Throw Some Glitter Make It Rain

Herpes ain't got shit on you boo. All my posts are under the tag #throughmyeyes

[stability]

[glittergifted]

Stop the stigma?

Okayyyy so I’m just going to say it… I like that people with oral herpes don’t get bashed for it. And I know, I know, a lot of you keeps have GHSV1 and that blows that you have this horrible stigma and the rest of the world with the same strain doesn’t. Buttttt I think having cold sores being accepted is making genital herpes closer to being accepted. Yes, people with cold sores are SO under educated and giving people head and then herpes along with it…. & that’s super lame. But people who are tested through the bloodline and come back positive for HSV1 are just like oh gosh I just have cold sores, and then they don’t disclose. But they totes could have GHSV1 and be asymptomatic. Or people with HSV2 antibodies who are super stigmatized and feel they have genital herpes but have never had an outbreak may have it orally… and then they feel like straight up poop about themselves but it’s all the same thing, ya feel me? So what I’m really trying to say is that everyone should know the deats on HSV and sex ed in school hopefully is better then when I was in high school. BASICALLY everyone should know about the herps. And then we can all be heep friends? It’s like most of the country, right? Whatever I have HSV2 4sure genitally and maybe HSV1, not going back to get tested for a while though. Just gonna ride this train out. Let me know what you babes think about this wandering thought.

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[glittergifted]

Then any word or name you’ve ever been called. Then any diagnosis that has brought you down. Then the stigma surrounding the little bits and pieces of yourself. Whether you are a woman. A man. Black, White, Hispanic, Asian, none or all of the above. You are more then a label. You are more then a test grade. You are more then the size tag on your clothing. You are more. You deserve more. I can promise you that.

[glittergifted]

Just a reminder, you don’t get an std from having sex with lots of people, you get an std from having sex with one person who has that std.

Whether you’ve fucked the whole world or just one person, you could have an std and there is no shame in being lied to or betrayed. There is no shame in being misinformed because the sex education in your country isn’t up to par. There is no shame in having an std. Go get tested. Talk to your doctor. Talk to your partners. You are still fucking dope dude. 

On a scale of 1-10…. I’d totally smash. 

[glittergifted]

The discussion of disclosing is a never ending one. I still get extremely nervous when I disclose, even though it has gotten a LOT easier. This was one of my first disclosures, from like January. Literally my favorite answer ever and like always use this as a reference point for my new disclosures. I just wanted to share and show some people. LOVE YOU GUYS!

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Herpes Cures

I remember when I was first diagnosed and told my ex boyfriend that he might want to go get tested. He was all over the place but at least he was talking to me about it…. Then he started sending me all these links to “cure herpes”…

When I broke his dreams and told him those didn’t exist and everything he was reading was a complete scam, well he just kept talking about how one day there would be one. I just remember laughing, honestly my crude humor was the only thing that was getting me through my diagnosis. But why would I like wait to live my life until there was a cure for this? I wasn’t going to. Sorry not sorry. Remember you are just as great, and just as gorgeous with or without herpes. Honestly, some people might not be educated enough to make the decision, but fuck it on to the next one. Every obstacle will only make you better.

^Fuck yes you are

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Now what?

So you met a really dope guy (or girl) and after some texting, silly jokes, sarcastic banter, and maybe few make out sessions you finally decide it’s time to disclose. You put all your thoughts together, you read them over and over in your head. You know herpes isn’t a big deal though, that last outbreak? Cake. You barely had to flinch before grabbing some coconut oil and tea tree oil, filled your prescription and bam you are a fucking QUEEN (or KING). So with all your confidence in yourself you disclose. And then it happens. They “need to think about it.” 

And those witty conversations subside, the little smile they used to put across your face now has to be self made, and you’re probably feeling a little bit down about it…. So here’s what you do.

