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fssw. whore money. ho hoe heaux. occasional SB

[gooddaylovv]

how long have you worked in the industry for? apologies if youve answered this already 💕

on and off 10 years

[gooddaylovv]

well decided to fire him

[gooddaylovv]

May I ask, does a good part of your income come from your whale?

no, he’s like 30% of that. Still a nice chunk but I’m still booked back to back this month

[gooddaylovv]

oops I lied March picked up quick and just hit 80k

I’m so annoyed with my whale he’s showing his stingy cheap side and it’s not cute

got an international multi-day fmty as a first date. Now that’s BDE

I’ll probably take next month easy and chill

[gooddaylovv]

March has been slow and I’ve been slacking off with emails. Barely hit 40k this month and my whale just annoyed the hell out of me. I was so close to firing him, he double triple texts me if I don’t respond after a few hours and not to mention all the dick pics he was sending the past month. Eventually I think he got the point I didn’t like that. I mean cmon dude who wants to be woken up to a dick pic first thing in the morning? Seriously lol and it’s not even a good dick pic unfortunately he’s over half my income this month :(

[gooddaylovv]

One of my regulars asked for anal and I told him I would think about it. I am open to it because it’s extra money and also his dick is tiny. My only issue is that I don’t have any experience with this andDo you have some tips?

Hi babe,

I don’t do anal, so I don’t have advice on that. I just say no because there’s always other clients out there. If you are considering it then probably use a plug and do some sort of enema. Lots of lube, silicone lube is great. Just know once he asks and you give in he will keep asking. My best advice is don’t do anything you don’t want to. Good luck babe

[gooddaylovv]

Do you have any experience or knowledge/advice when it comes to escorting in central/northern Europe?

Sorry babe I don’t but if anyone has any input I’d love to hear

[gooddaylovv]

RE: the last question. I know all of that lol but I'm wondering if you have an LLC due to the limits put on personal accounts. If so, do you recommend s-corp?

I have an LLC and I would ask your accountant because I don’t have an s-corp but some ladies prefer that so I’m sure there’s some benefits. I just don’t have the knowledge about it specifically. I’ve not noticed a limit on personal accounts though!

[gooddaylovv]

Do you have an LLC? How do you deposit/invest large sums?

wire transfers are preferred. you can also do credit card, PayPal, or BTC. I don’t recommend CC or PayPal as they can easily be shut down. You will need to pay taxes.

[gooddaylovv]

$63k this month, and even without my whale that’s still like $50k so why would I ever do an exclusive arrangement and give up my freedom? I don’t even have to live with anyone right now. Delusional. I only have 7 days off this month. Clients need to stop looking for love in escorts, like getting butthurt we see other men? Be real lol. He doesn’t actually want to improve my life, just take my freedom and put me in a box. These men are power tripping 🙄 and my old arrangement client also sent me $4k this month JUST BECAUSE and I didn’t even see him this month lol

[gooddaylovv]

told my whale a number because he wouldn’t stop pestering me and he said no, as I suspected. He’s just fishing for a number and got all butt hurt. So who knows if he’s still gonna be a client and if not I can see why his past arrangements didn’t work out. Because he was too cheap!

also would be a bummer to lose such a client but that’s the nature of the industry. he would be such an easy client for another

[gooddaylovv]

What’s your hourly rate?

mid-range for a big city

It won’t help you because it really depends on your location

Better to start low and raise your rates imo

[gooddaylovv]

You’re doing so well now! I am sinking over here. January and February have been crap for me. I’m hearing that other ladies are having a hard time as well. I’ve been thinking about lowering my rates so I can start doing more volume.

What would you say are the main reasons you get so much business and at a high rate? Photo shoots? The city you’re in? Your ads? The ad platform?

