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Hello~ I'm Goupi the fox and this is my blog. I'm happy you took the time to visit ! I love all sorts of cute, heart-warming things. Fluffy animals make my heart melt. ʕ·͡ᴥ·ʔ I love comfy furry drawings and cartoons. My favorite shows are Legendz, Shirokuma Café, Zorori, Sherlock Hound, and Around the World with Willy Fog. Some days life can be pretty stressful, so I wanted this blog to be cute and comfy. Feel free to relax here, or send me asks, I can be your friend ! Art account: doodlygoupi.tumblr.com

[yellow-cat]

(voice of a person spiralling) its embarrassing but i still havent figured out if its ok for me to be alive

[sinni-ok-sessi]

I do think the ability to emoji-react is a net win for human communication. not only does it give you an outlet for 'I see and acknowledge this but don't have a verbal response' but it also adds a pleasing alethiometer element to things

my coworker announces that he's off to the dentist. someone reacts with a tooth emoji. is this a statement of dentist solidarity? a wish for my coworker to return with more (or fewer?) teeth than he set out with? simple word association? who can say

[charnel-grounds]

Baptiste Hersoc, “Château de cartes” (House of Cards)

oil on canvas, 2018

[depsidase]

[futchlings]

"incurious" still GOAT insult. You could be better but you're not. You could learn but you won't, and for no good reason, just a base dispositional apathy. Get fucked

[artbylittlebug]

[artbylittlebug]

[charnel-grounds]

Paula Rego (1935–2022), “Baa, Baa, Black Sheep”

from ‘Nursery Rhymes’ series

etching & aquatint on Arches wove paper, 1999

[charnel-grounds]

Julia Soboleva, “Naked Sun,” 2026

[ethanmaldridge]

!!!

[ethanmaldridge]

Messing around in boats

[charnel-grounds]

Simo Hannula (1932–2016), “Mystical Watchers”

etching, 1972 — source

[veryluckyclovers]

[veryluckyclovers]

[queermania]

i think before you marry someone, you should sit down and go through the AITA subreddit with them and see what their take on those situations is

[queermania]

does your potential future spouse think it's reasonable for their mother to be involved in your family planning? or to make comments about your body? do you? how does your future spouse feel about girls and/or boys nights? situations involving exes? cancelling trips last minute? under what circumstances do they think it's reasonable to host somebody in your home and for how long? etc.

and the goal of doing this isn't to agree one-hundred percent on every single thing. it's to understand how you both view obligations, family, friends, finances, conflict, etc. and to make sure that even if you don't have the exact same perspective, you can understand where the other person is coming from without feeling like they're a crazy person. you have to be able to come to reasonable compromises and sometimes that involves one person fully caving, and sometimes it involves the other person fully caving, and sometimes it's both of you giving a little, but you need to understand what things you both are and aren't willing to compromise on because those types of situations are going to come up in a marriage.

[queermania]

also, since this has turned into actual advice: you should talk through why you think what you think, even when you agree, because you might not be agreeing for the same reasons.

[puzzled-on-main]

am i allowed to say kill all trillionaires or is that too specific of a threat

[pyrrhiccomedy]

when my shelter cat passes by me, he pauses for a second, and looks up. He is waiting for me to lean down, and touch my hand against his side, so that when he keeps walking, my hand skims across his fur. he doesn't really need attention. he has his own thoughts and plans. but after more than a year of living in our home, he has come to expect a moment of kindness whenever he crosses my path. if I don't do it, he will follow me. "where is your hand?" he asks, with his plaintive and impatient eyes. I give it to him. he bumps against it like a balloon before wandering away. this is a poem to me

[pyrrhiccomedy]

This post has gone so much further than I expected it to. This is my sweet cat. His name is Eddie Potato.