Don’t let the fantasy consume you.
The Hotwife / Cuckold fantasy is one of the fastest growing fantasies out there.
More and more men are finding the thought of their wives and girlfriends sleeping with another man arousing for a large variety of reasons.
This post is not about why men want this or why women should do this. This post is about the respect your wife or girlfriend deserves, whether she decides to go along with your fantasy or not.
I see post after post from men asking how they can convince their significant other to have sex with other men, but you also need to know how to handle it if she doesn’t want to have sex with other men.
My wife knows about my fantasies and agrees that the idea is hot, but she has not agreed to act on the fantasy in real life. I love my wife and would never force her to do anything she is not comfortable with. So far my wife teases me about having a boyfriend and lovers, as well as some light MFM role play in the bedroom. While I hope that it goes father one day, I am okay if she stops here.
You can’t let this consume you or get in the way of your relationship. If you love and respect each other, then you have to also respect each other’s boundaries. Don’t get mad or upset id she says she only wants to be with you! What a great honor to have a woman who loves you so much that she is willing to forsake all others.
The bottom line is she is your wife or girlfriend, not a piece of meat for you to whore out.
Please love each other and share your journey together. No one should ever be forced to do something they might come to regret. They will resent you for it in the long run. That resentment will be a cancer in your relationship.
Thank you for letting me have my soap box moment.
Reality as it should be.
Very well put and so true! It's important to keep in mind that while this is a big fantasy of mine, I do not ever want her to feel obliged to do anythign she isn't excited to try! Nervous and maybe even a litle scared is okay, but only if she's excited about trying it.
