just a queer nerd

Nothing About Us Without Us • Fuck Generative AI • Poet • Writer • Kiwi • They/Them • Young Adult (18+) • I should be studying, instead I am on Tumblr...

[gaynpc03]

welcome! ♡

I’m queer, this is my blog—stick around if you want :) I post a mix of fandom, disability, psychology, mental health, and general gremlin chaos.

Let’s be real: there's no such thing as privacy online. Tumblr, though… Tumblr gets weird. Time for a quick heads-up

I do not welcome

Able-bodied people who treat disability as an aesthetic, or fetish.

Discrimination of any kind—homophobia, transphobia, racism, ableism, sexism, religious intolerance—is not welcome here. It's fine to explore and unpack your own internalised biases, but intentional discrimination or bigotry will not be tolerated.

Anyone claiming to 'identify' as transabled, transrace, or any other transID. I understand that body integrity dysphoria is a real psychological condition that can cause profound distress. However, the online conversation around TransID and related identities—treating disability as a lifestyle choice, aesthetic, or identity—is harmful and deeply problematic. Trans-Abled identities trivialise real disabled experiences, erase the suffering of chronically ill and disabled people, and creates a space where able-bodied people feel entitled to co-opt our realities.

The door is wide open, take your leave. I have a battering ram strapped to the front of my wheelchair. This is not a safe space for you. You will be blocked without hesitation.

Everyone else, you're most welcome, I have cookies and memes for you.

This blog will periodically contain content surrounding sex education, kink, mental health, physical health, intersectional LGBTQIA+ experiences and some content that may be distressing. Common triggering topics will be marked with applicable trigger warnings in the tags.

Onto the fun things!

Cool af dividers from @visceracture @tsunami-of-tears @strangergraphics @enchanthings

Current hyperfixations....

🎮 The Legend of Zelda: Tears of The Kingdom

🎮 Date Everything!

📚 Osora - ToniRenea

📚 Heartstopper - Alice Oseman

📚 Star Catcher - Rotaniah

📚 Love Me To Death - Toonimated

📚 Hazeshift - Leikoi

Afflictions

My transition goal as an intersex person = confuse everyone into asking my pronouns.

Proudly polyam. Heavily aro-ace spec. Bi disaster looking for a place to happen.

Ambulatory wheelchair user. You’ll see me post a lot about disability: the good, the bad, the absurd.

Diagnoses I'll name: AuDHD, POTS, cEDS, PCOS, endometriosis.

I'm studying undergrad psych with hopes to become a clinical psychologist, psychologist or psychotherapist, depending on how things work out (basically, the DSM-5 and ICD-11 are my besties and worst enemies). 🧠✨

Misc Notes

Owner of a used, niche model brain (trying to run 2025 Blender on a laptop running Windows Vista)

I write poetry sometimes-? Had it published too- :'D

Voted most likely to be found with their head in a book, or six feet under a research pile

Ask about my hyperfixations and you unlock an unskippable cutscene

Art is completed occasionally :)

Nerd, gay and weird are not the insults society thinks they are

Active Tags

#trans talk – trans posting #intersex antics – being intersex #disability drabbles – info sharing #diabolically disabled – med system BS / whining #pretty and proud – pride posts #poly and proud – polyamory posting #writing resources – exactly that #mental monkeys – mental health #therapy wall – psych resources #mercy on the menstruators – period ed #sex ed is sexy – sex ed posting

Last Updated: October 2025

[snwlvl-deactivated20240125]

capitalism breeds innovation

[ferrumanulum]

Yeah that will do it.

[citric-crow]

improved

[simplyghosting]

Tags via @bookdragon1811

[syphabelnyades]

[dazeddoodles]

To celebrate the game's one year anniversary, I'm having a sale on Date Everything merch until the end of the month!

