#swer

[fubblers]

To younger broke adults getting into sex work here’s some common scams:

“I’ll pay you $ every week for feet/genital/fetish pics” they start a long conversation about this. Then they convince you to send some sample pics. They will try to get you to enact their fetishes with promise of later payment. Then they cut and run. They will be kind, promise large things, but become aggressive when you refuse. Lesson: never give things for free unless you’re specifically doing it for marketing. Personalized fetish content should require payment upfront.

“I want to be your sugar mommy/daddy” These are insanely common and will use a variety of tactics. They prey on vulnerable broke people who are desperate for stable cash. They may try to use a BDSM dynamic to make you feel sexy and submissive. They’ll start a long flirty conversation that makes you feel good and desired and confident. Then they might send a link…. Don’t click it! Or they might ask you to “prove your loyalty” as their sub/babygirl/whatever. Proving your loyalty will probably involve sending them money in some way. The most common way is to buy a gift card and tell them the code. If a stranger ever asks you to buy them a gift card that’s pretty much always an instant block.

The same thing goes for “pay pigs”. There are very few people out there actually into financial domination. Chances are people promising you access to their bank accounts are liars trying to get dommed by a stranger, or scammers trying to get money from you.

There’s essentially two main categories of scams in sex work: 1. Traditional scams (trying to get money, personal info, account access) and 2. Freebie scams (trying to get your SW content for free)

Freebie scams can involve someone trying to piss you off so you curse them out and they can go jerk it to being rejected by someone hot. You can just block people being weird.

As a new or established SWer you literally don’t owe anyone anything unless they’ve specifically paid for a service you offer.

[girldixieflatline]

remember 2 stay hydrated when ur filming weird porn

[destroyingangelneveragod]

SHOW UP FOR SEX WORKERS WHEN THEY NEED IT MOST

In the city known colonially as london, ontario (Treaty 6, along the Deshkan Ziibi), there is only one drop in centre dedicated to supporting our local sex workers (it also serves as an LGBTQ+ hub), and it is on the brink of closing for good at the end of march if they cannot raise 50k across different avenues. Two of these avenues are a zine bundle that I created, starting at 3.13 CAD, and a gofundme. I have attached both to this post! Please circulate everywhere you can; this centre is quite literally a life-saving service. Please considering helping out.

A bundle by mushroom friends, $3.13 for 4 games

Donate to Help Save SafeSpace, organized by SafeSpace London

As the only drop-in space for under- and unhoused sex workers and 2SLGBTQ+ folks in the City of L… SafeSpace London needs your support for H

[melancholiadecember]

For every top 1% SWer, there's hundreds living in fear working their part time job hoping no one finds out because they need the extra income to even survive

E x a c t l y.

[bouncing-flowers]

Wanna test my gag reflex baaaabe? 💦

$riahhorrorstory

[gooddaylovv]

I truly believe being in your 30’s is the best years of escorting. A handful of girls I know are getting into semi exclusive or exclusive arrangements. Fucking slayyyyy bitches

May 2026 prosper

[degenderates]

captured by @adamshallperish

[roxxyintox]

imagine seeking a therapist’s services bc you’re craving emotional support. imagine finding a therapist who you don’t know personally, setting up an appointment, entering their office, & asking for help with loneliness & sexual health & other relational concerns.

now imagine that the therapist enthusiastically agrees & shares their hourly rate with you. but instead of agreeing in return, you tell them that for you, adding money into the equation makes it feel transactional. you ask for the therapist to provide free sessions so that you know the emotional support is authentic & you’re not being taken advantage of for your wallet.

(drumroll please)

this is how some of y’all behave with SWers.

do we get it yet?? is it clicking???? hello?????