flesh cloud

[creekfiend]

we are broadly so fucking bad at being good friends to people who Cannot Leave

there are people who Cannot Leave. hopefully it's not the case for their whole lives but it is the case for them RIGHT NOW. and even trauma and abuse aware communities are shitassfuck bad at knowing how to be a supportive friend to these people and I find it soooo fucking frustrating. it's condescension and scolding and unrealistic standards and victim blaming and minimizing all the way fucking down .

[lailah-tov]

It's so important to educate yourself about why people stay in bad situations and how to help someone who can't leave or goes back. Any sentence starting with "You should just" is bad, but "You should just leave" is one of the worst.

[creekfiend]

thank you for those links!

[batmanego]

i do desperately need everyone on this website especially people who arent american but want to rag on america to familiarize themselves with the basic romanized spelling conventions of native american languages because every day i come on here and i see people making fun of massachusetts or connecticut or mississippi or passamaquoddy or mashpee or nipissing and its like PLEASE. PLEASE THEY ARENT ENGLISH WORDS. PLEAAAAASEEEEEUUUHHH. USE YOUR MINDS TO IDENTIFY WHEN A WORD LOOKS LIKE IT MAY NOT BE ENGLISH. I DONT CARE IF YOU MAKE FUN OF AMERICA JUST PLEASE STOP BEING RACIST WHILE YOU DO IT

[adhdasfuck]

Map I found showing which states got their names from where. Over half of the states come from Indigenous languages.

[gusherofwhims]

Quality sucks but here y'all go I worked hard on it :>

[gusherofwhims]

Garfield

the field, the gar

[gusherofwhims]

Mspaint painting

top surgery scars cause why not

[gusherofwhims]

Ronance as Delena from vampire diaries

[science-hoes]

do not bother her

[gusherofwhims]

TW: BLOOD

Robin vampire au

[gusherofwhims]

R : "What is it about you that brings out their inner neanderthal?"

[gusherofwhims]

RONANCE SHITPOST

[pomegranateplumes]

I am Manousos Oviedo. I am Carol Sturka. We are not one of them. We will save the world.

[gusherofwhims]

Ronance finale comic

And then they KISS

[chansgender]

i mean kudos to the duffer brothers, i haven’t been queerbaited like that since destiel

[whereiswaldo]

Wow Netflix love when you cancel all my fucking queer shows and can’t even give me decent rep in the one that’s left

[archaicfauna]

I know Maya intentionally made Robin’s epilogue interactions with Nancy a little bit flirty but I just can’t prove it.

[lukotacon]

WHERES JAMIES AWARD!

[coffeeflavored-tears]

and not even joking this is why we need more queer people, more women, more people of color, more diverse fucking people writing in hollywood. cuz the fact of the matter is two cishet white men queerbaited us, killed off the abused women, killed the only brown girl in the show, ended the only wlw relationship on the show off screen, and didn't give the black boy a character arc outside of his white girlfriend. and they got away with it, they were able to do that, and get a successful fucking show out of it because they baited us. they told us it would be satisfying. they told us the show was for outcasts. what fucking outcasts are they representing with this?