Another testimony has come forth, the user has stated they do not wish to remain anonymous.
“Leech here, I want to preface this and say my feelings against Hearty have always been leaning into the negatives. While I did want to attempt to reach out eventually to him to try and mend those burned bridges, I should’ve continued listening to my gut feeling. Knowing what I know now about you is sickening, and while what I’m about to share isn’t remotely as damning as the textbook grooming I’ve seen already, it’s something that I was approached about personally by the victim to get my thoughts on it all, and boy fucking howdy is it a fucking mess. There’s more posts that show his aphobic beliefs on his public blog, but I can’t be assed right now to dig his temper tantrums up right now since I’m as sick as a dog.
CWs for blatant aphobia, sex addiction, and mentions of pedophilia & rape. The conversation is provided in full to provide as much context as possible.
The date this occurred is 16/12/2021.
The posts start off with the victim bringing up the idea of making their character ace. Hearty of course immediately dissents.
And of course, we have Hearty pulling another temper tantrum over anyone calling his muse horny. He’s incorrect about what libido & sexual desire mean in everyday context and understanding and just wants to be semantic rather than own up and admit to it, as is his usual. Aphobia starts up here and just gets worse.
After this public discussion, Hearty brought it up to the victim in private. The aggressive cornering is real classy.
And of course, the aphobia comes in real thick here. I shouldn’t have to be the one to explain to anyone that sexual desire is not a need, let alone the ‘strongest in humanity’. Just say you’re personally horny and move on, don’t fucking delude yourself into thinking everyones’ the same as you.
The victim mentioned this to me as well that Hearty had become incredibly suspicious and standoffish towards them as of late. Considering the paranoid Hearty had and currently exhibits regarding unrelated events, this is unsurprising.
Is it ‘sexual desire’ or ‘sexual attraction’, Hearty? Make up your damn mind. With as much smut you’ve explicitly written of RU alone, admit you’re incorrect and that he has a libido solely for the sake of your own sex addiction.
Hey buddy did you know that if you’re experiencing a sexual desire to alleviate stress... that that’s having a libido? Like full stop? What the absolute fuck are you on about?
This speaks for itself. Not to make a wild claim but I think if you’re jacking off in a public restroom that that qualifies you as ‘not normal’ and ‘someone who needs to talk to a therapist’, actually.
Really don’t like Hearty’s implications here that rapists’ actions are uncontrollable and inherent.
And here is where I frame the following in gold, hang them on my wall and say “you are a sex addict who needs therapy”. I promise you that you’ll feel better. Own up to it and seek help. This is not normal behavior - it’s harmful to you and everyone around you.
Further proof of sex addiction.
And the big kicker; Hearty brushes it all aside to double check if the victim was really going to make their character ace after all of that. The victim is rightfully blindsided by this.
Plus more cornering lines of questioning.
And this is where I give my own thoughts on the matter.
I’ve known hypersexual / sex addicted people who acted like he did, and while they never groomed children, they did ultimately realize their addiction was impeding their lives. To rectify this, they sought out actual help for their problems, and life got tremendously better for them because of it. They’re still horny, but they own up to it and can recognize when things get unhealthy for them, and I’m genuinely so proud of them for bettering themselves.
My hatred of Hearty will not go away if he does seek help, but it would fade a bit if he’d seek genuine help for this blatant issue rather than dig his heels in the dirt and throw a bitchfit. Hearty, if you’re reading this, know I have not blocked you anywhere and you’re 100% free to come to me and ask for references to therapists and psychiatrists who’d be willing to help you out in this regard. I dunno how much help I could be personally since I’m in another country, but I’m willing to act like an adult and offer you professional aid regarding this addiction.”
