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Great article on the benefits of pegging
Pegging, definition according to Wikipedia: “Pegging” is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo, which is held with a harness or with her own vagina.
Doctor Jenn Gunsaullus says that pegging “unites men, women, dildo, lube, pleasure and power”
The most important to me is POWER.
From my experience as a Mistress, I know that pegging is the most effective way to get the transfer of the standard dominant role from men.
Through pegging, the dominant role of the relationship passes radically from the man to the woman.
The couple relationship dynamics will completely change once he will be underneath you and you will fuck his ass with a strap-on. From that moment, you will stop seeing him as the “leader” of the relationship and you will be stating a precedent for having things done your own way, not his. And the best thing about it is that he is going to love it too.
You will discover yourself soon making decisions he used to make before, or for which you needed his approval. You will feel much more self-confident, Dominant, and at the same time, he will start feeling and showing himself more submissive, more sensitive to your needs, wishes and whims.
Determined but cautious
If you have decided to incorporate the pegging to your relationship, don’t rush. Choose the best moment to tell him; a moment when he is very excited and receptive. Tell him you want to fuck his ass in the next months. Be very sexy when exposing your idea and take profit of that excitement to negotiate with him. Deal and establish clearly the limits, changes and punishments, also the physical ones, which you will apply if he decides not to obey at some stage.
He will not know how far you intend to go, and accept all your conditions. He will be too excited and worried planning to get to fuck you for his own pleasure, to stop thinking in the future. This will be his first great lesson.
Before starting with the strap-on training, you have to realize at all moments that you have to look confident and pushing. It is a training, that may seem too slow to you sometimes, but it is clearly pleasant for both of you, so, enjoy the process as well. The results will come, but it must be something positive from the first moment to you.
Another way to pleasure
What you will do, as a matter of fact, will be changing is pleasure area. He will have to learn to transfer all the pleasure he thinks he has only in his dick, from the top of his penis, to his anus… After a while, you will get to make the anal pleasure his only way to get sexual satisfaction. And you, will get this way all the power and the control you wish on him and much, much more pleasure. Because, in exchange of the pleasure he will get from your strap-on, he will feel the impetuous need to give you all the pleasure you may want, and will do anything to make you happy. He will be “programmed” to satisfy you.
His penis stops being a pleasure tool, also for you, and you rediscover the pleasure of oral sex, a pleasure that you will need and ask constantly. The more pleasure you will get like this, the more he will need to satisfy you.
Humiliation
Very important: you can add some humiliation to the training. Take profit of any occasion to show him you really have all the control and all the power. You may need other dicks for your pleasure, not his, and you may use them or not; anyway, you decide. If you use other dicks, don’t feel guilty; on the other hand, tell him your intention to do it and your experiences. He must learn, and understand, that your pleasure is the most important thing, NOT the source where it comes from. He will have to make an effort then to be the only source of pleasure. You know, they always love to be the Alpha “Macho Man”.
Chastity
Rise your control on him: cage his penis in a Chastity Belt. Even if it seems unbelievable, the fact of not touching himself, nor seeing his useless dick, will turn him on a lot. This is because he can’t disconnect his mind from you while wearing the Chastity Belt. The CB, or cage, as I call it, will keep him in a state of perpetual excitement and obsession for his sexual needs and pleasure.
Remember, once you start fucking his ass with the strap-on, you won’t see him the same way. You will not see him as a man, he will be your whore, a slut you take by his ass, each time you wish to.
Rejection
It won’t be so easy to induce him. He will try to convince you that pegging is an absurd practice, unnatural, strange and shameful to him.
He will think that the idea of being penetrated will seem to him an atrocious act, and he will describe the scene of you fucking him as something horrible. Those are just excuses. Ignore them!
Sometimes the “Macho” hides away the strap-on not to be fucked. Other men stay at work until later, when they feel “it is time”. Others allege, finally their rejection from their fear to be identified and catalogued as “gays”… He will always find excuses to take your attention away from his ass. Don’t hesitate, use discipline and corporal punishment, if needed, to prevail.
Fuck him again and again
In a Fem-Dom relationship, it is important that you fuck him regularly during the first months of the strap-on training. In my opinion, several times a week.
Do it in a way that he will never know when you will do it: before he falls asleep, or early in the morning, before he gets to work, after work, even in the middle of the night, and most of all, each time you will feel like fucking his ass.
With the pegging practice you fuck his ass, but also his mind and you reinforce your authority. Ignore his complaints. Reward will come soon.
Little by little, his resistance to be fucked will start to decay, as it will happen with his sphincter in the same way.
The combination of forced chastity, corporal punishment and pegging will make your man a new creature, unselfish and submissive. The power dynamics of the relationship will change. Remember always that your authority will grow more the more you apply it.
He will soon understand that he does not control anything _not even his penis_ he will not be able to have something as private as an erection without your consent. He will realize he can’t have what he wants, when he wants it, without your approval.
Masturbation
It is very important to control the masturbatory customs of men. A man should not be allowed to masturbate in a Fem-Dom relationship.
Always full
Your authority will grow, while he gets used to have something inside his ass: make him use a butt-plug, of a good size, when you are not fucking him.
You can also enjoy making him feel always full. During a meal, surprise him ordering him to go to the bathroom to introduce himself a butt-plug you have prepared for him.
He must get used to other physical things. But mental and psychological changes in him will be very deep and definitive.
Knickers for him
The moment has come to ask him to wear knickers, instead of a male slip. Hide all his slips, and take him to buy his own girlie underwear. Make him wash every night the knickers of both of you. Hand wash.
It is normal to wear a whore’s clothes if he is being fucked as one. This way you show him it is not just a game; he will feel your control on him while being dressed as a whore all day, he will not have relief, even when he is far away from you.
Milking
His body must get used to the new situation. Receiving the strap-on will change from being painful, to being uncomfortable, and finally just a strange sensation.
Take your time in order to stimulate his prostate when you are fucking him, it will be very pleasant for him, even if also humiliating, and he will not recognize it easily. He is enjoying a strange new pleasure, humiliating, but for sure milking will help.
What you will really do is milking his prostate and, remember, keep his penis caged. During the milking process, he must feel relief, but something really different from his usual pleasure with his precious penis. Milking is necessary to drain his prostate, that will be extra full of his seminal liquid almost for sure, because of the level of continuous excitementyou provoke in him.
More humiliation
Verbal humiliation can be useful during this process to break his ego, you will see soon how necessary it is to break him, humiliate him.
The first time you will call his ass “hole to be fucked” or “male cunt”, he will be shocked and ashamed. Ignore him. You will see he is dripping, excited, only because of your words.
Make him shave. Either all his public hair or leave enough for a landing strip. Like a true whore does.
Cruelty
You can be even more cruel. If you say to him, in a calmed but self-confident tone, that his little penis is useless, that he fucks like a girl, hat you need a big man, with a big cock, who will know how to use it to fuck you… for sure you will get his attention immediately.
Explain to him that you are going to tell to two or three of your best girlfriends some private aspects of your sexual life… Things like that he has a small dick, that you put him in chastity, that he has controlled orgasms, that he is a cunt-licker, that you love fucking him with the strap-on, that you make him wear knickers, that he has to share your cunt with other men and that he must clean after… all that will be very humiliating to him, but will reinforce your authority, he must realize that you are serious about it.
After three or four months of chastity treatment, pegging, discipline and humiliation… Being self-confident, firm, strict… he will stop resisting and fighting.
He will bend over for you, will hug and hold you after you have fucked him with love, and will desperately need to lick your cunt to give you pleasure and thank you for what you do for him.
No pleasure for his dick
He mustn’t have “conventional sex,” during this period. I recommend you not to offer him “vanilla sex”, at least during the first months, until he understands his dick is not necessary anymore to give or get pleasure. Sex for him, must be limited to serving you orally. You can masturbate him some time in a humiliating way, or with lack of interest. Better if you do it with your feet. May be I don’t need to say it, but your mouth will never touch his penis again.
Having his dick caged, has no real effect on him giving you pleasure with his mouth, but while being frustrated by the fact of not coming for weeks,, his sexual tension will arise dramatically and, of course, his desire towards you. This produces his wish to see you get pleasure and sexual satisfaction many more times.
