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HELLO 911 MY WIFI IS NOT WORKING
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Her cheekbones just slit my throat đđđ
raise your hand if you are scared shitless about the future yet couldnât care less at the same time
one of the more valuable things Iâve learned in life as a survivor of a mentally unstable parent is that it is likely that no one has thought through it as much as you have.Â
no, your friend probably has not noticed they cut you off four times in this conversation.Â
no, your brother didnât realize his music was that loud while you were studying.Â
no, your bff or S.O. doesnât remember that youâre on a tight deadline right now.
no, no one else is paying attention to the four power dynamics at play in your friend group right now. Â
a habit of abused kids, especially kids with unstable parents, is the tendency to notice every little detail. We magnify small nuances into major things, largely because small nuances quickly became breaking points for parents. Managing moods, reading the room, perceiving danger in the order of words, the shift of body weightâŠ.itâs all a natural outgrowth of trying to manage unstable parents from a young age.Â
Hereâs the thing: most people donât do that. Iâm not saying everyone else is oblivious, Iâm saying the over analysis of minor nuances is a habit of abuse.Â
I have a rule: I do not respond to subtext. This includes guilt tripping, silent treatments, passive aggressive behavior, etc. I see it. I notice it. I even sometimes have to analyze it and take a deep breath and CHOOSE not to respond. Because whether itâs really there or just me over-reading things that actually donât mean anything, the habit of lending credence to the part of me that sees danger in the wrong shift of body weightâŠthatâs toxic for me. And dangerous to my relationships.Â
The best thing I ever did for myself and my relationships was insist upon frank communication and a categorical denial of subtext. For some people this is a moral stance. For survivors of mentally unstable parents this is a requirement of recovery.Â
If it wasnât stated outright - it wasnât said.
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Miss New York Nia Imani Franklin Has Won the Miss America Pageant
A classical vocalist whose pageant platform is âadvocating for the arts,â Franklin sang an operatic selection from the opera La Boheme.
She won a $50,000 scholarship along with the crown in the first Miss America pageant to be held without a swimsuit competition.
*every black girl across these âunitedâ states:
what a time to be alive
âI think itâs important to be able to be like, âYes, your shoulders are broad, yes your hands are big and your voice is deep and youâre really tall and people notice you, and that makes you noticeably trans, but that doesnât make you any less beautiful,ââ [Laverne Cox] says.Â
âYouâre not beautiful despite those things, youâre beautiful because of those things, and [believing] that has to be an active conscious process.â
Trans Is Beautiful: Laverne Cox on the Work of Self-Love via SelfÂ
the way men think eating meat feeds into their masculinity is so fucking funny like miss thing you didnât wrestle that shit with your bare hands you took your dumpy ass to costco in your wifeâs pt cruiser you might as well be a drag queen at this point
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RING THE ALARM I BEEN THRU THIS TOO LONG, BUT IâLL BE DAMNED IF I SEE ANOTHER CHICK ON YOUR ARM!
letâs be real here girls. men who sincerely think that women are just confusing and donât make sense have the emotional capacity and listening skills of a singular unsalted peanut and thatâs the gospel truth
Farhiya Shire photographed by Geoff Barrenger