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23 - he/it AO3: GhostEnthusiast - ART: @mintcakeart

[remindertoclick]

Reminder to Click for Palestine today!

Click for the other causes as well if you can!

[bowelfly]

I've received a handful of commissions to draw people's pets and monks but this is definitely my favorite one so far

(blue death feigning beetles)

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[pnglove]

[ilovetodrinkwater]

Simon and gar phone call

[willgrahamscock]

how it feels to be surrounded by perverted mutants

[willgrahamscock]

STOP REBLOGGING I MEAN MUTUALS

[itseasytoremember]

(To the tune of Rasputin): BLEH BLEH DRACULA, KING OF TRANSYLVANIA, HE IS A BAT AND ALSO A MAN

[unalivejournal]

Ok. What you're gonna want to do is chop up a cucumber and put it in a bowl. Then you're gonna sprinkle a generous portion of salt on top. Then you're gonna drizzle them with a balsamic vinaigrette and gently shake to combine, leaving you with a cool and refreshing summer snack. In 15 seconds dangerous and burly men are going to drag me away to an unknown second location. Remember everything I've taught you. I love you

[memewhore]

[ihavenohotcocoa]

babe are you okay you reblogged got that fog in me 11 times

[catgirlanarchist]

wait, i did? i don't remember doing that...

[imp]

i chose to sever my connection with the divine by drinking diet coke

[boobytrapzap]

Fernando is the muncherrr

[gabbythegaysquid]

Vladimir Nabokov was a prominent Heterosexual Faggot during the 20th century.

[drtrinitysantos]

the enemy of my enemy is also my enemy I fucking hate that guy

[liquidstar]

"only 90s kids remember-" wrong, if you're poor and/or rural enough, old tech and fashion doesn't just disappear when it stops being trendy. We had dial-up until 2012

[innumerable-voices]

The thing is if the antikink crowd wasn't so ridiculously transmisogynistic I think we could have some really interesting conversations. If you browse the tag you'll mostly see people making really good points about kink and misogyny

"Choking for fifteen seconds leads to a significantly increased risk of a stroke" that's great information and part of why kink educators like me are constantly warning people about the seriously under stated risks of breath play

"Men often use kink as an excuse because they want to be able to hit and control their partners like their grandfather did" I've been fucking saying!

"And that's why we need to abolish kink and sex work and porn" OK you tripped at the last hurdle there but I think if we talked about it we could understand each other

[innumerable-voices]

"The stereotypical dominant woman in tight leather and holding a crop is often put forward as an empowering image but at it's core it's misogynistic, the woman is a sex object even if she's supposed to be in control" yes!

"The stereotypical image of a muscular aggressive black man taking your girlfriend and fucking her in a way that's demeaning to you and her is a based on an wildly racist idea that many people actually believe and that's caused the deaths of countless innocent racialised men" yes!

You're absolutely right and you should say it, now stay with me, trans women are seen as inherently predatory too, we also get killed for much the same reasons and many countries don't even consider it a hate crime, what's more when we're not being portrayed as needy bottoms desperate for any praise or affection we're shown as aggressive dominant tops ready to fuck anything both of these are ways of reducing us to sex objects even if the second is supposed to be in control

We are oppressed and targeted in so many of the same ways, why aren't we allies, why do you hate us

[innumerable-voices]

Sex work isn't going anywhere, it's no different than any other type of manual labor and it's been around literally longer than humans. You won't get it to go away by sticking your head in the sand and pretending it's a product of our society specifically. You aren't protecting anyone by trying to crack down on it or making it more illegal, you're just empowering those who would happily exploit others for their own gain. If you want to end sex trafficking and stop people from being forced or coerced into doing sex work against their will, if you want sex workers to be safe and protected then the way forward is legalising and regulating the industry. Let sex workers form unions and work in controlled environments with people in place to make sure they're OK. Plenty of people have said this better than I ever could

But the next step is 'kink' is just as old and just as inevitable. People get off on weird shit, always have always will. And in fact calling it a 'kink' or a 'fetish' is a step towards protecting people, it means that you can look up safety tutorials, you can find information to do things properly. Gathering in groups, having places that are semipublic to go where there's a better chance of you getting help if the person you're with turns out to be either badly educated or have bad intentions is a step towards protecting people. And I will be the very first to admit it's not perfect, imo the vast majority of kink is done badly, but that's why we need education instead of preaching shame and abstinence

[roycohn]

happy donna sheridan unprotected sex day (1/3), everybody!!!

[transthatmasc]

Supernatural is very quotable, but unfortunately the best lines are “you gotta go be gay for that poor dead intern” and “freedom is a length of rope. God wants you to hang yourself with it.”

They encompass the full spectrum of the show from a complex interrogation of religion and free will to satirical borderline homophobic comedy.

[cutecipher]

as a feminist i support recreational abortion

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i have mixed feelings about competitive

[cutecipher]

*maddest ive ever been, eye twitching* thats baseless. its something else actually.

[thejellyfishlounge]

Missing him