Finally, your man’s brain will end by associating the anal penetration with your pleasure and orgasms, he will want his strap-on treatment, and will beg for it. He will be your whore, always in disposal to please you. He will need to be fucked by you, and he will do anything to get it.
A one way trip
If the man receives the strap-on regularly, his body and mind adjust to the new situation, and he experiences some physical and psychological changes.
Fucking him turns into a “normal” experience, and he will even need it. This happens because you succeeded to change is erogenous zone, by ignoring and caging his penis and by constantly stimulating his prostate through his anus.
His own pleasure becomes secondary, and he prefers to make you enjoy, gets excitement and joy when you ignore his penis, but you use more his mouth and tongue… he discovers a richer and more exciting world in which he is not the centre anymore, he does not even decide.
9 ingredients for taming your slave, results guaranteed…
1. CHASTITY
Lock its genitals in order to restrict access. Make sure it is chaste most of the time, free only in your presence from time to time. This way, its body parts become your property and it is unable to play with itself, which ALL men do.
2. INSPECTIONS
This might seem like unnecessary play only but it is not. It send a strong impulse to its mind about who is in charge and has unlimited freedom. Do it on regular basis.
3. ROUTINES
Routines are very important, any kind of routine. To begin with, decide upon a daily routine with which it will show its respect and humility to you. Make sure there will be no skipping on routines.
4. DISCIPLINE
This is a complete must, done on daily basis. Discipline is the most essential ingredient. It doesn’t need to “deserve it”, it is simply necessary. Find the time and the will every day.
5. TEASE, EDGING, DENIAL
Having and keeping its balls full will ensure its full attention towards you. It will make it beg and it will make it soft on its mind. Have you tried it for hours? No? Try it. Bigger balls equals more obedience and willingness to do anything for you.
6. RUINED ORGASMS
Your slave needs to cum and it will do anything to cum. You will allow it to cum on occasion but you will also slowly take away its right to have that pleasure. Ruin iits orgasms often and make it thank you. In time you could easily have it pleasure-less and without actual orgasms, up to you. Remember, an orgasm is not a right, it is a health necessity. It is not a reward either. Yours are important and only orgasms that should be cherished.
7. HUMILIATION
As bad as this might sound, subtle ways of humiliation are extremely effective. It needs it, it wants it. Do it. Find ways, decide up on them and act upon them. Humiliation makes it more humble. Then humiliate some more, subtly.
8. USE IT, MAKE IT FEEL USED
slaves like being treated like objects or toys. So that’s just what you need to do, use it for your pleasure and needs and then simply discard it. It’s a play, nothing more but it works just fine. Make sure you train yourself for such acts properly, in order not to appear silly.
9. EMASCULATION & PEGGING
Chastising your slave is the begging of emasculation. Pegging is another great way to emasculate. Make it your bitch, bring out its feminine side. Bringing out its feminine side works beautifully in favor of emasculation. Emasculation kills the ego every man has. Ego is an absolute enemy.
BBC rules
20 ways to be a better cocksucker
#1 – Be able to host
#2 – Break your gag reflex by practicing with a banana or a dildo.
#3 – Never use your hands, unless told to
#4 – Look him in the eyes when his cock is down your throat.
#5 – Learn to listen and observe non-verbal cues that tell you how to suck him better
#6 – Pay attention to his balls as well.
#7 – Buy some knees pads so you don’t need to take a break
#8 – When he is cumming, keep sucking him all the way through until his orgasm ends.
#9 – Always swallow, unless he decides to blow it some other way, in which case, let him.
#10 – Keep his cock in your mouth after he has come, and let it get soft while he comes down from his orgasm. He might fall asleep with his cock in your mouth, let him.
#11 – When he is done cumming, your are done. Never expect him to reciprocate in any way.
#12 – Strive to make your mouth a replacement for masturbation. Many guys would much rather cum down your throat than jerk off.
#13 – Try to make note of when he usually contacts you. And the frequency of when he does, so you can make sure you are available when he wants to use you. When his balls are full, he’s not interested in what else you have going on in your life.
#14 – If he touches his nipples while you are sucking him, you should reach up and offer to work them with your hands for him.
#15 – If he lifts his legs back while you are sucking him, that often means he would like to get rimmed as well, and your should do that for him.
#16 – When you are rimming him, don’t stop until he is finished enjoying it, which can be over an hour sometimes. Get used to that.
#17 – Never touch your cock when you are sucking him, unless he tells you to.
#18 – Always provide amyl (poppers) if they enjoy using them. Allow him to use the poppers as much as he likes, and never use them yourself unless he puts the bottle under your nose. Never reach for them and never ask for them. There is nothing worse than a cock sucker that constantly stops sucking to sniff more poppers. Let him decide how much you get, and when.
#19 – Always provide porn from him to enjoy, and get the kind of porn he likes to watch.
#20 – When he is not using you, do not hassle him or bug him. At the very most, you can periodically let him know your availability, but never expect him to respond unless he wants to, when he wants to. And when he doesn’t feel like using your mouth, leave him alone to enjoy the rest of his life.
i respect married guys and let them cum over when they are horny…
Techniques for Hotwives: by my wife
I absolutely love being a hotwife. One of the best parts for me is driving my husband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. For the purpose of this entry I’m going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relationship, huband for the hotwife’s primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boyfriend), and lover for the other sex partner who’s not the husband.
Here are some techniques I regularly use that I’ve found hotwives and cuckoldresses can use to make their encounters extra fun for their husbands and for themselves.
When Husband is Watching You with Another Man
Eye Contact* - Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contact with him. Eye contact says, “Look at me!” and makes it impossible for either of you to ignore or trivialize what’s going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, depending on your style and the message you’re trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock eyes with my husband while I’m blowing my lover.
Smile* - Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, “Look how much fun I’m having!” and “Everything is OK.” I love to smile at him when I’m riding my lover cowgirl-style.
Say Something* - You don’t have to jabber away, but it’s fun to say things now and then. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husband’s watching. I also like to interact with him, asking, “How are you liking the show?” or “Don’t you wish you were doing this?” I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and how much fun he’s having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are all great things to do, too. It’s also cute to call you husband by terms of endearment like honey, baby, etc. when you’re being fucked by another man.
Dress Up* - High heel shoes, lingerie, nicely done nails, and perfume all say, “I’m putting effort into looking fucking hot for my lover!” You husband will be aroused by your appearance and jealous of the effort to look good for another guy.
When Husband is Listening from Another Room
Go Nuts* - Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encourage your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door and to your husband’s ears, driving him wild with desire and jealousy.
Emerge, then Vanish* - Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where your husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your husband. Then, go back to the bedroom. Close the door. Lock it.
Make a Movie* - Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV in the room where he’s sitting so he can watch live feed! He’ll be scratching at the door in no time.
When Husband is Not Around
Call Him* - It’s fun to call him and put the phone on speaker phone while you’re getting railed. Then, husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is let your other guy call from his phone instead. It’s more humiliating.
Texts* - Like above, but text dirty things. What you’re doing, feeling, etc. Have your other guy send husband dirty pics of what you’re doing.
Get Caught* - I love having my husband walk in on me when he’s not expecting anything. Just make sure that you know he’d be OK with this, and that your lover is also OK with this. Some people don’t like surprises.
Leave Evidence* - Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in his absence.
Make a Movie (pt. 2)* - Film your bedroom romp and leave the recording on the nightstand for him.
Some good ideas
Daddy is going to suck his baby girl’s cock
I finished my chores … please kiss it now … you promised
Benefits of male chastity and etc
Chastity…
If Your husband has asked You lock him in chastity, You may think he is asking you to do some sexually perverted, kinky, thing that You don’t understand and don’t want to understand because it is sick and perverted. The fact is, he is not sick and perverted, he just wants to have fun, sexually.
