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Do you ever just stop and reflect on how you got to where you are? Are you happy with the decisions you made? Or the place you're at now? I've spent alot of my time trying to please others and therefore not making decisions that made me happy. Seeing my loved ones happy made me happy, but I was always so restless, unsettled and dissatisfied. I was never happy with where I was in life. I compared myself to others and their situations, without realising that they have their own struggles I knew nothing about. I would assume -wrongly- that they had it all figured out and thats why their life looked so awesome. Also not realising that people don't advertise the bad stuff. My openness to others became draining, broadcasting and projecting in the wrong ways and wondering why I wasnt getting where I wanted to be. So I stopped. I stopped broadcasting, telling people my plans, goals, aspirations, and also have worked on not being so negative about myself. I decided to engineer my own happiness rather than relying on support from others! Goodness it feels good! And thats what bought me here... I want to inspire others to engineer their own happiness to get where they want to go in life, whether its career, relationships, friendships, or a better sense of self 💖