Lady Locks Her Luv

Our child has grown up and has left the nest. I have decided to devote my newly acquired free time to turn our marriage into a benevolent dictatorship entirely controlled by me. He wears the ultimate wedding ring, a locked chastity device.

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Intimacy Through Male Chastity

One of my main goals when I took charge of the relationship was to find ways to increase the intimacy between my husband and I, and surprisingly, one of the largest contributors has been male chastity. When men think of intimacy, they naturally think of sex. For most guys, it's the same thing.

We've all been there, right ladies? When you're not in the mood for sex but you know he wants it. A cuddle, a few kisses and some loving touches would be nice, but you don't go there because it will encourage him to pester you for sex and at that moment you just want to be held.

So you keep him at arms length, and you both lose out on intimacy just so you can avoid having unwanted sex. You end up feeling a bit guilty for holding him off and he feels rejected. It just sucks for both of you.

Enter male chastity. Why lock up his cock? Well, while he's wearing it, it removes the pressure on you to have sex when you not in the mood for it yourself. By keeping him on a fairly rigid release schedule, he knows it isn't going to happen for him that day.

One of the amazing things about male chastity is it teaches him that while sex and intimacy can be intricately linked, they aren't necessarily the same thing. He learns that, most of the time, he doesn't need to put his penis into you to feel loved and wanted.

While he can't have penetrative sex, he will still crave other types of intimacy, and he learns that most of the time, cuddling, kissing, and touching can be enough for him to feel desired and validated, even though he remains horny.

For me persomally, once the pressure to have sex is removed, I find myself being intimate with him more often than ever before, as the reason to hold him off is eliminated. Funny thing is, random loving kisses and caresses will often put me in playful mood, while knowing things won't escalate any further than I want them to at the time.

Feeling his lust for me, tends to fuel my own desire, and I find myself teasing him to distraction while he is so helplessly locked up. Even though he is still locked in chastity and will remain so, he can't help but want to touch and caress me back, and I begin to welcome his advances.. In his lust fueled state, sexual attention in any form is better than none at all, and he concentrates on my pleasure, giving me a wonderful orgasm that I didn't think I even wanted initially.

Maybe that's why a lot of males who are locked in chastity in their relationships get addicted to it, never wanting to give it up. Even though they get less sexual relief, they get more of what they really need, intimacy, leaving them feeling more loved and content overall.

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Intoxication and Interrogation

Shortly after I decided to convert our relationship into a wife led marriage, we attended a friends birthday party. My husband Luv ended up really drunk by the end of the night. He is usually a quiet and reserved type of person with an introverted personality but the booze, as is common, brought him out of his shell and he was quite talkative.

As I was driving home, he stated that I shouldn’t let him drink so much. He said he was sorry, hoped he didn’t embarrass me too much and understood if I felt the need to punish him.

My first thought was that he should be able to control himself but then I realized he has always been able to control how much he drinks and that this is one of the very few times he has gotten so drunk. I asked him if he needed me to control him in this way and he just slurred that I should control everything.

I quickly realized that this was a slight attempt to top from the bottom, and had more to do with our new female led relationship than his lack of control drinking. He was letting one of his submissive fantasies slip while being so drunk, something he would never let happen while sober. The alcohol had loosened up his tongue and I decided I could learn a lot about his fantasies when he was so intoxicated.

I told him that I would consider taking control of his alcohol intake and asked him if I did, would he accept any rules I made. He promised to be obedient. Now I knew for sure this was a submissive fantasy.

The next day he was hung over pretty badly. Even though he handled himself very well for being so drunk at the party, and I wasn’t mad at him in the slightest, I decided to pretend I was and give him a scolding about it anyway.

I asked Luv if he remembered what happened last night. He admitted that some of the latter part of the evening was a blur for him and he didn’t remember coming home at all which also meant he didn’t remember our conversation either.