There was a time in Your marriage when sex was fun and exciting for You, too. Wasn’t there? He just wants to get that back again. He is not asking You to do anything that is difficult, or perverted. He is asking You to play a game with him. A sexual game in which You control when and how he has sex. That’s all. So give it a chance. You may be surprised at how much fun You, Yourself, can have
Chastity is an amazing fetish. Most people think it’s some kind of punishment or chore, but it isn’t. The feelings you receive from abstaining from orgasm are just sublime. Guys feel aroused right up until the point where they orgasm, then everything is reset to zero after orgasm they’re no longer turned on and in order to become even remotely aroused they have to wait again for the feelings to kick in.
Well, what if they didn’t orgasm. What if they didn’t masturbate every evening? What if they abstained from orgasms altogether? Would the feelings of arousal increase and increase? Yes. Yes they would. Which is why chastity is an immensely popular fetish.
Chastity popularity
It is such an intimate act to show trust in his partner for a man to hand over the key to his “crown jewels“ and to allow him to be locked up, to await “HER” pleasure. It is quite surprising that so many people have dabbled with the man wearing a chastity device, and they are the second most often bought sex toys after vibrators.
Chastity - A Joint Decision
For chastity to work well it has to be a joint decision. If you’re both eager to try chastity then the belt or device you choose should also appeal to your wife. It’s no good you buying an expensive belt and she hates the sight of it.
Some women find the transparency of the CB-6000, CB-6000s or the Curve nicely displays the enslaved penis, many would-be keyholders like the quality and hygiene of a stainless steel device. Other women like the thought of the traditional Florentine style belts believing they are more secure.
Others initially prefer to go for something like the Stallion Guard as a low cost device to experiment with before deciding on a more secure belt or cage. There are keyholders who like to allow and see the penis fully erect whilst it’s encased, belts and devices most suited to this concept, known as “penile negation”, include the Samurai and Caterpillar cock cages from Mr S. Neither of these 2 devices can be considered long term wear, however, they’re an ideal purchase as an additional chastity device to your collection, and allow your keyholder the opportunity to employ different techniques of teasing.
Some keyholders love these devices because they relish the sight of a fully erect, straining cock unable to escape.
Chastity and Masturbation
All men, given the ability, masturbate and way more often than most women think they do. This is something that is difficult for him to control and even more difficult to part with. Young men have an abundance of testosterone so masturbation doesn’t seem to interfere with their pursuit of young women.
However, as men grow older masturbating usually translates into the husband ignoring his wife for at least a couple days. Chastity puts a stop to the masturbation and works in many ways; it changes his mood, demeanor and libido. Most importantly it changes his desire to please you. It is not the goal for him to do the cooking or the cleaning or the laundry but you will find that it will happen, not routinely but it will happen because as he continues to build up his sexual energy that he no longer has the ability to release as he pleases he will divert that energy towards pleasing you.
Your being the source of his sexual pleasure will change his feelings, he will adore you, love you in a way that you desire and he will be eager to please you because you are, as I said, the source of his release. He will find, over time, he is happier and that will be because you’re happier. He will love the emotional boost the two of you share.
This isn’t as kinky as it sounds
If your sex life to date has been restricted to intercourse and perhaps mutual masturbation, chastity play can sound like something pretty weird. It isn’t. Nothing has to change about how you make love; what changes is when. The partner who wears the chastity belt has given the partner who has the “key” the ability to decide when sex can take place. Since most chastity devices effectively prevent masturbation, it means one partner gives the other control of all orgasms. This can be a great deal of fun for both people.
Chastity play allows you to take sex out of the bedroom in a subtle way that only the two of you will know. For example, if a woman has her male partner locked up, they can agree on “rules” he should follow, such as “he must always stand when she enters the room.” If when they are out with friends he forgets, she can smile and hold some fingers up and he will know he stays locked up that many more days until he can get release.
If you don’t think this is incredibly hot to both partners, just try it! You won’t believe how exciting a dull relationship can become overnight. Take a few minutes and use your imagination. Fun, huh?
Chastity Devices
Chastity devices have been used throughout the ages in order to prevent sexual intercourse. Classically, chastity has been forced upon someone using a belt type mechanic, but in recent times, more concealable and localized devices are able to be used in order to prevent the ability to touch and interact with sexual organs. In addition to the modern interpretation of how to perform chastity, a sexual fetish has developed. Individuals now enjoy the prospect of being locked up and unable to perform sexual activities unless the other person who’s chastised them allows it.
Chastity and Confinement for Men
Chastity for men is the most common form, with blocks of specially formed plastic being placed around the penis with a small lock attached for keeping it closed. Some male chastity devices make it impossible or highly painful to experience an erection, aiding the experience of being denied sexual pleasure. One major element of chastity is the understanding that eventually, the device will be removed. The sexual fetish is undesirable if the wearer believes that they will never be allowed to experience an orgasm again. As expected, chastity is an exchange of a power dynamic, with one person assuming the role of being in charge and the other being submissive and completely subject to the will of the other person.
Chastity for couples
Male chastity is not just for men, nor is it just for women who want to control their men. Male chastity is for couples! Both the submissive male and his partner stand to gain from incorporating male chastity into the relationship. The relationship as a whole stands a great deal to gain as well.
Taking control of one small aspect of your relationship - The sex. By utilizing a chastity device, you are taking the first step toward controlling your partner. He may or may not be keen on the idea. If this is your idea, you may have to incorporate a little tease and denial to get what you want….it will work.
If you can both agree to give male chastity a chance, then be realistic about it. Start out slow and easy. Don’t plan on more than a month or even a week for a trial period. Remember, this is just a trial period. If you don’t like it, don’t get any enjoyment from it, don’t see how it can improve your relationship, then you can always quit.
Couple chastity
If you’re in a committed relationship, but you want to really turn up the heat in your sex play, then chastity could be the answer for you. Many couples engage in chastity as a means of getting back the desire they felt in the early days of their relationship, when they couldn’t wait to have sex, and it lasted for hours not minutes. A time when they were always on each other’s mind.
Chastity is also a choice for many couples when the man has been unfaithful, or has been caught masturbating to internet porn. He may choose chastity as a way to demonstrate his commitment, reassure his partner, and enhance their relationship. This is a precious pledge for any man, and the thought of this alone can be incredibly arousing for both partners.
There is no doubt about it, chastity play results in superior sexual satisfaction! Trying to earn a release, the bottom will be much more attentive to his partner’s needs. Without being distracted by his own selfish wants, his sole focus is pleasuring his Keyholder. He will demonstrate his ability and affection to his partner, going above and beyond in the hope of an ultimate ‘release’.. Remember; the couple that plays together stays together!
Chastity and relantionship
There is no one right way to practice chastity, but most agree that a man who practices chastity is expressing profound respect for their partner and women generally. Chastity is a challenge well worth undertaking because it can help lead to a transformation of a man’s relationship with his partner. Almost every account of a chastity regimen notes that the man becomes much more attentive to the needs of his partner, serving her better both sexually and in a myriad of other ways that are pleasing to her. The many religious traditions that use chastity/abstinence as a key element of their spiritual practice and service orientation are definitely onto something..
Primary benefits of enforced male
1. It prevents him from masturbating. Male masturbation is a filthy habit. It’s addictive, selfish, and disrespectful to women. Chronic masturbation has the effect of substantially diminishing a man’s natural sexual desire for his wife of girlfriend. It unfortunately teaches him that his orgasm is primary, and hers is secondary.
2. Because he can’t even get an erection without her permission, it instantly changes the dynamics of the relationship.
3. It keeps his sexual focus and energy on his wife or girlfriend.
4. It will substantially increase his desire to orally service his wife or girlfriend.
5. If he’s never been an ass-eater, after having his penis locked up for a few weeks, he will be.
6. It serves as a constant reminder to him of her authority.
7. Because it makes his orgasms entirely dependent on her generosity, it positively incentives him to honor her, respect her, and motivates him to please.
8. It gives him the time and opportunity to substantially improve and perfect his oral skills.
9. It reinforces the idea that pussy is a precious gift that must be earned, and is to be savored and appreciated on those rare occasions when he does get it.
10. It teaches him that sexual activity with his wife or girlfriend doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with his penis.
