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can we all just admit that we don’t actually know one direction and they could be really great perfect angels or they could be these miserable jerks or they could be anywhere in between but either way it doesn’t matter because WE DON’T KNOW THEM

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How do you feel about Harry?

Okay I am going to publish this ask as a post because so many people seem to agree. Still I want to say that I am not done thinking about this. This is part of my thought-process and nothing else.

They get along fine when they're on camera - but Harry is always going off on his own to golf or is off with Lou or that time he went to the Coldplay concert. So I'm not saying they're not friends anymore but while the other boys seem to hang out sometimes outside of work (even Zayn hung out with Niall/Beiber and said him and Perrie watch xfactor at Louis' house sometimes) Harry never really does except for when he stopped at Liam's b-day w/Nick and then left to go see Rita.

oooooh

yeah i aree x

Or for going out with his 'girlfriend'. I don't hang out with my friends ALL the time, why are the boys expected to do everything together? If you look back at boy bands, that's just now how they work. Finally, I went to a signing, and I was hot and gross, we were almost last, and by the time we got to the boys, none of them looked up, or even wrote legit autographs (just initials) except Harry. He called me beautiful and asked if I alright. So don't judge the 'media' Harry from real Harry (2/2)

like i said i dont dislike him because of his lack of interest in things concerning the band.

I've met harry outside a studio, and he gave me his gloves to wear because i was cold?

i never said he was a rude or horrible person, so again your point, to me, is a bit leave it.

:)

You can't just judge someone based off their media image. It's not reasonable. And if you're going to then you should also judge Liam for fucking up at the Empire State Building. Or judge Louis for all the times he was a straight up asshole to fans. Or judge Zayn for his abuse of social media. Not Niall though, because he's a cupcake. The point is, the combination of growing older, surrounded by fame, does change. the boys. But why shouldn't Harry be allowed to leave through a front door? (1/2)

Youre saying this to me?

I've said countless times louis pisses me off, and if you knew me you'd know how much of my dislike of 1d is because of all of their behaviour. so please dont assume that im only having a go at harry. I just said i don't hate harry's relationship?

where are you going

i dont dislike harry for not hanging around with the other boys? i dislike him because he gets away with everything because everyone's excuse is 'thats not the real harry.' pardon me i never knew you were all personally acquainted with the real harry.

Besides, anyone can act sweet and lovely, but you don't know what's gone on behind closed doors -

Harry obviously doen't get along with the boys anymore and I used to think it was the others leaving him out and such but maybe it's Harry's fault? Maybe Harry's ditched the others for his "cooler" London friends (which if the rumors are true that Nick/Harry were friends with benefits at some point I doubt Taylor would let that continue and I wonder if Nick will continue to invite Harry around) and to go off by himself and do all this extra PR and separate himself from the others.

i disagree with the first part I think. He still gets along with the boys a lot, you can tell, but i think he's trying to be hipster and indie and different which probably irritates the rest of the boys i don't know he irritates me a lot now.

haha with nick, everyone says grimshaw used harry, i think it's the other way around; afterrall nick grimshaw is the biggest hipster on the planet and knows practically everybody. if it weren't for Nick, whose good friends with caroline, rita ora ect, i doubt harry would be able to be in that circle of friends because really, no one wanted a (once) underage teen bopper from one direction hanging around did they? only now they do because he's got cred.

and i find it unfair on the other boys who work just as hard but are recognised not at all as much.

hmph

>:(

He definitely gave himself that image and I was kind of thinking he grew up since he was only 16 on the show, but this whole situation has kind of proven he hasn't. Especially since if he is with Taylor than apparently he went to the VMAs with the intention of seducing her away from Conor and all the boys knew about it and teased him. And her going straight to Harry after the Kennedy's stayed classy and honored her at the dinner was kind of crass as well. And the wash bag stuff.

whoever you are you have so much sense.

Both Harry and Taylor are alike in soo many ways. like for instance the key 103 radio dj host that he slept with whilst married - no one believed that, they said 'it was the medias portrayal but my friends were at that leg of the radio tour, and they said harry and lucy? the radio host were constantly flirting ect. he is 100% a ladies man, and he knows it, yet his fans and majority of others still love him because he makes out to be innocent. Just like with taylor swift?

