[bisexurl-moving]

@/ clarmontdiaz is a terf and her terf blog is @/ mishogyny along with her gf @/ misstaramaclay

posting so just in case anyone ever followed them or tried to befriend them they know, since they don't let people know they're terfs on their main blogs.

@/ clarmontdiaz specifically is aggresively transmisogynistic on her terf blog. please block

rbs appreciated

[guess-im-a-cishet-now]

its @/mishongyny.

her friend, Nika, aka @/ruthui, is probably @/woolfie or better known as @/radicalwolfie .

terfs shut up challenge. don't try to make safe spaces for people while having an ideology that literally actively harms other people

[bisexurl-moving]

thank u!!!

[bisexurl-moving]

she put her terf blog on private but

i saved this so... yeah

[trashcapableofsentience]

woolfie is still active so make sure to block them if you don't want to see trans exclusionary bullshit

[bisexurl-moving]

@/ clarmontdiaz is a terf and her terf blog is @/ mishogyny along with her gf @/ misstaramaclay

posting so just in case anyone ever followed them or tried to befriend them they know, since they don't let people know they're terfs on their main blogs.

@/ clarmontdiaz specifically is aggresively transmisogynistic on her terf blog. please block

rbs appreciated

[guess-im-a-cishet-now]

its @/mishongyny.

her friend, Nika, aka @/ruthui, is probably @/woolfie or better known as @/radicalwolfie .

terfs shut up challenge. don't try to make safe spaces for people while having an ideology that literally actively harms other people

[guess-im-a-cishet-now]

yes, reducing trans people to their genitals and straight-up telling them that you’re not interested in them sexually before any sort of interest is highlighted is transphobic full stop post tweet

[rokweiler-deactivated20200306]

i’m so tired of troons declaring their entitlement to sex specifically with people sexually incompatible with them bro

[puppybearuniverse]

If someone says “hey im trans” and you go “oh, then I don’t want to fuck you,” even if they expressed no interest in you sexually or romantically, you’re the weird one acting entitled to sex here, mate. Reading comprehension is important.

[guess-im-a-cishet-now]

imagine using a 10 yr old study to prove that trans women's vaginas have e. coli which this study doesnt even prove in the first place

[carly-rae-transbians]

Wouldn’t it make sense… that if you feel the need to have a side blog for your r*df*m posts so you don’t get harassed… that possibly that ideology is shitty.

[urfavhatesterfs]

terfs be like "i only respect REAL WOMBYN" and then look at a black girl (or lets be real any non white passing woc) and go "not you tho"

[urfavhatesterfs]

imagine being a racist transmisogynist and still thinking youre the one being attacked? brain worms luv

[not-your-trans-gf]

yes if cis lesbians and heterosexual men don’t want to date a trans woman on the basis that they are trans they are transmisogynists and there is no getting around that.

[crocodilianilian-deactivated202]

Hey fellow non-lesbians like me, jsyk being wary of the lesbian flag is just lesbophobia.

The fact that you associate the things shitty people do to the fact that they’re lesbians is lesbophobia.

Lesbian flag is just that : a flag for lesbians. If you associate it with anything else it’s on you. You’re lesbophobic.

So going “hm i’m not surprised op is a terf/aphobe/etc., I was wary when I saw the lesbian flag in their icon 🤔” is just plain gross lesbophobia. Literally. It’s just that. It just means you’re distrusting lesbians because they’re “more likely to be shitty people” and that’s just lesbophobia. It just is.

[guess-im-a-cishet-now]

lmao people really be @-ing me in posts as if i fucking cared about them whining when you don’t even having the reading comprehensions to read my posts and replies anyway lmao

[guess-im-a-cishet-now]

terfs really be like. they took my rights away because i was violently misgendering people :’(

[fox-steward]

talking about detransitioned women

i love the perspective i’ve gained from gender critical feminists and radical feminists–in fact, i owe a great deal to it and to this group of women. but it is often difficult to engage in the discussions around trans people, especially when the topic of ‘trans regret’ comes up, or detransition in general.

‘trans regret’ is a real thing, but for many of us, transitioning was the best we could do at the time with the options we were presented. i don’t regret transition, because in many ways, it led me here. i’m still me, i’m happy, i’m healthy. i even like the way my body looks–the masculine parts, the feminine parts. i touch my body and it responds in kind–that feels beautiful. i make love with this body, lesbian love, and that feels beautiful.

i think that’s why it’s so difficult to read pretty judgemental things about detransitioned women’s bodies. words like “maimed” or “deformed” or “ruined” or “wrecked” are so hurtful. i can respect that some detransitioned women may feel this way about their bodies, but i don’t think it’s okay to use such loaded, emotionally heavy words about detransitioned women’s bodies if you’re not one yourself.

i know i don’t personally feel ruined; my body isn’t deformed or maimed. it is strong and lovely. it is healthy. it moves me about this world. it loves and receives love. it can be difficult to love my body 100% all the time, but for whom is that not the case? maybe a lucky few–and i mean among all women, not just detransitioned women.

society is always sending signals about how women’s bodies are lacking, should be tailored or styled, how they could be better, more attractive, etc. i don’t think it’s helpful or particularly kind for women who aren’t themselves detransitioned to speak that way about our bodies. loving oneself in spite of all the messages that tell us not to is hard enough, please don’t add your voice to that.

[guess-im-a-cishet-now]

not to be controversial or anything but let trans people live

[guess-im-a-cishet-now]

some dickwad on the internet: im trying my best but these darn pronouns are so hard :(

me: im trying my best to not hit you in the face but you're making it so hard for me :(

[guess-im-a-cishet-now]

gay people using the phrase “same-sex attracted’ because of their lack of attraction to trans people seems… idk. i don’t know what to say about this or what exactly i’m feeling but its… not good

[fckyourconversiontherapyrhetoric]

You don’t know what exactly you’re feeling? I can help you with that.

[hyenagurl]

op i know your heart is in the right place but please pick a different hill to die on. no matter how you phrase it, describing how much it distresses you to see who gay people choose to sleep with, its never worth it. go kick a nazi.

[guess-im-a-cishet-now]

it doesn’t distress me, i was just trying to figure out how i felt. i think i should have phrased it better, so i’ll apologize for that. 

[guess-im-a-cishet-now]

me, looking back at what i’ve said on this blog: what the fuck

[hicktrender]

lesbians: hi please don't call us all terfs. terfs have already claimed in the past that lesbian = terf + terf = lesbian. trans, nb, + ally lesbians do exist, + by being "scared of lesbians" bc you think we're all terfs you're being lesophobic.

ppl on this site: hhh i saw the lesbian flag + almost blocked op bc they could be a terf bc they're lesbian! lesbians are scary bc they're all secretly terfs. :) i saw a lesbian make a post abt lesbianism + despite there being no evidence or dogwhistles i think op could be a terf for being a lesbian. trans + nb lesbians what are those. :)

[hicktrender]

non lesbians rb this challenge.

[yorksilk]

Just some reminders from your favourite salty lesbian :)