11. It deepens his submission to her, and will cause him to worship the ground she walks on.
12. It will significantly improve his attitude, and make him more generous, caring, kind, respectful, and loving. It will help soften the sharper edges of his me-first masculinity. It will make him more of a listener than a talker.
13. It helps prepares him for the eventuality of anal penetration, and getting the strap-on. Because his penis isn’t being sexually stimulated, it has the effect of gradually turning other parts of his body into erogenous zones, particularly his anus and his prostate. With patience and persistence, he can be trained to orgasm from stimulation in that region via your finger, or the strap-on.
14. If his orgasms are consistently controlled and severely restricted, he will eventually get to the point where he will do just about anything to cum. You’ll be amazed by what he’ll do for you.
Chastity - power to the woman
This voluntary act in which the man shows his trust and hands over the key to his most precious possessions to her who will then decide when he is to be released. This is an action which gives enormous power to the woman in a relationship, or the supervisor on our course and it is a gift from him to her.
It is a sexual act which frees him from the ability to pleasure himself and frees him to learn how to please his partner and thus be allowed pleasure himself.
It sounds from this description a strange and “kinky “activity, but surprisingly the approach has wide acceptance as a method to improve male performance and pleasure.
The Mental Game of Chastity
The power exchange exists in the realm of the minds so to the submissive male, being denied can provide him with more mental pleasure and more mental fulfillment than a physical orgasm.
The aroused and denied male will spend more time in subspace and thus his mind will be on a mental sphere where the female rules supreme in his life and he is much more eager to serve the female.
The mental stimulation should touch a man’s psychological triggers, which will stimulate him sexually. It is that mental stimulation that causes an intense power exchange and that can make sex more pleasurable for the woman both physically and mentally while at the same time fulfilling the male need to be dominated.
Chastity and BDSM
Chastity is a fantastic pawn in the BDSM game. It is a great tool for tease and denial, and can be implemented as an incredibly effective punishment/reward scheme. Dominants that have never fully engaged in chastity play, will have almost certainly at some point employed a ‘permission to cum?’ policy. So, what’s the difference? Well chastity play takes this concept one step further and gives the Key Holder full control over their slave’s orgasms. Many people who love to engage in BDSM have not yet discovered the joys of chastity
Locked in Chastity for BDSM
Key Holder is a term used to describe the dominant woman in a male chastity agreement. Many couples are into BDSM and male chastity is one of the many methods that these women use to dominate their men. Some men are more turned on the more they are ordered around.
The woman will tease the man while he has a male chastity device on and she is the only one who has the key to open it and award him with a release. Discuss it with your partner in detail and decide if you want your chastity to be long term or short term.
If you are just starting out, you should ease into it before you commit to being locked in. If you enter into it before you are ready it will likely prolong the process.
“be careful what you wish for”
There is an old saying among those wives who adopted a chastity lifestyle because their husbands encouraged them…”be careful what you wish for”.
If some of the husbands were given a choice to go back to their old ways they would, but none of the wives would.
Deep down the caged men are happier because they wanted to be sexually controlled by their wives and now they are. Their new reality is often much different than their original fantasy because it is now your fantasy not his.
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HOW TO SUCK DICK
If you simply wanted to get a guy off as quickly as possible, all you need to do is lock your lips at the base of his cock and suction them up and down the bottom ¾ of his shaft at a quick, steady pace while pressing your flattened tongue against the underside of his dick. Make sure you are applying pressure with both your lips AND tongue. Keeping your tongue engaged at all times is key. I try to keep mine moving at all times. This is how you get 90% of guys off. It helps me keep from gagging to hold his cock steady at the base and bring my lips down to meet my fingers. You can do this very slowly for a more intense feeling, but make sure you move at a steady rhythm. Some guys like it faster or slower; you may have to ask, or more likely, he’ll tell you. This is your power move, the one that is actually going to bring him to orgasm. A true hooker blowjob needs only this one move; if scientists were to create a blowjob machine, this is what it would do. The other moves I’m going to teach you are artistic flourishes; you use them to add flair and style to your blowjob or to slow down the action a little. SALIVA Don’t be afraid to just slobber all over his love muscle. It should be as wet and sloppy as possible, especially during your power move. A good blowjob makes loud, gross suction-y noises. When I’m done, I’m usually covered in my own drool and leave a wet spot on the bed. USING YOUR HANDS If his dick is too big for you to take the whole thing in your mouth, you’ll need to use your hand too. Slobber all over his cock for awhile first so your hand will slide easily up and down instead of just catching on his dry skin. The most important hand move is the twister. When you slide your hand up his shaft, twist your wrist. A twisting motion gets you into a smoother rhythm than the straight up and down. Slide your hand up and down on the base of his cock in conjunction with your mouth moving up and down on the rest of it. The hard part is finding the correct grip: again you may want his guidance. Another good trick is to wrap your hand around the top of his cock and put your mouth over your hand. Then slide your hand down the shaft and your mouth down on top of it in a fluid motion until your hand meets the base of his cock. It will feel like you’re sliding your mouth all the way down him even if you can’t. It’s times like these I wish I could draw; I’d make little diagrams. THE BALLS I usually start out by paying some attention to the balls. There are three basic ball moves: you can put them in your mouth and suck them (LIGHTLY), lick them with a flattened cow tongue, or tense your tongue into a point and run the tip of your tongue all over them. I alternate between all three. Sometimes I lift them up and lick underneath his balls. Also, if you cup them while you are entering the home stretch, you’ll be able to tell he’s about to cum as they get higher and tighter. THE HEAD My next move is usually to give his shaft several long licks from base to tip. This is the ice cream cone move; it looks sexy, it’s a nice touch, but it’s not going to make anybody cum. While conducting the power move, I come up from time to time to give the head a little attention: sucking on it, moving my tongue in a circle around it, and flicking my tongue over that spot on the underside that all the sex websites tell you is el sensitivo. In my experience, guys don’t really go that wild over attention to that spot, but these are just flourishes anyway. I tend to get a bit wrapped up in my work that I forget to make eye contact, so head action is a great time to look up at him with puppy dog eyes and his cock in your mouth. FACE SLAPPING I mentioned this in my tips to get him to cum faster, but at least once during the beej, I usually pop his dick out of my mouth and slap it against my tongue or face, then look at him while I rub his cock against my cheeks and lips. Guys are visual, this is just a little something dirty for him to look at. DEEP THROAT I can’t really teach you how to deep throat, that’s between you and your gag reflex. The important thing, I think, is to make an effort to take him in as deep as you can, even if it’s only for a few seconds. It’s hard to explain exactly how I do this: try concentrating on relaxing your throat and jaw. As I mentioned before, it helps me to steady his cock with my hand when I go deep, and breathing in instead of just holding your breath also helps abate that “gonna puke” feeling. THE BIG FINALE When you’re ready to finish him off, go into the power move and don’t vary your pace for anything. If you’re cupping his balls, you’ll often be able to tell when he’s about to cum as they tighten up. I speed up a little bit at the end, and when I feel him start to come I push my head down as deep as it will go and suck slowly and intensely at the base, letting his cum just shoot down my throat.
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Cruel to be Kind
Is it cruel or kind to ruin the male orgasm?
Ruined orgasms make little sense if the male is a dom. He gets pure enjoyment from it, it feels great, and afterwards, he will still be in the proper frame of mind to remain dominant. Nothing is lost in the process.
But what of the submissive male? He has been a good boy all week, so you decide that he deserves an orgasm. You remove his chastity device and tease him into a frenzy. At that moment, he needs to cum so badly, to the point where he would do humiliating things he probably wouldn’t normally do to achieve it. He is as submissive as he will ever be as you decide that you have teased him enough, and you send him crashing over the edge. The only problem is, his submissive feelings crash as well, as his body releases prolactin during the full male orgasm.
Suddenly, your good boy goes through a drastic change. He loses most of his lust for you, his owner, which inspired much of his subordinate behavior. He may even balk at being relocked in his chastity cage. What the hell just happened? He has been feeling so submissive to you but most of that feeling just got flushed from his system along with his semen. What he wanted, needed, maybe even begged for a few seconds ago is immediately regretted by you both. Why?
