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Morning Ritual: Wake up at the first alarm. Reconnect. Get up at the second alarm. 1.) Make the bed while she showers. 2.) Make her coffee. 3.) Kneel down and wait for her. If all three things are right, she will let you nuzzle her hand and pulls you up for a morning kiss.

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Sketchin’ Around: Morning Ritual.

Thank you to Mr. K for the pose reference!

ms-girdled

Queening and it's historical perspective

I just had to re-blog this article about Queening (Facesitting/Faceriding). It was written over 4 years ago by MsWicked.

Queening is, in the sado-masochistic pantheon of arts, the use of the male face, mouth, and nose and tongue, as a substitute for sexual intercourse and masturbation, by the dominant woman. It places the man in the most slavish, subservient position, under the woman’s buttocks and crotch. She sits on his face, or has his head trapped between her thighs. The whole event is devoted to her pleasure, her orgasms, and her time schedule. The man’s pleasure or pain, satisfaction or frustration, desires or fears are of little importance, if any. The woman’s clitoris, vulva, labia and vagina demand service. This thrilling, delicious sexual practice has an ancient and traditional history. Ladies of medieval households often had pages provide them with mouth, lip and tongue service under their skirts while their husband were absent, thus remaining, technically faithful. Many a young boy had his first lessons in. sex with his head under Madame’s backside, with her quim vigorously riding his face. Many young girls still virgins, enjoyed orgasms on a male servant’s mouths as the earliest sexual experiences. In ancient Chinese courts one long tongued, trained male slave was used by female royalty and court ladies as casually as if they were going to the lavatory. The slave would be summoned, face-fucked then dismissed casually and serenely. In old Japan, brothels would provide male victims for such use by visiting, paying women and girls. Mouth and tongue sexual service to the female genitals is ‘cunnilingus’ or ‘cunnilinctus’ literally cunt licking/ sucking. Queening properly places the woman on top of the male face, using it ruthlessly and selfishly. The lady commands, the man obeys. Having the male slave erect, frustrated and unsatisfied adds to the sadistic pleasures enjoyed by the woman. In ancient Persia, cleverly constructed chairs were known as man face stools with the male face replacing the seat centre. Ladies could lift their skirts, sit down, cover the scenario with those skirts, and with gentle rhythmic, firm hip and buttock movements enjoy private little orgasms even when others were present. Old Indian pornographic graffiti depicts scenes like that, with gowned girls, obviously in ecstasy, riding a male face while gazing at an enormous male erection. In more recent, Western times governesses and nannies have been recorded as teaching their young male charges just how to please their crotches with their tongues. Many a frightened, cowed Georgian or Victorian boy knew intimately the underside of Madame’s skirts and felt the vice-like grip of her gartered thighs round his head. Masquerading as a punishment and usually followed or preceded by a whipping, the queening would take place in conditions of discipline and severity. The curt command, the superior, unsmiling demand would be followed by a rustling lifting of black, voluminous skirts, the stripping off of Madame’s panties and the heavy, fleshy hot damp descent of her buttocks and crotch onto the boy’s face. Heaven help him if Madame did not orgasm satisfactorily. A savage whipping would follow. Even down in the servant’s quarters, the youngest male servant would find his head trapped under housemaids’ skirts. Cruelty seems to have been part and parcel of queening procedures in olden times. ‘Queening’ by definition, requires a dominant, demanding woman and a subservient, obedient man. The woman must be concerned only with her personal pleasure and satisfaction. His mouth, lips, tongue and nose are merely live tools there to pleasure her labia, clitoris, vulva and vaginal passage. He must be trained, if necessary by painful punishment, in the proper use of his facial features. She must gain the maximum delight and orgasmic satisfaction without concerning herself with her victim’s possible distress, humiliation and discomfort. He is nothing more than a sexual toy or playing, as of no more importance than her lavatory pan, her sanitary towels, her dildo, her handkerchief, her lavatory paper, her condoms or contraception pills, or her vaginal douche - all quite necessary to her private sexual and private well being, but all useable and disposable. The choice of type of slave is up to her. She may wish to have a wimpish male twit under her backside and quim. She may find more delight in subduing a macho strong male. She may have a cuckolded husband to humiliate, taunt and sit on. She may have developed her talents as a schoolgirl, together with her girlfriends, taking the school wimp into the girls’ lavatory and taking turns in squatting on his face. She may have gained experience by dominating a younger brother, riding his face selfishly while their parents were asleep or away from home. Some women like to have a mouth-dildo attached to their slave’s head, sticking up from his open mouth as a rideable accessory. This provides pleasant, full, vaginal passage orgasms, but prevents sucking and licking by the male victim. Other women blindfold their prone slaves, thus deleting any possible visual pleasure they might obtain. A few cruel ladies inevitably urinate on to his face after having orgasmed. Others enjoy demanding mouth service right after enjoying satisfactory adultery with a lover, thus making the victim more humiliated. Most talented queening ladies humiliate, taunt, torment, degrade and tease their victims before and after this enforced cunnilingus. It is essential that the male slave is more than intimate with those parts of a woman’s body which require servicing by his tongue, lips and nose. Kneeling astride his face, with his eyes very close to her cunt, is a pleasant torment. He is able to see and fear each part of her sexual equipment, staring right up into her vaginal passage and memorising her clitoris, labia and vulva. Using her fingers to stretch her labia she is able to insist that he looks and learns. He must also examine her anus ;with respect, in case she decides to have his nose inserted into it. She must teach him the way to kiss, lick and suck her sexually, with particular attention to her clitoris. He must suck and swallow her sex juices. To add a special thrill to her pleasure, she must make him afraid of her. He must be in awe of her. He must adore her. He must give her respect, and recognise her superiority. He must worship her genitals. They are his goddess, his fate, his destiny. His life is less important than a single orgasm enjoyed by her. Riding the male face requires careful, skilful experience, as much as is required in learning to ride a horse. The hip and buttocks movements are the key to success. The careful placing of the cunt on the mouth or nose is, of course, essential, and might require some wriggling adjustment until the male’s service parts are properly positioned. It may be that the lady wishes to have his nose against her anal rose while his mouth serves her quim. She will, of course, be as rough and savage as she wishes at the moment she comes. At that moment she must not care in the least if he suffocates, or chokes. After satisfaction she can relax, still sitting on his face and enjoy a cigarette or a glass of wine. When she dismounts she will casually ignore the fool, dismissing him abruptly, sending him off to continue his housework, followed by taunts and insults. Perhaps she will lend him to the girlfriends! The complete, perfect, mature woman always has two men in her life, one to fuck her normally the other to be queened by her, as her slave.

