Raven the Dragon Queen

AWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I am a very complicated girl thing...

[gothdragongirl]

PSA: if cishet kids aren't "too young to know", you aren't either. If you are old enough to identify as cishet, you are old enough to identify as queer.

[gothdragongirl]

Being forcefemmed is such a strange experience

[gothdragongirl]

This isn't a shitpost BTW. I was supposed to be agender transneutral and as I was trying to microdose E body just went "Nah fuck that, we want boobs" and now I'm dealing with a hormonal cycle

[gothdragongirl]

Being forcefemmed is such a strange experience

[ebulatheduck]

this is how a qpr should work actually

just kinda formed naturally and neither of us have ever really tried to define our relationship other than just "i love you" because it doesn't need defining, just unconditional love and care from both sides and i think that's beautiful

[gothdragongirl]

Told my best friend "I love you" 1 day. Never looked back.

[gothdragongirl]

Anybody else is addicted to watching teen dramas as a young adult because it lets you engage with a story of people having an actual social life as teens? I feel like it fills some hole in my chest as someone who was too busy dealing with my own mental health, being aroace and fear of facing transphobia to have friends in high school

[gothdragongirl]

Hey can we talk about how the lack of QPR representation in media is making people in QPRs see allo relationships as the perfect role model and then get depressed when they can't copy it instead of being happy over what makes QPRs so special?

Also applies to aspecs in romantic relationships

[gothdragongirl]

It just feels like being unable to love my QPP the "right" way is making me feel like I'm not enough, even though she keeps saying I am.

It just feels like something will always be missing. I feel alienated from other lesbians because we look nothing like them and it's eating at me from the inside, and I have to keep reminding myself that nothing is wrong but it feels like there's a beauty standard for relationships that I'm not meeting and I can't be satisfied because of it...

[mewhenyourmomwhenyou]

You and your partner are far sweeter than any other couple I've seen. I think that's what makes QPRs special, they don't come from liking how the other person looks, they come from truly loving the other person on the inside.

[gothdragongirl]

Thank you sis

[gothdragongirl]

Hey can we talk about how the lack of QPR representation in media is making people in QPRs see allo relationships as the perfect role model and then get depressed when they can't copy it instead of being happy over what makes QPRs so special?

Also applies to aspecs in romantic relationships

[gothdragongirl]

It just feels like being unable to love my QPP the "right" way is making me feel like I'm not enough, even though she keeps saying I am.

It just feels like something will always be missing. I feel alienated from other lesbians because we look nothing like them and it's eating at me from the inside, and I have to keep reminding myself that nothing is wrong but it feels like there's a beauty standard for relationships that I'm not meeting and I can't be satisfied because of it...

[jessiewithaj]

sex, but instead of fucking you, we both get naked and i hold your head in my lap and forgive you for everything you think you've done wrong.

[gothdragongirl]

Hey can we talk about how the lack of QPR representation in media is making people in QPRs see allo relationships as the perfect role model and then get depressed when they can't copy it instead of being happy over what makes QPRs so special?

Also applies to aspecs in romantic relationships

[chronicallyrainy]

Confession:

Being a-spec is lonely.

(mild vent below the cut)

If you're agender, you don't fit in. They ask you to choose a side, girl or boys, but you don't fit. Which do you choose when both are wrong? If you sit out, choose not to choose, you're just being excluded.

If you're aro or ace, you don't really get what defines most of the community. The only thing you have common ground on is a marginalized orientation, and even then, some people argue you don't even have that. Plus, a lot of adult social circles surrounding queerness happen at parties, nightclubs or bars. What happens when that's not your scene?

Above all that, being autistic causes even more complications. Sensory issues, social issues.. it makes it even harder to fit in (or pretend to).

It gets so lonely.