As a domme you will feel peeved by his sudden change in demeanor. You think his submission to you shouldn’t change just because of a momentary bodily function. Are you just a kink dispenser for him? He should be submissive no matter what. And you know what? A truly submissive male will agree with those thoughts, feeling guilty and disappointed with himself over it. His heart will be filled with dread and self doubt. He will regret having that orgasm just as much as you now regret giving it to him.
Not only does he enjoy serving and obeying you, he also loves the general feeling of being submissive. It is a part of him, a part of who he is, how he identifies himself, and he has just lost that. The release of prolactin ruins his submissive frame of mind making it hard for him to submit afterwards for a few hours, to even a day or two. He feels bad, but has no control over the process. But working in collaboration with you, as a team , it can be controlled.
The ruined male orgasm. Is it really ruined, or is it simply improved upon? After all, it is still pleasurable to him, just not as powerful and intense as a full orgasm. The important part is denying the prolactin release. If successful, not only will his submissive feelings remain, his horniness and lust which are pleasurable to him in their own right will continue (subdued) as well.
Are a few seconds of intense pleasure worth it in the end? Or is it better to trade that short burst for a much longer but still highly enjoyable experience? After all, he isn’t really gaining anything by orgasming. He is trading one pleasure for another, his submissive feelings that can last days for a quick burst of intensity that lasts only seconds, and ruins everything else.
We have decided that ruined orgasms will be the answer in the foreseeable future. It’s just better, for both of us.
A guide to entering the Hotwife lifestyle
So you are now one of the millions of women who learned she has a husband with fantasies about you having sex with other men. Welcome to our club. Hopefully you’re past the shock. Maybe you have even reached that point where there is no need for me to tell you how lucky you are. If you’re not then you WILL reach that point if you follow what other wives like me have learned. If you’re like most of us, you were unaware that your husband had these desires. You were living the married life thinking that you knew your husband better than he knew himself. Ha! Too funny. Depending on how long you’ve been married, things may or may not have cooled off in the bedroom. Face it. The rut comes to every bedroom. If it hasn’t don’t be lulled into thinking it won’t happen to you. Some of you may have already had affairs or even had thoughts of leaving your husband out of sheer boredom. Then you somehow found out about his secret fantasy, and hopefully decided that there is a solution for the both of you. Lucky you, even if you don’t know it yet. He wants you to have sex with another man. Wow. Unsure about it? Don’t feel alone. I did too. But take a moment and think about the potential. See all of those other unhappy women out there in boring, sexless marriages? See all those other women around you having affairs, lying to themselves and their husbands, and risking messy divorces? Don’t laugh at them. They were once you, or could have been you. But now you will end up different from them. If you read this and follow it you’re going to find yourself on a road that will return you to sexual fulfillment, feeling as confident as when you were first married, in love with your husband again and appreciating him more than ever. You are on the way to becoming a Hot Wife. A Hot Wife is a woman who is free to have sex with others with her husband’s knowledge, approval and encouragement. The level of her husband’s involvement can vary. In fact it will be up to YOU. Some wives play completely on their own, with no interaction with her husband. Others enjoy their husband watching or participating. However, in all these relationships the wife is free to play with others, while the husband remains completely monogamous and faithful only to her. Sound crazy? Well believe me when I tell you it is easy to do and your sex life will be better than you imagine. In this new relationship the husband is often called a cuckold, which just means a man with a cheating wife. Of course cheating is a misnomer, since the wife’s actions are not hidden from the husband, and he is very aware of her activities. In fact his awareness and approval is one of the most important ingredients. It will turn him on like nothing you’ve ever done before. I assume you’re reading this because you’ve finally found out about your husband’s desires and you are contemplating the Hot Wife lifestyle. Good for you, but you may want some advice. First, go slowly. Do not rush it. Having a husband that enjoys this lifestyle is different, so you need to nurture the relationship first and foremost, while moving into the lifestyle slowly. It might take time before you are comfortable having full on sex in front of him, or he may take time to become accustomed to watching or knowing you are out being intimate with other men. What you want to do is encourage his desires for you to be with other men, and make it as pleasurable for him as it is for you. If you go slowly and follow my advice, in time you will have a husband that will let you do anything sexually. Anything! And he will want you to do more. He will find himself anticipating it as much as you (maybe more than you). He will get his sexual satisfaction from YOUR encounters with other men, and most importantly he will be drawn to you like never before, and more in love with you than at any time in your marriage! In the Hot Wife lifestyle there are three levels of involvement for your husband: 1. You meet other men alone with no involvement from your husband. He may never know them or meet the other men in your life. You meet them on your own, and make all arrangements without any approval from your husband. The other men may or may not know about your lifestyle, or be aware that your husband knows about them. They may not even know you’re married, if you choose to remove your rings and pretend to be single. 2. You meet other men together with your husband, with him knowing them, and them knowing of him. However any interaction between both men is more on a social or perhaps friendship level. Your husband is not involved in any sexual activities between you and the other man. Your husband could even be the one who finds other men or helps make arrangements for you to meet them (your “dates”). But your husband is not included in your sexual encounters, except possibly left to hear them via an open phone call while they are happening. 3. Having sexual relations with other men in your husband’s presence, or even engaging in some sexual play that involves all three of you, ménage à trois style. In the classic cuckold arrangement you engage in sexual play with your lover while your husband watches, but he does not play at all. As an extension of this situation, there can be involvement of the husband in the classic ménage-a-trois arrangement, or traditional three ways. This could involve any degree of sex, which all three agree upon. Some wives prefer their husband be involved sexually and that is your choice. As you will see this will all become about YOUR preferences. Any of these levels can be appropriate, depending on the couple and what they prefer. It’s important to know where you, and to a lesser extent your husband, wish to take things, so open communication is important to establish your goals and boundaries. Just make sure that the “other” man fully understands everything as well. It’s important for him to know upfront where he fits into the couple’s relationship. It’s also important that he respect any boundaries you set out (you set the boundaries, NOT your husband). With proper techniques, a new Hot Wife can quickly learn how to get the most from her sexual encounters AND help her husband find new levels of pleasure from a more passive role than he is likely to have experienced earlier in your marriage. This takes time though, as most husbands are accustomed to being the spouse in charge. As you begin, you MUST remember one very important fact. Hot Wife is not just about sex. It’s also about CONTROL. If you are like most women, your husband has been in control so far in your marriage. Right? Well, now you can change that. Hot Wife is about what YOU want. YOUR sexual pleasure. YOUR sexual control. I know it sounds strange. But once you’ve experienced it you WILL enjoy it immensely! Think YOU not HIM. As selfish as it may sound at first, doing so will turn him on more than anything you’ve ever done yet! The change in you by itself will begin to arouse him. Now, here’s what to do the first few times. After that, once you’ve got a taste of it (and he’s thirsty for more), you can do as you damn well please. After all, you are the Hot Wife! (You won’t read stuff like this anywhere else.) Remember rule #1 - The goal is for YOU to be in control of the sex, not him. You do what you want; when you want; and how you want; with whom you want and have him go along with it. Got it? First, you have to set the groundwork from the beginning. If you do it right, he will be totally faithful and a perfect husband to you, as he learns to get his sexual satisfaction in the lifestyle as a result of YOUR being satisfied. Meanwhile you can have fun with your new freedom and let out the little slut that’s bottled up inside every woman. DON’T let him decide what kind of sex or how much sex or who you should have sex with. Remember this - NO CHOICE and NO VOICE. He should have no say in whether or not you jack a man off, or if you chose to screw the entire staff of Starbucks. He should have no say in whether you go out to another mans home, or bring a man into your bedroom. He should have no say in when it happens, or whom you choose. Once you allow him to have a say, then you let the control slip back to him. That’s NOT what you want. You want to be the one in control. Trust me, YOU will love it once it happens, and HE will too (even if he doesn’t know why). When you decide you’re going to go out and meet someone, or have someone over, just tell your husband, in a very matter of fact tone. Don’t give him a choice in the matter. Say, “I’m having someone over tomorrow evening and we’re going to spend