[pumpkinhrat]

She would, in fact, download a car

[oursystemblog]

[ftmtftm]

Sometimes I really want to take everyone under the age of 24 (as of 2026) by the shoulders and say:

"I'm really sorry that lockdown and the ongoing pandemic interrupted pivotal educational and social/emotional development moments for you. You have an uphill battle towards adjusting to a lot of community based efforts because you experienced a mass trauma during an incredibly important time in your life where you should have physically been around your peers learning to engage in shared community. There is no "but" here, I'm genuinely really sorry. Something many of us consider key points in our interpersonal growth as youths was taken from you, not without reason but without care for its impact on you. I hope you know we are eternally allies in our struggles and if that is something you struggle to know I hope you can learn it someday."

Because so many of the angriest, most disenfranchised people I see on this website are under 24 and I often try to put younger people's behavior in the context of where they might have been 2020. I've seen the impact on my siblings and their peers+friends first hand, all ages 18-24. We've talked about how its impacted them, the isolation, the attachment to the internet, the anxieties and phobias and fears it developed in them due to the pandemic, the political unrest, and the responses to both that we've seen since. I know they're not the only ones and I know how much being marginalized also influences that impact too.

It's terrifying. I know it must be terrifying for a lot of the young people on Tumblr too. I hope one day we're able to bridge all of those complex feelings into something collective and positive so we can do our best to prevent similar traumas from happening to future generations.

[molzysketch]

nap time with the pebbles :)

[tendebill]

[part 1] [part 2]

rocky make sure grace not know a moment of peace. statement <3

[tendebill]

[part 1] [part 2]

rocky learns about the Denmark incident :]

[somekindofjester]

Hey guys! So so sorry for my accidental hiatus! D: I've been absolutely drowning in work lately! I'll try to post more often as soon as I go on break!

Anyway- This is my OC: Oli Ver! An Alien that works at Walmart! You can find more of his lore in my Art Fight Profile (Though you'll see his old design there- and old art- I need to update it) Thank you for your guys patience! :D

[somekindofjester]

I always wanted to know what Matthias would look like as a hunter. So I made a design! This is actually from a few weeks ago.

Explanation under the cut.

I think that, since Matthias has always been compared to and replaced by Louis, his worst nightmare would be to be compared to him or, in this case, sort of turned into. They now not only share appearance (sort of, he only has one half of a face and its not his own) but a body too. I think his abilities would be something like pulling strings down to control / hold a survivor still for a few seconds. Or maybe summoning a little puppet that looks like Matthias (kind of like Matthias can summon / turn into a mini Louis?) to have it roaming similar to Hell Ember.

This is how I cope while boycotting.

[omghotmemes]

Ths bishop’s twitter post

[enaroholmes]

I experienced a few embarrassing seconds of confusion because in my language (French) the bishop is called the fool

[jellyfish-neo]

[wildminti]

Rocky was going to say "fans of PHM" but Grace panicked! 🏳️‍🌈

BONUS PANEL

[crackshipsandregret]

Name That Pebble!

Skittle

Curiosity (Curie for sort)

Blueberry

Finnian (Fin for short)

Pluto

Pluton

George

Casper

Sprout

Voting ended onJun 12

Everyone had really good name suggestions! I went through the comments and tried to put together a list of names that were either suggested multiple times or had a lot of likes/comments. Here is that list! Cast your votes now to name the pebble :D

[wildminti]

Rocky was going to say "fans of PHM" but Grace panicked! 🏳️‍🌈

[wildminti]

I think the most logical reason for "why can Rocky say that word?" is that he bullied Grace until he got what he wanted (100% success rate)

[queerpeers]

yeah im “transitioning” *dissolves into tiny pieces as i click to the next slide*

[queerpeers]

[xuxii-bunny]

Is there a transfem version?!?

[queerpeers]

ask and ye shall receive

[roseycanvas]

Nonbinary version?

[queerpeers]

enjoy 💛🤍💜🖤

[queerpeers]

like status: sick 😎

[british-catgirl]

happy pride month I fucking love powerpoint slide transitions and gender transitions

[isuggestrespecttranspeople]

Reblog status: sick 😎

-🌦️🍭

[zylahbee]

sexism in medicine kills people. racism in medicine kills people. fatphobia in medicine kills people. queerphobia in medicine kills people. classism in medicine kills people. ableism in medicine kills people.

do not downplay people’s fears about being mistreated because they are a part of a marginalised group. it is a matter of life and death and you should be angry about it.