My boyfriend hasnāt gone to work for three days, he called two days off and actually had his day off yesterday. Iām kind of irritated because In our relationship heās the one with a job(i go to university full time- I saved my scholarship and other money to be able to pay for my rent and utilities through out the semester) and Iāve expressed how much it stresses me out because Iāve tried to get a job but it hasnāt worked out I never get calls back and it fucking sucks because he doesnāt seem to understand you work to get money to pay to live. Like literally everyone has to work, he isnāt the only one āworking his life awayā itās literally just the system. So instead of being an adult and stepping up to plate heās let me pay our full rooms rent, and most of the utilities without even thinking about paying me back before he goes Nd spends money on video games. Sometimes I really question whether he is prepared for adulting, just because you bought a new doesnāt mean youāre an adult. It means you are now liable for those payments and the insurance on top of the other bills, itās a either or situation. His main excuse for not paying me back rent or utilities is āI have a car payment and insuranceā Iām just getting over it. I donāt Ike feeling used and under appreciated.