some time in bed.” Or say, “I’m going out with someone Friday night and I plan to go home with him afterward”. That’s it. You can share as many details as you want (before and after) but don’t let him try to influence you or allow him to shape the event. Be firm. Make it clear that you are making the decision because it’s what you want. Take control of your sexuality and control that aspect of your relationship for that night. Send the message that you’re in charge. If you want, it’s fine to tell him what’s going to happen before you do it. That is a big part of the excitement for many couples. Share all of the details you wish. But the idea is to show him that you’ve made a decision based on YOUR needs and desires, and his needs are secondary to your needs right now. Show him that you’re a horny woman who’s taken charge of getting yourself satisfied without him. The idea that you will go to another man for your sexual fulfillment will drive him crazy with lust for you (trust me!). It’s also important to keep him involved every step of the way. Share everything. Depending on your relationship level, you may want to keep him abreast of your discussions with the other man, share details of your plans, etc. It’s important to keep him involved, but as a SPECTATOR and NOT a participant. This creates a sexually charged experience for him, even before you have ANY sex at all! If you are having thoughts about calling someone to meet this weekend, tell him. Let the suspense and excitement build. It’s a game. Share it with him and it will excite you BOTH. When the big day arrives to meet a man, be deliberately aloof and distant from your husband the entire day. Give him some tasks to keep him busy, maybe something that helps prepare for your evening. Perhaps send him out to buy a nice bottle of wine, or tidy up around the household. Many couples enjoy the ritual of the husband helping the wife prepare herself for a date. You can have him help you bathe or shower, and dry you off. Have him put on your panties and stockings. I talk to my husband and tease him, I tell him to get me ready for the other man’s cock, etc. Doing this lays the groundwork early on. It puts you in charge and creates an atmosphere where he begins to mentally relinquish his rights to you, as part of turning you over to another man. Doing this also reinforces the new power you have. It will also make the sex more intense between the two of you during the next few days, when he takes charge of you again. It’s an important part of the game that has powerful appeal, and helps bond you together. If you are having a man over, have your husband arrange the areas where you will entertain (living room, bedroom, ect). Dim the lights. Light some candles and put on some quiet music as you wait. If he will be present in the bedroom, have him prepare an area off to the side from where he will watch. When the man arrives, EVERYTHING should change. Discuss beforehand what your husband’s role will be. Assuming that he remains present, there are certain things you can do to set the tone, and create an unforgettable night for him AND you. First, have it prearranged for him to sit somewhere out of the way, so that you and your lover can carry on as if your husband is NOT THERE AT ALL (this is VERY important). I usually tell the other man to ignore my husband. After the early pleasantries my husband seldom interacts with us at all. The excitement of experiencing a new man sexually, while at the same time turning on the man I love, is difficult to explain but incredibly exciting. When the man arrives at your home, don’t be timid and make small talk for an hour. This is a common mistake. It’s too awkward to prolong things. Everyone knows he’s there for sex. There’s no reason to delay. Since it’s all about sex, look for the first chance to break the ice and get started. This is part of your “take charge” persona that comes with the control you’ve assumed. Show your desire for the other man by initiating intimacy while your husband watches. If I know him from previous dates I often give a full kiss to my “date” right in the doorway and linger, perhaps even lightly rub his crotch a bit, giving him a chance to return the grope. Then I walk him into the living room, with my husband either following or already waiting for us. Depending on the man, I sometimes prefer to have an adult video playing on the TV with the volume turned down, and pleasant music playing lightly in the background. With a nice glass of wine this is a sure-fire way to get things going without much delay. You can linger there if you want, or wildly strip off your clothes and jump on him, or lead him to the bedroom. It’s up to you. You’re the Hot Wife. Some women like to tease their husbands for a while. Others just like to plop down in the doorway and start sucking within seconds. It’s up to you. Do what turns YOU on. YOU are in charge. Some wives like to NOT look at or talk to their husband AT ALL, especially during the first few times he watches. But some husbands want their wives to look them in the eye while they’re enjoying their new lover. It can be very exciting to tell your husband how GOOD it feels, how much BIGGER he is than your husband, and how much BETTER the sex feels. Cuckold husbands want their hotwives to have the BEST sexual experience of their lives, so let him know that is what you are getting. It can be extremely sexy either to ask if it’s OK for your lover to cum inside of you, or for your husband to hear you TELL your lover to cum inside of you. And be sure to let your husband know each and every time you orgasm with your new lover. On the other hand, you can try to totally PRETEND HE’S NOT THERE. Some watching husbands love this. They like to think they are anonymously watching you have a secret sexual affair. But in any case, they want to see you lost with your lover, while they get a front row seat to the best live porn they will ever experience. Here’s more advice for the first few times. ENJOY yourself! Don’t be shy or act inhibited. Don’t be afraid to moan and scream and cry out with passion. Pay attention to your lover exactly like you would if you were totally alone with him. Many women feel inhibited and reserved with their husband watching, but this hinders what you want to accomplish. He wants to see you in the throes of wild passion, without a care in the world (least of all worrying about your husband). It may take you some time to do it, but putting him out of your mind should be your goal. Here’s another tip - treat your lover like you treated your husband WHEN YOU WERE DATING. Ladies, you know what this means. Let your slut come out! Plenty of oral sex. Plenty of fucking. Multiple times if possible. Give him all he wants, until he can’t see straight and you can’t walk straight! When he’s done, continue to pamper him EXACTLY as you would your husband, right up until the goodnight kiss at the door. After he leaves, you think you’re done and now it’s time for some sleep? Surprise girl! It’s not close to being over yet. The next step is VERY important if you want to keep doing this. It’s important that your husband support your Hot Wife life, and that he be behind you all the way. So, even if you’re tired, you must immediately turn ALL your attention to your husband. Turn off the distant, sex-starved Hot Wife games you played earlier and become ALL HIS AGAIN! Let him reclaim you as his own. Reassure him that you’re still his wife and that you love him even MORE for allowing you this night of pleasure! Depending on the couple, you may or may not have sex right away, or even for days after (this is up to you two). He may even have masturbated earlier, while watching you. I know some husbands who just watch without a hard-on but then end up fucking their wives like madmen for days after the date. Many husbands will want to perform CLEAN UP duty. This is where the husband licks the lovers cum from the wife’s pussy or off of her breasts. It can be EXTREMELY arousing for both involved! It’s a primal reaction serving to both reclaim the wife and show the husband’s subservience to her pleasure. But even though they desire this, most husbands will not do this on their own. Your husband may want you to ORDER HIM to perform clean up duty. This maintains the woman’s sexual dominance in all areas of the Hot Wife lifestyle. But each relationship is different. Do what’s right for you two. But as soon as the other man departs you must be right back in your husband’s arms and become his wife and lover again. Make sure he receives the love and pleasure and release he needs to REINFORCE his desire to watch you do it again. Over the next few days, reassure him that you love him and care about him, that you’re his wife forever. Most importantly, remind him that you LOVE the fact that he lets enjoy this lifestyle. Tell him how much you enjoyed that night. Tease him while replaying the night over and over. Tell him you can’t wait to do it again. Tell him how self-assured and unique he is to be able to share you the way he does, and how you appreciate the freedom he gives you. Chances are you’ll be having great sex with your husband for weeks after he watches, and he will be more attentive and loving than he was before you started these games. That’s just another benefit of the lifestyle. When that happens, you’ll become hooked on the Hot Wife lifestyle, and so will he. If you do this, the lifestyle will become an important part of your sexual relationship and it will grow into the most exciting sex life you’ve ever enjoyed together. In time, his most intense sexual pleasure will come from you HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE, as crazy as that might sound. And what could be better for you? You get to take charge of your sex life. You get to explore new sexual horizons most married women never experience. Your husband will love and adore you more than he ever has, and you BOTH stay sexually fulfilled. There is so much to experience in this lifestyle that you’ll never be bored. If you lay the right groundwork and do it correctly from the beginning, you can have a supportive, open-minded husband and the freedom to do whatever you want with his blessing. To me, there is no better marriage than one that is open and sexually permissive. Without my loving husband involved in my new life, I would probably have long ago been divorced and miserable by now. So get out there and get started.
