not to get all Gender Studies on yall but weâve got to stop pushing this idea to young questioning people that if they dont like being a girl sometimes then theyâre obviously trans, or genderfluid.
this absolutely isnt to say that some people ARENT genderfluid+trans, but refusing to factor in how society makes being a woman a wholly unpleasant experience is disingenuous and can lead to a lot of gnc people thinking that if theyâre uncomfortable with what their gender is supposed to dress and look like, they must be trans.
please allow room for gnc people in your discussions when youâre telling some young girl who doesnât like being sexualized that shes trans. please allow room for nuance. thats all in asking for.