Healthy Relationship Suggestions

Healthy suggestions for relationships with friends, lovers, family, and yourself! NOTE: I am not a mental health professional nor a relationship counselor. These are opinions reflective of my personal experiences. (Ask box and submissions open!)

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Do a premarital counseling session before you get married! It's always a great idea to have a third party help you check in and talk about your future even if you've talked extensively together.

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It’s been an eternity since I updated here since I fell off tumblr, but a happy life update is that my partner and I are engaged!! 🎉💖🥰

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How’s living w your partner going! You don’t have to answer dw this ask is just here in case you wanted to gush

It’s been a long while since I posted on here, but fret not interested follower(s)! I am doing very well with my partner :)

We have been living together for a little over 7 months now, which is super exciting!! It’s been a dream getting to do life together and work towards our futures. In this time we’ve also been able to advance in our careers, get raises and promotions, and have a good time.

He’s really sweet and takes great care of me! He washes the dishes every morning and prepares three water bottles for me so I stay hydrated LOL. I always say, “Thanku for watering meee!”

We also were able to buy a car together, which is so useful! We don’t drive that much, but it makes it easy to see our parents if we need to or go to movies/nice grocery stores. We actually live above a grocery store which is super convenient, haha.

He’s gotten into home brewing (alcohol) and I have a mini-greenhouse and am successfully growing small plants!! (Avocado plant, mint, various herbs, etc).

Hopefully when we renew our lease we’ll even look into adopting a pet! If that doesn’t pan out, we’ll wait until after we are married/possibly buy a house (you know, if society doesn’t collapse in the next few years…)

I hope you all have been well, and if not, I wish you better and happy days ahead!

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Cozy up with a loved one when it’s cold ❄️🤍💙

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The Art of Kiki’s Delivery Service (2006 art book)

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last dance

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give people the benefit of the doubt--times are hard and isolating. Your friends still like you, everyone’s just tired. Take care, lovely. 

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Plan an exciting at-home date! Get dressed up, get some fancy food, and play your favorite music. 

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Kinosaki, Japan | Nishimuraya Kinosaki Onsen

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I’m moving in with my partner!

Sorry that this blog has been largely inactive--I’ve been pretty busy with work and with prepping to move in with my partner. 

I hope you all have been kind to yourselves and understanding of others during this time. Wishing you all well on your own journeys, whether you’re doing something exciting or doing your best existing. 

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To those who wants to add a little extra positivity to their dash in these trying times - here’s a list of my favorite active positivity blogs! (29/03/2020)

Right now there’s a lot of negativity and scary content almost everywhere on social media, and I can’t be the only one who likes a break. That’s why I’ve collected a list of my favorite positivity focused accounts. Now you can easily add some positive vibes to your dash if you find that it’s lacking those! I’ve focused on blogs which are currently active and which all create original content frequently - and while the order is random, I’ve bolded my favorites for those of you who don’t have the time or the energy to scroll through an entire list. Enjoy!

General positivity:

https://positiveautistic.tumblr.com/ - @positiveautistic

https://self-love-dude.tumblr.com/ - @self-love-dude

https://anniespositivity.tumblr.com/ - @anniespositivity

https://kindnotestoself.tumblr.com/ - @kindnotestoself

https://warm-positivity.tumblr.com/ - @warm-positivity

https://thoradvice.tumblr.com/ - @thoradvice

https://survivor-positivity.tumblr.com/ - @survivor-positivity

https://positivepatton.tumblr.com/ - @positivepatton

https://sunflorally.tumblr.com/ - @sunflorally

https://slightlyaggressiveaffirmations.tumblr.com/ - @slightlyaggressiveaffirmations

https://www.tumblr.com/dashboard/blog/music4gem - @music4gem

https://www.tumblr.com/dashboard/blog/goodthingsarewaiting - @goodthingsarewaiting

https://onlinecounsellingcollege.tumblr.com/ - @onlinecounsellingcollege

https://flowerais.tumblr.com/ - @flowerais

https://luneloving.tumblr.com/ - @luneloving

https://traumasurvivors.tumblr.com/ - @traumasurvivors

https://healing-is-for-everyone.tumblr.com/ - @healing-is-for-everyone

https://dudepositivity.tumblr.com/ - @dudepositivity

https://tiniest-validations.tumblr.com/ - @tiniest-validations

https://dimpledthings.tumblr.com/ - @dimpledthings

https://phoebe-does.tumblr.com/ - @phoebe-does

https://awake-society.tumblr.com/ - @awake-society

https://reminder-reigen.tumblr.com/ - @reminder-reigen

https://thisismehealing.tumblr.com/ - @thisismehealing

https://selfcarevibes.tumblr.com/ - @selfcarevibes

https://caringforourselves.tumblr.com/ - @caringforourselves

https://joli–coeur.tumblr.com/ - @joli–coeur

https://positiveisabelle.tumblr.com/ - @positiveisabelle

Art:

https://thelatestkate.tumblr.com/ - @thelatestkate

https://thesadghostclub.tumblr.com/ - @thesadghostclub

https://chibird.com/ - @chibird

https://harmony-is-happiness.tumblr.com/ - @harmony-is-happiness

https://haleyincarnate.tumblr.com/ - @haleyincarnate

https://inkflowergarden.tumblr.com/ - @inkflowergarden

https://sketchesinstillness.tumblr.com/ - @sketchesinstillness

https://wheresmybubble.tumblr.com/ - @wheresmybubble

https://energysavingselfcare.tumblr.com/ - @energysavingselfcare

https://inkipri.tumblr.com/ - @inkipri

https://mspaintbee.tumblr.com/ - @mspaintbee

https://proxytivity.tumblr.com/ - @proxytivity

https://hoppip.tumblr.com/ - @hoppip

Suggestions:

https://wholeheartedsuggestions.tumblr.com/ - @wholeheartedsuggestions

https://softlysimplesuggestions.tumblr.com/ - @softlysimplesuggestions

https://serotoninsuggestion.tumblr.com/ - @serotoninsuggestion

https://realsuggestions.tumblr.com/ - @realsuggestions

https://lovelysuggestions.tumblr.com/ - @lovelysuggestions

https://beamingsuggestion.tumblr.com/ - @beamingsuggestion

https://desultory-suggestions.tumblr.com/ - @desultory-suggestions

https://softheartedsuggestion.tumblr.com/ - @softheartedsuggestion

https://healthyrelationshipsuggestions.tumblr.com/ - @healthyrelationshipsuggestions

https://warm-suggestions.tumblr.com/ - @warm-suggestions

https://lightheartedsuggestion.tumblr.com/ - @lightheartedsuggestion

https://happydayssuggestions.tumblr.com/ - @happydayssuggestions

https://sunlitsuggestions.tumblr.com/ - @sunlitsuggestions

Edits:

https://tinybugnotes.tumblr.com/ - @tinybugnotes

https://sheisrecovering.com/ - @sheisrecovering

https://gentleaffirmations.tumblr.com/ - @gentleaffirmations

https://bearpositivity.tumblr.com/ - @bearpositivity

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You don’t need to be in person for the holidays. Make something on video chat together! Try making cornbread together.

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Wear a mask, social distance, and stay home. Protect yourself and your loved ones.

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Let your partner help you

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More starry flowers and some mushroom!

Day 7 to 12 here!

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