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Great article
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This is actually a really good article. Some things in here are of opinion and not fact, but for the most part I agree with the overall message. My wife and I play more of a Stag/Vixen role but with a lot of Hotwife tendencies.
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I agree
Good points
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If she’s sleeping with someone else, he’s going to be better than you. She’s not going to pick some ugly dude with a small penis. Why would she do that? She’s going to pick the hottest guy she can find. She’s going to pick someone that’s great in bed. She’s going to pick someone that’s absolutely better than you. Can you handle that?
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When they’re kissing, let it turn you on. When she has him in her mouth and he’s moaning in pleasure, let it turn you on. When she gets on top and takes him inside her, let it turn you on. When she’s on her back with her legs wrapped around him and his tongue in her mouth as he fills her, let it turn you on. Be the cuckold she needs.
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Wife tells story of Cock Craving Hubby
I am married to a wonderful man and we have a great sex life. . I learned early in our marriage that my husband is both kinky and submissive. I loved being dominant in bed and making him do all kinds of kinky adventures. I never realized just how submissive and kinky Michael really was until this month. Over the years of marriage, we loved experimenting with sex. We are both very open- minded and have tried many different kinks. We have evolved sexually to the point where Michael wears women’s panties regularly, and is very submissive to me. Michael loves oral sex, both giving and receiving. I keep myself shaved and he loves nothing better than to lick and suck my bald pussy. He adores my mouth on his hard cock. Let me tell you how Michael has progressed sexually and how I helped him to finally suck another man’s hard cock. Over the years, I realized that my husband loved being dominated by me and loved being made to do kinkier and kinkier things. It started with me playing with his ass while sucking him off and led me to buy a strap-on dildo and fuck his ass. Today, he loves being bent over and fucked in the ass by me. I love fucking my husband’s ass, especially when he’s wearing women’s panties.. Within the last year, I came upon a new kink that really turned on my husband and me during sex. Michael loves being forced to eat his own cum. It makes my pussy very wet watching my husband get hard as he licks up and swallows his own just spurted hot sperm. We have been very creative coming up with different ways to make him eat his cum. It started with creampies. I would tie up my husband to the bed, ride his cock until his shot his load into my shaved pussy and then I would crawl up and plant my wet, dripping freshly fucked pussy, full of cum on my husband’s hungry mouth. His cock would get hard again as he sucked his cum from my pussy. It has progressed to the point that every orgasm my husband has ends with him eating it. We love having him cum into a glass and drinking it. I have numerous pictures of him cumming in a glass and then drinking it. Another favorite is cumming on my big tits and licking it up. Michael loves being taunted about cum eating, so I usually tease him while working his load from his cock. As I work my tongue in his sensitive bottom, I tell him, “Are you hungry tonight, honey? You know when you cum, I’m going to catch it and make you eat it and swallow it!“ I can feel my husband quiver with lust as I tease him both verbally and with my tongue flicking in his ass. I plunge my tongue deep and hear Michael moan. I stroke again his twitching cock from behind. “Do you want it, baby…? Do you want to taste your cum?“ I tease. “Oh please, Kim, please…” he begs. “Please what, honey, what do want? You need to beg me…if you want it…beg me, honey to feed you!“ I taunt. This is what I love…my husband so submissive, so compliant to my demands. “Please, baby, make me cum….I need it..MMMMMMMM…!” he moans as I continue to tongue fuck his ass and stroke his hard cock. “Please what… tell me….what are you going to do…if I let you cum… what are you going to do for me? I want to hear you, Michael, beg me to feed it to you!” “Please, honey, please feed me…. Feed me my cum… make me eat it, OH! I want it so bad, make me eat my cum…. Please Kim make me swallow my own thick cum!” my husband begs. When he cums I catch it all in a wine glass and then I pour into his open mouth and tell him to swallow it all. For months, Michael has been eating his own cum and we’ve both been getting off` on it. About 3 weeks ago, we had rented a female domination video from our local video store. We occasionally did this and usually ended up getting off on the kinky videos. Almost always, we get new ideas of domination for me. These videos involve women dominating men and usually it involved men getting fucked by women with strap-ons, men getting spanked, and men eating their own cum. As you can imagine, we have fun watching and getting ideas and experimenting. This movie we watched involved a dominatrix dominating a man. She dressed the man as a woman, putting on make-up and then using strap-on on him. Michael and I both got off watching this, but many videos we had rented involved this type of action. What was unique about this video was toward the end, the dominatrix tied her man up, and had another man come into the scene. As Michael and I watched, she had her submissive male suck off the other man and then take his cock up his ass. To say that Michael was turned on would be an understatement. His cock was hard and dripping. It was then that I started thinking that maybe my husband was kinkier than I realized. Maybe my husband was bisexual. Just the thought of it made my pussy quiver. I started thinking I would really like to see Michael with another man. My thoughts were confirmed later that night. After we had both gone to bed that night, I awoke to find Michael not in bed. I heard noises downstairs. When I came quietly down the stairs into our basement, their was my husband lying across our leather couch, masturbating watching the section of the video showing the sub male sucking another man off. As I watched and my pussy dripped, my husband stroked off and came watching the cocksucking. He moaned and seemed to really enjoy watching as the submissive male, looked up into the other man’s face as he licked and sucked his cock. My pussy dripped with lust as I realized how sexy it was to see a man submit sexually to another man. How sexy to watch a cuffed, kneeling man being forced to suck another man’s cock; the dominatrix was holding her sub male’s head and taunting him as he sucked cock for the first time. It was then that I realized that I wanted to see my husband suck cock. I was turned on by it and I wanted to see it. That night, I decided that I would help my husband become a cocksucker. That weekend I decided to train my husband to be an expert cocksucker.. After a lovely dinner out, I had my husband kneeling in front of me wearing nothing but his little panties. I was wearing a nothing but my strap on. “Go on, touch it, you little slut, touch my cock, I know you want it.“ I taunted. Michael reached up and stroked my strap on.. I thrusted my hips forward and grabbed his head and rubbed my strap on against Michael’s face. “What do you want, honey, do you want my cock?“ I taunt. “OH, yes, Kim, I want it!” Michael announces. I slap the latex cock against my husband’s face and lips and say, “If you want this cock, you need to beg for it, you want to be my cocksucker don’t you, honey, tell me!”Michael moans and says, “Please, Kim, please let me suck your beautiful cock, feed it to me mistress!“ That caused my pussy to twitch hearing my husband beg to suck my cock and calling me mistress. “Are you going to suck it for me, like a little faggot? Are you going to be my cocksucker? Do you want to be a cocksucker for me, Michael?” I taunt. “Yes, I want to be your cocksucker, Kim, make me suck your cock!” Michael responds. I grabbed my husband’s head forced my latex cock into his mouth. I held his head and slowly fucked his face. As I watched my husband slide his lips on my strap on cock, my pussy twitched in lust. “You know, Michael, when a cocksucker sucks a cock, he should always swallow the load of cum. Are you going to swallow my cum, cocksucker?