Looking for an informative BDSM/kink post.
It was about how as a sub, you didnât want being hit/spanked/etc to be punishment, because that made you feel bad about yourself, but you still wanted to be hit.
There were several reblogs of people chiming in with their own shared experiences on this and how to talk to partners/doms.
Anyone?! @camdamage @femme-cutieÂ