I firmly explained to him that last nights behavior showed that I needed to take control of his alcohol intake, as his drinking was becoming out of control. He meekly stated he would accept my new rules about drinking.

I told him that from now on, he would never drink alcohol without my permission or he would be punished. This didn’t surprise him but the next part of the rule sure did, which stated that I would also be able to force him to consume it. He wasn’t expecting that and asked what it meant. All I told him was that he would find out in the future and he said it sounded interesting. He knows how devious my mind can be.

I held out for about a month and then one weekend when nothing was happening, I executed my plan. It was the first time he drank any alcohol since the party(we don’t drink often). Because we brought our own booze to the party, I knew exactly how much he drank that night and the amount of time it took him to consume it. I could use this information to recreate the conditions to get him to the same level of intoxication now.

I planned an evening in, watching movies and cuddling on the couch. By this time in our female led relationship, I was restraining him quite often so he thought nothing of it when I locked his fist-mitts on him and clipped them together behind his back making him relatively helpless.

I mixed up enough drinks to match the amount he drank at the party and put the booze in baby bottles. I usually use them to feed him liquids when restrained or caged for the ease of use, being spill proof, and also the humiliation aspect of making him drink from them (so cute watching him suck).

After putting the movie on TV, I slowly, over time, force fed him the booze in the baby bottles while cuddling him to my body very intimately, kissing him, making him suckle my breasts, and going down on me. We had a fun sexy time while I got him drunk. I only sipped one glass of wine myself for safety and as I would need my cognitive functions to interrogate him.

Once Luv was drunk enough to loosen his tongue, I kept cuddling and kissing him while asking him questions about his hidden kinks and desires, telling him that he could tell me anything and I wouldn’t judge him badly for his fantasies. Once he revealed something, I told him how sexy the idea was (no matter what I actually thought about it) to reassure him and kissed him deeply to encourage him to tell me more.

Because I made sure he was locked in chastity for a full week prior, he was quite horny when we started and the sexy cuddling teased him even more. The combination of sexual frustration combined with the alcohol worked great and I learned quite a lot that night. Again, he was too drunk to remember anything, other than we has a fun sexy night.

He has no idea that I was data mining him for ideas when he was drunk. He thinks that I’m amazing, coming up with everything on my own and can’t believe how well our kinks align.

People online have asked me where I get my ideas from for the various ways that I control him and surprisingly enough, a lot of them are directly from him.

In this way, he has taught me how to control him without even knowing about it, or being able to top from the bottom in any significant way. It also helps me tune my control style to match a lot of his fantasies to ensure he gets plenty of pleasure from our wife led marriage, as I want him happy while under my control.

Remember, I originally took control of the relationship to please him, and as a way of giving back to him for all the years that I neglected him sexually while stuck in mother mode. Then later, to my surprise, I fell in love with the lifestyle myself.

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The Perils of Using a Vibrator

Forget the vibrator, especially powerful units like this. It’s use can, and probably will, cause you to lose sensitivity on your most sensitive parts. Women nowadays wonder why they can’t experience orgasm while having sex with their partners and I suspect powerful vibrators are the cause. How can the delicate sensations a tongue creates possibly compare to the jack-hammering of a magic wand?

My husband tells me that many years ago, when he took a course on how to operate chainsaws, they told him about the dangers vibrations can cause. Using them for long periods of time could cause fingers to become numb and have poor circulation. They ended up putting anti-vibration mounts in chainsaw handles and now are standard equipment. On top of that, they issued special gloves to help combat vibration.

Now if a relatively tough part of your body (fingers and hands) can lose sensitivity from vibrations, how do you think it affects the most sensitive part of the female body (the clitoris)? Ladies, if you don’t want to be permanently damaged, stop using powerful vibrations to get yourself off.

You can read more about vibration damage to hands here.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vibration_white_finger

Please spread this message to all the ladies you love and don’t want harmed.

Thank you.

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