma in her own childhood. She was damn old enough to know better and recognize tha and didn't stop; I hope her daughter keeps her distance while she grows up further and learns what a normal relationship with someone looks like.

We really need to take better care of each other so crazy people don't end up hurting others all the time. Both physically and mentally. It breaks my heart to be away, but I'm so happy to have real friends and family who come to see me multiple times and a partner who is invested in me :')

If you want to follow my Tumblr I made as a minor teenager, when Tumblr was popular, lol go find it on my sisters page. She linked it. I have no real use for Tumblr at my age.

[starschizo]

the older i get the more i start hating that "traumadumping" is seen as a toxic behaviour when its actually a blatant sign that that person is struggling.

like idk about you but if my friend or aquaintance starts textwalling me on discord about their family abusing them as a child or something, my first thought isnt "ugh this is so inconsiderate of them. toxic" its "oh no i think my friend is having emotional flashbacks :(" regardless of if i have the energy to engage with them about it at the time.

[starschizo]

this isnt even getting into how minorities are often treated as though theyre "traumadumping" just for talking about their lived experiences in a deeply bigoted society. specifically thinking of disabled people at the moment but i feel its also applicable to most other oppressed groups.

[garlicjohanssen]

It's very important to recognize boundaries and when timing is right. Not everyone has healthy coping mechanisms so it's important to validate and encourage friends to get the help they need. You can't be everything and sometimes friendships do have to end when people can't get the help they need.

I've even heard of therapists seeing someone for over a year and having to let them go for lack of progress made. It takes a village, but self responsibility is so important when it comes to getting help. I was miserable and had to go to a DV shelter because of a family member once and just the atmosphere change was what I needed to heal and get stable. Voting locally and volunteering so these organizations are able to help is also important and something people can do if they don't have the spoons to be front-facing help.

[garlicjohanssen]

I feel very fortunate to have full, thick hair. 💕

[garlicjohanssen]

I am the sister. Id really like the doxxer to contact me.

Its incredible to me thst you guys were once friends, it seems? But even then she was lying to you to seem better. She also accused me of fucking my step dad who molested me mildly (it was just hard tucking in and kissing while our dad was in court for abusing me)

Please contact me please. Please. Im so sorry shes also treated you the similarly. I CALLED it. I told my mom even. Using both my mom and I's grapes to write fan fiction about and lying how I tried to score free coke from 2 guys and thats how it happened??? I dont even want to go into how UNTRUE that is. But she knows who the fuck shes lying about and God damn.. sucks having her just made my mom have it even worse because I look more like him and she literally called our abusive father a fatass and all these names to his face. Then stayed home.

There was never lunch debt. She got a new game system every Christmas while I asked for clothes because I wanted to leave. I used to tell her I'd come rescue her and show her social life like a friend showed me.

Tldr; if someone gets calls a rape apologist chances are there's actual police reports where theyre quoted literally doing just that. But apology isnt the word, it's excuse. 💖

[weebsinstash]

I'm cutting out all the petty drama. I'm reblogging this so you can't delete it. I'm showing this to your prosecutor. I was letting this slide for mom, and you kept doing this over and over. You did this. Not me.

[garlicjohanssen]

It's insane you're messaging your mom cruel things instead of trying to make any friends in real life. Fortunately those people in person see your true self and toxic behavior so they stay away unless they're blood and feel pity for you, like you want.

That is a good idea. It will probably validate toxic quotes of yours already in court records.

I've already told the case manager about your posts and it further proves what's already in

[garlicjohanssen]

I am the sister. Id really like the doxxer to contact me.

Its incredible to me thst you guys were once friends, it seems? But even then she was lying to you to seem better. She also accused me of fucking my step dad who molested me mildly (it was just hard tucking in and kissing while our dad was in court for abusing me)

Please contact me please. Please. Im so sorry shes also treated you the similarly. I CALLED it. I told my mom even. Using both my mom and I's grapes to write fan fiction about and lying how I tried to score free coke from 2 guys and thats how it happened??? I dont even want to go into how UNTRUE that is. But she knows who the fuck shes lying about and God damn.. sucks having her just made my mom have it even worse because I look more like him and she literally called our abusive father a fatass and all these names to his face. Then stayed home.

There was never lunch debt. She got a new game system every Christmas while I asked for clothes because I wanted to leave. I used to tell her I'd come rescue her and show her social life like a friend showed me.

Tldr; if someone gets calls a rape apologist chances are there's actual police reports where theyre quoted literally doing just that. But apology isnt the word, it's excuse. 💖

[biddybumps]

I’m gonna go out on a good faith basis that you don’t really know what’s actually going on with weabooweedwitch and the doxxer.

Please delete your last post and talk to weabooweedwitch for the truth. That doxxer has been harassing her (and her followers and mutuals) for months and is willing to commit medical fraud alongside doxxing.

if they’re a rape apologist etc they’re not just gonna sit there and admit it so theres really no point to asking them if its true, if you have some kind of evidence that its all fake feel free to share but until then im gonna believe the victim first

[roving-rover]

Even the poster’s friends are sick of their actions. The reason both weabooweedwitch and yandere-romanticaa are even called rape apologists is because they like to write yandere works and the like.

Tumblr is a place to express yourself, discover yourself, and bond over the stuff you love. It's where your interests connect you with your

Really, iirc the whole wank started when weabooweedwitch was expressed her frustrations about her toxic sister and how she’s expected to drop everything for her sister when said sister keeps putting herself in dangerous situations and never accepting any sort of help or kindness anyway.

Ok... ok... as someone who has followed you on both blogs FOR YEARS, like I was following your main and your Overwatch blog before you even

[garlicjohanssen]

Thank you for posting this.

I am the sister. I'm actually nonbinary though. At 14 she started calling me cumdumpster and slut.

Not sure why. Now at our big age she's elevated to calling me fuck meat, randomly telling me I was asking to get raped and even accusing me of having sex with the dog snd our step father who had in a sense molested me. It was just kissing when he tucked me in.