I'm kind of with you on Harry. PR stunt or not - saying he would never date a fan and then throwing it in their faces by doing the walk of shame out of Taylor's hotel while he easily could have gone out the back (that hotel has a really good back exit) or could have booked themselves in the same hotel is kind of gross. Not to mention they both have really young fans! And the "best thing I ever done" tweet came across as a cheeky 'maybe i meant Taylor' thing which is crass.

exactly haha. his choice of wording is so obvious it's a little bit cocky? everyone says he's a sweet and innocent little boy but the media portrays him to be the big bad wolf,

he gave himself that image about 2/3 years ago when he whispered "think how much pussy you're going to get" on the x factor! I swear, did no one see those videos when he was on xfactor of him and all the girls?

he is a ladies man even if he's gay the lady's gave him sooo much attention - still do - and he loved/loved it - still does.

>:(

at this stage zayns my favourite because he reminds me of the boys at my old school soooo much it's really funny.

shipmehome

I’m starting to get a little bit more worried everyday.

Look, he’s actually on a red carpet, he’s supposed to talk to paps, to have fun with the lads, to have a laugh but no. He looks sad and angry.

He’s totally emotionless, he isn’t having a good time these days when he’s supposed to be having the time of his life. He’s in NYC! He’s doing something he loves everyday. He just performed at MSG which is the highlight of his carreer!

I miss the Louis Tomlinson from X Factor. It may sounds rude but think about it. He was so carefree, making stupid jokes here and there. Showing off the to cameras. I also miss his genuine smile with the sparkles in his eyes and the crinkles by them.

Now he’s just like ‘idaf of everything’ like me everyday at school

I know I shouldn’t judge him like this just by seeing his outside like you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover but I think I know him well enough to know that something’s wrong his life right now and I have my little idea about it..

Holy shit, this was supposed to be a post of like 3 lines, oops haha

Harry is always the one taking his time to take pictures with fans, even more so than Liam. Even if he's trying to spend time with his family in Holmes Chapel - he never complains about it and talks to them with a smile on his face. He's always trying to make his fans feel good. And not to mention apparently they didn't take a private jet? Idk the update accounts are confusing me. Haylor's not real anyways. But there's no reason to dislike him.

https://twitter.com/therealjesal

he's a paaaap he tweeted it not update accounts+ people at the airport said harrys not there, but he's got the jingle bell ball (uk) tomorrow so he's definitely got to be headed back so...

I said, please dont try make me change my opinion by telling me all the wonderful fantastic fabulous things angel harry styles has done - im being really rude right now i know - but please don't okay xx

It's not Harry's fault people have put him on a pedestal.

I'm not sure if I even believe in that whole thing anymore. It just irritates me that he's probably going to come on twitter today (if at all) and tweet something so harry styles like so everyone will forget the fact he decided to jump on a jet with his girlfriend leaving his other four bandmates to get mobbed

also, avoiding FANS who got him that private jet

>:(

you only hate him now because he's going out with taylor? haha what the hell its a publicity stunt :)

nooooot even.

Love, when him and Caroline were getting it on i was happy? or, i wasnt angry and i still loved one direction then :)

I dislike him now because of the way he's acting and i've realised he, in many ways is so slyly awful.

why do you hate harry?

i don't hate him, it's just he irritates me a lot.

Like, i've given £30 to a homeless person before, and i bet millions of others have - but when Harry styles does it he's treated like an angel?

He's simply a pretty boy and he knows it and i don't care how many interviews gifs tweets anyone sends me, because thats my opinion. also this is coming from someone who used to stay at hotels back in 2011/2010 for hours waiting to see harry and the rest of one direction. :)

opinion on haylor? and are you still a lourry believer or just a shipper? :)

ermmm

i dont know if it's real, it seems real to me,

i mean the boys are superstars now and so is taylor swift

they are going to get papped loads? it doesn't make a relationship less real/fake does that make sense it makes sense in my head okay?! :(

And i dont know about larry it's really confusing because one moment something happens and i think maybe it's real

then another thing happens ect..

I like taylor swift

but i dont like harry styles at all right now

xxxx