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apparently this is a blog for telling people where nemisae is so they can avoid ask link goes to my actual blog

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Hi. I'm in contact with Nemisae post callout. So far in my interactions with her, she has been socially withdrawn and overall very quiet unless openly asked to interact. I'll send an ask in here if that changes, but overall it seems she's not only calmed down, but may have gone through personal trauma. Consent and permission has been a key role in a lot of our interactions, so it's a step in the right direction.

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I hate to be this person, cause for a long time she was my friend. I only found your blog today when someone mentioned to me she had a past of harassment and stalking. I noticed that there was lack of confirmation that Sabine Arkright@Gilgamesh was her character. I can confirm 100% that it is her also Iraeala Jiji@Adamantoise and Mjara Djt-nong@Siren.

Thanks for letting me know, Anon. I'll add this to the record.

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Update on Nemisae

I received a report that Nemisae is now on Siren, and is still up to her usual stunts.

I don't recall if she previously purposely triggered a target before, but she certainly did this time. The reporter told me that she got involved in a RP relationship with one friend, wanted to date them, and that didn't happen so she moved on to another target - even moving from Aether to join the target's FC.

She's still showing up to her victims' in-game locations. She's still being passive-aggressive and outright aggressive to folks that are connected to her victims and are potential competition. She has pushed someone to nearly end their life.

She also has a new character: Iraeala Mez'Barris, https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/35184639/ (I'll add her to the list)

So... Nemisae Durdael is still up to her usual antics. Please be careful.

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Nemisae Update

She has been spotted hanging around on Siren.

Current alt list:

Therounne Jeulerand - Male Duskwight - Lodestone Link: https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/33757177/

Sabine Arkwright - Female Hyur - Lodestone Link: https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/30599609/ (Needs Confirmation)

Vianne Evrardoux - Female Duskwight - Lodestone Link: https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/31833841/ (Needs Confirmation)

If anybody can confirm Sabine & Vianne for me, please contact me on Twitter @melscreeches or @GarleanNonsense

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Sabine confirmed by a friend & by Nemisae's twitter. Stay safe, folks.

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Hi, have there been like... any updates on the Nemisae front? I notice it's been relatively quiet of late

Just put up an update today.

Apparently I can’t see/reply to messages from my actual main account, so if folks are able to send asks to @garlean-nonsense​ and I can just... copy them here or something since I have access to this blog over there, but not the asks. O_o

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Nemisae Update

She has been spotted hanging around on Siren.

Current alt list:

Therounne Jeulerand - Male Duskwight - Lodestone Link: https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/33757177/

Sabine Arkwright - Female Hyur - Lodestone Link: https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/30599609/ (Needs Confirmation)

Vianne Evrardoux - Female Duskwight - Lodestone Link: https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/31833841/ (Needs Confirmation)

Iraeala Mez'Barris, https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/35184639

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Lodestone Links

https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/33757177/ - Alt, Therounne Jeulerand

https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/18484571/ Nemisae Durdael on Adamantoise

https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/30104974/ - Placeholder alt on Mateus, not sure if her or not.

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(TWs for mentions of self-harm, suicide, manipulation) I was warning a friend about Nemisae Durdael and saw your masterpost of her bullshit. I don't have any evidence of what I went through because all of our interactions were either in-game and not documented, or on an old discord account I lost access to forever ago, sadly. My experience with Nemisae was roughly in March of 2019, and is as follows: I play a male elezen OC, and she became VERY quickly (1/4, since I can't submit anon)

attached. I never showed any romantic inclination toward her, but within a few days of knowing her, she was telling me how attracted she was to me (this is all OOC, btw, we never once even RPed...), how she would masturbate thinking of me, etc. I very quickly grew uncomfortable and tried to distance myself from her quietly, but she would just show up everywhere. My FC house (which is essentially my personal), any place I was hanging out in-game, etc. Within about a week or two (time is hard, but it wasn’t very long), I told her I needed a break. She started telling me how everyone she ever cared about would leave her, etc. etc. (and had previously mentioned that, but included ‘but I know you never would’ etc.), and very much tried to guilt-trip me into sticking around. This was complete with telling me if I left her, she would self-harm or possibly suicide, etc. That was the point where I blocked her. She then immediately attached herself to one of my close in-game friends who I then had to warn about her. (Thankfully they listened to me over her, but the fact that she immediately tried to attach to a close friend of mine she’d never spoken to and only knew of through me was infuriating.)

I apologize for not posting this earlier, I actually just saw it.

Holy shit, I am so sorry you had to deal with ALL OF THAT. Thank you for submitting and I sincerely hope y’all are completely free of her.

D:

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Just a thing I noticed that Nemisae's FC house is still being held by an alt of hers, idk if she ever plans to go back to Mateus but just so people know.