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Interesting…

virtualslimepainterwombat

yes I agree and its still highly pleasurable for both parties enjoying all those special pleasures, esp for Her just as it should be - delicious thoughts - Ed x

ohmygoddesslivvy

The Most Romantic Power Exchange

There’s something profoundly misunderstood about chastity.

People think it’s cruel.

Harsh. Cold.

But they only see the surface.

The locked metal.

The denial.

The ache.

What they don’t see is the romance.

The intimacy.

The way devotion softens when a man hands over control—not just of his pleasure, but of his focus, his energy, his entire attention.

Chastity isn’t a punishment.

It’s a love letter.

He’s saying: I trust you with my desire.

I want you to guide me.

You are my priority, my center, my Queen.

And in return, I don’t just take his orgasm—I take his wandering mind.

I give it direction.

I give it purpose.

I bring him home to me, over and over, through every aching moment of denial.

And that’s what they never understand.

Each time I say “not yet,” it isn’t cruelty.

It’s a reminder: You’re mine.

Each whimper, each leak, each stolen glance at the key I wear around my neck is a promise:

I haven’t forgotten you. I’m thinking of you even when I’m denying you.

Isn’t that what love is?

To be seen.

To be held—sometimes by the hips, and sometimes by the restraint of not being allowed to act on what you want.

To be guided.

I don’t keep you locked to take something from you.

I keep you locked to give us something rare.

A deeper kind of connection.

A purer form of attention.

A hunger that never dulls.

And in the quiet moments—when you kiss my hand or make my tea or kneel just a little slower than usual—you know:

This is the most romantic thing you’ve ever done.

And I…

I have never felt more adored.

flrtips

Where are the FLR Tips?

In the very last article of my series of introductory articles on Female-Led Relationships, FLR Info, I made reference to a companion site called FLR Tips as if it already existed and had a certain type of content.

Well, that wasn’t the case, because this is that site and at the time of writing there’s nothing here. I simply never got around to writing any articles for the site. Over the years, I’ve had quite a few people contact me asking if the content has been deleted or moved or even forcefully removed due to censorship, but the rather boring explanation for the lack of output is that I’ve been a little busy and a lot of lazy.

Anyway, I believe that’s about to change. I have a few article ideas lined up in my head and I intend to crank them out in the next few weeks. We’ll see how it goes after that, but the writing itch is back - at least for now.

dogtanian069

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mssteph1716

Ten Commandments for DMing with your Mistress

To have the best online experience

Many subs are skeptical a good D/s relationship is possible online, but it is. Here’s how.

Learn Her schedule and DM when She is likely to be online.

Be consistent. At least one DM per day. One DM every 5-10 days is just annoying.

Don’t wait for Her to DM you. Initiate to show interest and readiness to serve.

It always takes more words than you think. 2-4 words are seldom helpful. Communicate fully. (Using a phone to DM is less helpful - you tend to keep it too short. A laptop/keyboard is better.)

Follow Mistress’ guidance on the frequency and nature of your DMs. Tell Her your thoughts fully, to give Her something to respond to and control. Then accept that control and adapt.

DM if you’re there, even if you’re pretty sure She is not. If She’s interested, She’ll see you and respond to it later.

Don’t assume all the captions are absolutely true of Her. If She’s real, She’ll have Her own ideas. Be willing to adjust your in-head fantasies to what She wants of you.

If She’s away for a while, respect Her time. Don’t get demanding.

Be honest, of course, or there’s little point. Do you want a real relationship or just a fantasy / amusement? Don’t tell Her you’re doing things you aren’t. Do not tell Her you are not doing things that you are doing. If you do this, you are just using Her as your own fantasy.

Tell Her your limits. If She’s real, She’ll respect them.