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17 // music enthusiast //professional nerd  

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Sometimes infatuation can be evil

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Jonathan: So what's it like dating Nancy?

Steve: Once, I asked her for a water while she was pissed at me, and she brought me a glass full of ice and said "wait."

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You can’t confess to someone, get rejected and then expect things to be normal afterwards. Whether you like it or not. From the rejector’s perspective, its honestly kind of uncomfortable to be friends with someone who previously liked you because there’s a pretty high chance there could be residue feelings, even afterwards. It’s just….when one person’s attracted and the other isn’t it makes a friendship different and awkward. And it’s not either person’s fault but it’s just something u can’t avoid.

Not to say u can’t be friends with them ever again, backing off for a while at the very least is natural. It’s all about timing. Just remember…for anyone who’s thinking about confessing to someone that’s brave and I respect u but know whether u have a good reason to confess, good enough to risk ur friendship. Know that depending on the people and situation, there’s a high chance ur friendship will change afterwards. It's up to u, but be smart.

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Some people have said really kind things about my body and it means a lot. But when people think I have no reason to ever feel self-conscious about my body just because I’m petite and thin, hate to break it to you...you’re wrong. I wish I wasn’t self-conscious, trust me. But I am. I’m ashamed from time to time that I don’t have curves and worry that it makes me look less womanly or that guys won’t want to date me because of my body. The articles and comments online about how men think curves are sexier, how “healthy skinny” is preferred over boniness or fragility, well that hurts me. I’m sure that hurts just as much as a curvier girl hearing that “I don’t like fat girls.”

There was a time in my life where I was fine with being flat-chested...that is until 10th grade when I overheard boys my age talking about how girls “need all 3″ to be considered attractive (face, chest, bottom) and criticized any girl who lacked even one of those aspects. And it never really hit me until then that it’s people like that who break the confidence of so many girls. And just for the hell of it, boys too, but that’s a whole ‘nother topic. My point is...it’s okay to have a type but stop being so damn picky! Confidence and personality is what matters anyway. 

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Cole photographed by Luke Fontana.

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The next time you are feeling anxious or powerless, do this:

Set a timer for 2 minutes

Stand up straight and tall and put your hands on your hips

Lift your chin slightly and smile

Smile even if it feels weird or forced

Maybe raise your hands to the sky in a victory “V”

Take a few deep breaths, in and out through the nose

You will feel silly but when the two minutes are up, you will feel better. Standing in this pose significantly lowers cortisol (stress hormone) and increases testosterone.