Ive been in the industry for 8 or so years so I’ve definitely accumulated regulars which helps a lot. My rates are midrange for a big city. Being in a big city and touring big cities helps, maintaining regulars, being in shape, being kind, friendly, and personable helps. My clients like me probably more for my personality, hours of availability, access to an incall and convenient location. And probably because I’m fairly responsive.

And probably part of it is luck, you never know who you will meet or cross your path. Sometimes clients just really like you, or they find you interesting, simply because they do. Attraction has no rules. I’m pretty average or above average in terms of looks, some what of a plain Jane. I take pretty much every single appointment I can and I never cancel because I’m having a bad day. I’m always on time!

[gooddaylovv]

It’s February and I’m on track to it $60k

So many girls are getting into arrangements and honestly I don’t even know what to ask for without sounding greedy.

Maybe it’s time to raise my rates but also I don’t want to price out my regulars tho some clients really annoy me lol

[gooddaylovv]

Hi! I'm 22yo and very very new to sw (i have my first booking today!) and i'm curious if this is something i might continue in the future. How did you know this line of work was a good fit for you? Do you have any tips for someone that just started escorting/sugaring?

Thank you so much for your blog! It's so refreshing to see someone talking about sw so freely ^u^

Hi babe,

It really depends what your goals are. Burn out is real. Screen your clients carefully and practice good boundaries. Not all money is good money. And save your money!

You need to ask yourself what your goals are.

Are you happy living paycheck to paycheck?

Do you just want to work minimally to cover your bills?

Are you looking for a big whale client to marry?

Are you trying to save money and retire early?

Save money to invest in businesses?

Just want to cover school expenses?

There’s women doing this forever at 40, 50, 60+ is that something you see yourself doing?

This line of work is very hard to maintain civie relationships so that’s something worth thinking about. It’s a sacrifice.

For me, I’m not a 9-5 corporate slave type. I’ve always been very entrepreneurial at an early age. And at an early age I’ve always been looking for ways to make money and make more money. So this line of work is great because the money can be good, and you can meet all sorts of clients. Some are awesome and I really care for them in a friendly professional way because I feel they really support me and are interested in my dreams and goals. Of course, there’s always bad hobbyist clients that sometimes makes you second guess yourself.

You also need good work ethic and be a bit of a workaholic, because I didn’t make $100k this month doing nothing.

[gooddaylovv]

How do you do dinner dates with much older looking guys? I have one coming up and I’m so nervous. He is 62. I’m 22, asian and definitely look young. Just weirded out that people gonna see us and know what’s up lol. I guess how do you stop giving a fuck? Does it just come with time?

The dinner dates I’ve been before were guys up to age 40. But I’ve accepted this date and dont wanna cancel last min and just wanna get $$

I don’t care if people know, I mean you are selling a fantasy and if the client didn’t want people to know they would have chosen a lady closer to their age. These guys want to be seen with a younger and hot lady. I’m fine with holding hands but I don’t kiss clients in public that are wayyyyy older than me. I do care more if it’s in my home city though because higher chances of bumping into others. However if it’s a fmty I don’t care just think of the money

[gooddaylovv]

How to attract serious, respectful clients? I’m so tired of guys sending blank or stupid messages. Or asking me dumb questions or face pics (I’m not face out, all the info can be found on my ad too😭). Should I take my number out and be email only? Or put my number on my website. I’m trying to minimize time-wasters but its been slow, and idk if I wanna miss out on potential bookings bc I’m too bitchy to answer everyone dumb

I feel at all levels of SW there will be time wasters. However, the higher your rates it tends to be less, along with less inquires. I feel having a website does legitimize you and if you're on the main mid-tier ad sites you should be fine.

I try to respond to most inquires email and texts, but just know when to stop engaging and cut your losses. I don't bother responding to 'hey' or 'u avail' or any same day requests but if they are able to form a complete sentence I will reply. I would say most good/big spender clients will email but I have occasionally met really nice guys via text inquiries (but usually they are short appts types)

You can always have a template so you can easily copy and paste.