“ I taunted. “MMMMMMMM…”Michael moaned. “Tell me, honey, are you a good cocksuker? Are you going to eat my load?” I asked again. Michael reluctantly pulled his mouth off my cock to answer. “Yes, mistress, I want to suck you off, AND I want to swallow your cum, give it to me, baby, make me your cocksucker, make me a slut!” he begged. I grabbed his head again and assaulted his mouth again. I spent the next 20 minutes face fucking my husband, calling him names like “cocksucker”, “slut”, “faggot”, and “homo”. He obviously was enjoying my cock and sucked it hungrily. I orgasmed at least twice as he sucked it. When I was sure he was really getting off sucking the strap-on, I decided it was time to feed him his cum. “Are you ready, cocksucker? I’m going to fill your mouth with my load! Get ready to swallow it all, faggot!" Michael continued sucking and slurping. "Stroke your cock, honey, while you suck my cock!” Michael stroked his cock and quickly was close to orgasm as I plunged in and out of his sucking mouth. I then handed him his empty wine glass and told him to fill it up. He quickly stroked off into the wine glass – shooting a large load of cum into the glass. He then handed the cum filled glass to me. I then pulled my cock from his mouth until just my strap on cockhead remained in his lips. Ib began pouring the glass of cum onto my strap on letting the thick sperm ooze down the latex shaft until it met my husband’s lips. I kept holding his head and demanded, “Swallow it bitch! Don’t you dare miss a drop! Eat it! Cocksucker, swallow it all When he had swallowed most of it, I pulled the dildo from his sucking lips. I then made him lick my cock clean and lick the glass clean. Over the next week, I taught Michael the finer points of cocksucking and swallowing cum using my strap-on. I couldn’t wait to see Michael being submissive to another man and sucking his cock and drinking another man’s semen. After continuing to practice cocksucking and assfucking with my husband, Michael finally admitted what I had known from that evening with the DVD. Michael admitted he was really getting off fantasizing about cocksucking. I knew it all along. But, when I asked him specifically if he would like to find another man to suck his cock, he hesitated. It was then that I realized that although my husband was truly bisexual, he was also submissive to me. Michael wanted me to set it up and make him cocksucker – just like in those DVD’s we loved. I then began using the internet to find a man to feed my husband his cock. Within a couple of weeks, I had found 2 very promising prospects. We began sending pictures back and forth. I sent photos of Michael wearing panties and eating his own cum. I also sent photos of Michael sucking my strap-on. Both men were in their 30’s, handsome, in great shape and dominant. They eagerly agreed that I would be in charge, but Michael would definitely be submissive to them. I told them both that my goal was to allow my bi-curious husband a chance to try cocksucking and then assfucking. I also explained that my husband was most turned on by sucking cock and eating cum. I finally decided to invite Bruce over because he had the largest cock. Bruce was to stop by this coming Friday night. He was to arrive exactly at 9 pm. Bruce had washboard abs, and a great looking 9 inch cock. I knew my bisexual husband was about to realize his dream of a mouthful of cock. My plan was to handcuff Michael and taunt him Friday evening with my strap-on while having him dressed up as a little slut. The night started as all our scenes do, I had Michael in his fishnet stockings, black satin panties, and completely hairless. Tonight, as I dolled up Michael, I promised him a surprise, so I added lipstick I had Michael lying on his back, hands tied over his head with me straddling his chest and slowly feeding him my strap-on. When I hear the doorbell ring, Bruce is right on time. I re-position Michael to be kneeling on the floor next to our bed with his hands cuffed behind his back. I let Bruce in and after sharing a glass of wine, I tell Bruce to wait just outside the bedroom door. I return to my kneeling husband. I continue to feed him my strap on cock, taunting him about cocksucking. Working him up so he’ll be very ready and eager for it. "You want a real cock, don’t you cocksucker! Tell me!”Michael pulls his wet mouth off the strap on. “Yes, please Kim!” he responds.“Yes please, what?” I demand. “Tell me, Michael, what do you want? What would you do if a real man wanted you to suck his very real hard cock? Would you suck it?” I taunt. “YESSSS!” he responds almost begging. “What about his cum, if you suck a cock, you’ll have to eat his cum?” “Please, Kim… that’s what I want!”Michael pleads. I am stroking Michael’s hair as he kneels between my legs, my strap on cock still wet with his saliva, inches from his lips. There is a knock on our bedroom door jam – the door is open. We both look up and see Bruce who is standing there with a wide grin on his face. I return his smile and say, “Come on in, Bruce!”Bruce’s muscular frame fills the doorway. “Surprise!” I say. Michael’s face is flushed with embarrassment. “Well, hello, Bruce, welcome to our home!” I say. Michael is kneeling, embarrassed, and nervous. “Michael, this is Bruce, Bruce, this is my husband Michael.” I continue. My husband looks up at the beautiful stranger. “Um, hi.” He says. Bruce comes over to me and give me a hug. He then looks down at my husband and says, “Hi sexy, you look very nice.” “Michael, you know why Bruce is here, don’t you?" I ask. ”Yes.“ he responds. "Honey, please tell Bruce and me what you want tonight!” I demand. “I want…I want you to make me…a …cocksucker!" he stammers."That’s right, honey, and if Bruce let’s you suck his cock, what must you do?” I taunt. Michael’s cock is still rock hard and throbbing in his panties. “I must…swallow, I will swallow his cum load.” He answers. “Oh, Michael, that’s is so sexy and sweet! Bruce, would you allow us the privilege of making my husband a cocksucker?” I request. “I would love to!" Bruce responds. Then as I step back and begin removing my strap on, Bruce begins undressing in front of my kneeling husband. I realize we are about to realize our deepest fantasy of turning my husband into a cocksucking faggot. My pussy drips thinking about it. Then, I almost orgasm, as Bruce strips down to his last piece of clothing. The muscular Bruce, completely clean shaven from head to toe, is standing in front of my submissive husband in nothing but a pair of sexy, French cut, black, satin women’s panties. His massive cock is not even erect and it fills the front of the panties to overflowing. As Bruce stands in front of my kneeling husband, I hear Michael let out a long deep breath and moan. I can tell he is very ready to suck his first cock. I watch as Michael is staring at Bruce’s bulge in his panties. He licks his lips. "Go on, honey, reach out and stroke him, stroke him through his silky panties!” I practically moan. My pussy begins quivering as I watch my husband reach out and touch another man for the first time. His hands almost look small compared to Bruce’s massive tool. Michael begins stroking up and down Bruce’s mighty satin covered shaft.“UUUUUUGGGGGGHHHH!” Bruce moans. “Oh, Michael, that feels so good!”Bruce moans. “Pull it out, baby, and start licking and kissing it!” I beg. I stare intently as Michael then pulls Bruce’s 9 inches of semi-erect cock from his panties. I feel myself go over the edge in orgasm as I watch Michael’s tongue flick out and begin licking the cockhead of another man. Michael needs no more encouragement. He is in his own world as he fulfills his fantasy of cocksucking. He is kissing and licking and swirling his tongue on Bruce’s now very erect cock like a pornstar. Bruce then takes control and grabs Michael by the back of the head and as I watch in lust, pushes his massive cock into Michael’s eager mouth. Michael is now kneeling beside our bed, Bruce’s massive hard on is half way plugged into my husband’s sucking lips. I hear Michael moan around the thickly veined shaft sliding between his lips. “Suck it, cocksucker, this is what you’ve always wanted, isn’t it, you little cocksucking slut, suck your boyfriend’s big cock for me, baby, eat it up!” I taunt. Michael is sucking, and swirling his tongue on Bruce’s cock and slowly bobbing his head back and forth. I am twisting my erect nipples and rubbing my soaking pussy. I want so badly to watch Bruce fill my husband’s mouth with his seed. Our bedroom is filled with wet sounds of sucking, slurping as men moaning as my husband sucks his first cock. After watching Michael suck cock for 15 minutes, Bruce is ready to explode.
“Are you ready, cocksucker? I’m gonna cum in your mouth!” Bruce announces. Michael stays focused on sucking and flicking his tongue on the big tool in his mouth. Bruce is holding Michael’s head and then…“UUUUUGGGGGHHHHH!!!” he begins cumming in my husband’s sucking mouth. “OH GOD!!!! I moan as I watch another man unload into my husband’s mouth. Bruce is cumming directly into the back of Michael’s mouth. I watch as my husband begins swallowing rapidly as his cheeks draw in - sucking hard on the spurting cock. Then Bruce grips the base of his cock and pulls out of Michael’s still sucking lips and begins drooling the last of his load onto my husband’s lips and chin. My husband’s mouth is completely coated in another man’s thick, gooey sperm. I orgasm again as I watch my husband lick his lips clean. Once his lips are free of sperm, Bruce pushes his still erect cock back into Michael’s mouth and tells him to lick it clean. Later that evening, I watched as Bruce pushed his hard cock into my husband’s ass. Bruce savagely fucked Michael’s ass as my husband begged for it. The night of gay sex ended for my husband as Bruce pulled out Michael’s ass and cum in his mouth again. My husband and I went to bed that night exhausted and satisfied. Michael had 2 loads of another man’s sperm in his belly and a new appetite for more.
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