How to get past the unsuccessful disclosure:

1. Delete their number, seriously do it. So if by some chance they muster up the intelligence and decide to contact you again, you can straight up slay when you reply “I’m sorry who’s this?” 2. Go buy yourself a new outfit. You don’t have money for a new outfit right now? That’s okay, buy new underwear, it’s just as good. Trust me you will never feel happier then sliding into brand new underwear. 3. Get out of the house. Stop looking at his pictures on your phone. Stop dwelling on the couch. Go out get drunk with your friends, if that isn’t your thing, then go to the gym and release your endorphins. Still not your thing? Go outside and read a book, if that isn’t your thing you should try to make it your thing. 4. Take a new profile picture. New is good. New is fun. So on that outing thing your doing above… take a picture.  5. Move forward, don’t let this unsuccessful disclosure get in your way. You’re still an amazing individual go crush it out there if you’re looking for someone.

This post is totally self motivation for me btw. I’m doing these things an they are totally helping.

[glittergifted]

Making a comeback :)

[nosarcasmforyou]

[blackness-by-your-side]

Oh! That would be splendid!

[thetrippytrip]

Thanks for speaking out. We really have a long way to go in this issue. Hurry up! We should educate each other. The government won’t do that.

[realmreaper]

No offense but most men are fucking scum

[asshmae]

So I work in a doctors office now and yesterday the other girl at the front desk was looking at this chicks chart. And she was like “oh that’s why she looks like she’s in pain - she has herpes.” And I was like yeah that could be it whatevs. So then she goes “ew that’s so gross” and I was like “uh what” and she said “no not because she has it but because she just had a baby. It’s gross for the baby” and I just said ‘I have it too and it’s not gross for the baby- she probably had a c section if she had an active outbreak at the time of the baby’s birth. The baby is fine"

People are so ignorant sometimes. I’ve never just straight up said I have herpes in the middle of a conversation with someone I don’t know but I felt like I had to. You never know who’s feelings you’re hurting when you talk like that. She proceeded to ask questions and left work a little more informed on HSV than when she came in so at least there’s that.

[glittergifted]

Heck yes. Killing it girl.

[baawri]

Say no to stereotypes, be happy everyday! [x]

[thick-thighs-and-french-fries]

Cant reblog this enough

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I love that this shows both sides, how society is ingrained to see women as baby-makers and men as walking wallets who’s only worth is if they make good cash. Both are equally demeaning and limiting in different ways. 

[bitchycode]

I really want to be one of those people who gets up at 7, goes for a run & starts my day but i’m more of the wake up at 10 and nap at 2 kind

[hypersensuality-deactivated2017]

[biologybutch]

until 1979 homosexuality was classed as an illness in sweden so you could call in sick bc you had the hots for paper boy in the morning

[tardisandcinnamon]

Ellie, I’m disappointed in you, you left out the best part. The reason they took it out in 1979 was because, to protest it, a shitton of people actually did. They’d get calls upon calls upon calls with “I can’t come in today, I’m feeling pretty gay”

[glitterslutblog]

Glitter sex, condom free.

Q: Hi! You’re blog has helped me SO much since I got diagnosed with HSV2 last summer thanks ❤️ anyway, I’ve been dating my new boyfriend for about 8 months now and I disclosed to him early on. He didn’t care or judge me at all which was great but now we have had unprotected sex quite a few times. I feel so guilty for having sex with him without a condom but he’s okay with it. Should I not feel so guilty since it’s a choice he made? I would feel horrendous if I gave it to him.

WELLLLLLLLL…

Is he a grown ass man?

YEP

Is he capable of making his own decisions?

YEP

Then hop on that dick girl… make him eat you out while you’re at it.

He knows what he wants, and he’s making sure he gets it. You informed him of the risks and he’s down.

Don’t feel guilty.

DO: Take care of yourself, make sure you both have been tested. Make sure you’re on a effective method of birth control. And that you pee after sex. And obviously make sure that you don’t have sex during a outbreak.

You have found someone who is willing to risk herpes to worship that pussy.

You’ze a goddess, act like it.

Let him worship you.

Preferably on his knees (but that’s just me).

xo,

     g.s.