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I believe that being outed on where she was has made Nemisae flee the Crystal Data Center completely. Same anon that reported her being on Zalera btw She has now moved over to Adamantoise on the Aether Data Center, she has joined the Farron's Legion FC. I don't know how many of your followers are on the Aether Data Center but this has been the Nemi update for the new week! Stay safe everyone

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(1/2) Earlier anon who messaged about her being on Mateus, but it just occurred to me that when myself and my friend met her a day ago, she mentioned that she's on Zalera but has plans to move back to Mateus soon (and is, like i said, hanging out on Mateus, that's where we met her). Thank you so much for posting everything about her and what she's done over the years because my friend and i would probably have stayed longer until worse damage had been done (and the red flags were already

she was inappropriately forward with him, and i met her while she was following him around. since then she'd message me as soon as i got online, and would show up next to my character in random non-hub locations despite me not telling her were i was. she has been idle or active on Mateus the last two days. normally i could argue this might be benign 'bad at social cues' but after all the testimonies i no longer believe that. she is still at it (5/3/2020) and has not changed.

Ooooof. Thank you for reaching out and letting me know, I wish there was a chance that she’d change but... definitely not. :(

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hey there. i'd prefer to stay anon but i wanted to pop in and say that i just read your callout compilation for n-misae and i've been panicking all morning. she approached my male duskwight yesterday and in the span of knowing her for a couple of hours, she made really Forward advances at him and even spent real money on mogstation items to dress him up despite me not asking or wanting her to. i wanted to believe that i had no reason to be uncomfortable but i don't think that's(1/2)

the case anymore, unfortunately. i've blocked her on all social media and am considering either dumping an oc i really love or quitting the game for a while because this is just, A Lot, and the idea of getting into an fc or public rp event and running into her scares me really badly. i thought it'd be best to post this here to give you guys a heads up that this stuff is still going on. 

Oh geez, hon, I’m sorry.

Don’t give up on the OC that you love. Take a break. Hopefully she leaves you alone, and if you need somebody to play interference ping me for my out-of-Tumblr contact info if you don’t have folks that can help.

You’re not alone, okay?

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Nemisae has also seemingly transferred to Zalera on the Crystal Data Center with an FC named Song of the recluse. FC house is found in Shirogane, Plot 25 in the 5th Ward. To keep everyone updated in case this hasn't been mentioned before as well. I do not know if she is continuing her ways (She likely is because she hasn't changed) but a warning for everyone on Zalera, she is THERE now.

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I was actually browsing poses on the xivmodarchives and discovered that Nemisae has an account on there as Otaku Bri (I believe this is her, since that is the name used in one of the other posts), she posted two poses on there (Lean Hug and Hug from Behing) so as a heads up for anyone who might want to know such a thing just in case.

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Nemisae is also running an Ishgardian themed FC on Mateus in Ward 19. I believe it was plot 27. My alt runs an FC that used to be neighbors with her until we moved to Shirogane and we were plot 28. I only briefly interacted with her, whenever we would cross paths at the marketboard, so it was a shock to see your post about all of the different accounts about her.

Yeah, she’s been at it for a few years now. I didn’t realize just how many people she’d impacted until after @mythroscat and I started getting messages and hearing from people outside Tumblr.

It’s uh.

It’s wild.

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The discord shots are from Sunday (3/15/20). I was given permission to post them by the person who took them and is greened out. This was after her ‘apology’ was made public by someone other than herself and people were calling it a guilt trip fishing expedition. That is exactly what it is. You can find that Here ( ‘Apology’ ). 

As is evident by the wedding invitation today (3/17/20), she has not stopped RPing, or to focus on herself. In fact now she’s got a new target lined up. Whether or not they are unaware is unclear and if you know them I would suggest giving them the threads about her to at least make an informed decision if they wish to put themselves in this position. The main thread with numerous testimonies can be found here ( Documented Stories ).  There are numerous other stories that have come in through anonymous or through discord messages as well to myself, to @garlean-nonsense and @novasiri outlining others who have been hurt by her. 

She needs to step away and actually work on herself, with professionals who can help her otherwise she is going to keep going and hurting people with no care. No one else should have to feel run off a character by her forcing attentions on them or be made uncomfortable by her forcing NSFW on them. Or so unsafe they have to lock down houses or change gaming time to avoid being targeted by her.

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My experience with Nemisae hasn't been so bad, but a friend of mine had a hell of a time with being stalked/guilted and having inappropriate affection lavished on his character after he asked her to stop. I generally ignore her, or at most wave, and lately she has left me alone aside from running over and hugging or /dote -ing. There were already red flags from the ONE RP I had with her, though... I witnessed her pushing boundaries that were CLEARLY laid by the other party involved.