Finding my center again

Just call me Rider, 35m. Feel free to say hi! minors fuck off, ya'll should know better. Lifes been weird as all hell, and I find myself back here finding pieces of myself I'd lost and suppressed. Dominance has been a core part of my life for a long time, and after stepping into a basic shallow white-picket-fence-life, I found it wanting. I've missed the structure, depth, vulnerability and safety with a partner wanting to swim in that ocean, in ways vanilla just can't. I realized that I post a little bit from everywhere, from all walks of wherever yall come from. Trans, les, potato, breakers, makers, kinkers and twinkers. whatever. I don't give a damn, most of ya'll write better and filthier than most people can think!

[heathenryrides]

How can I keep a very special connection to someone alive. I am constantly scared of loosing them because they mean so much to me and I fear this causes me to make mistakes in the first place.

Good evening! Thank you for reaching out!

I understand where you're coming from about that fear. It can feel like facing a dragon head on sometimes. >.<

This one's a toughie without knowing a bit more about how you both connect and operate normally together! There's a million and one ways to do so; I've often found it's very unique to each person! Would you mind I ask a bit about you both some and what's been going on that's led to you opening up, here?

[narcissistichedonist]

calling her the sweetest petnames while praising her

"you're such a good girl for me. taking me so perfectly."

"that's it, angel. just like that. you make me feel so good."

"look at you, my pretty girl. so beautiful when you're falling apart for me."

"you're doing so well, sweetheart. i'm so proud of you for taking all of me."

"god, you're perfect. my perfect little doll, made just for me."

"shhh, it's okay, princess. let it all go. you're safe with me."

"that's my sweet, obedient girl. you're so precious to me."

[gentle-sadist2]

i bred you in your sleep, over and over, slow and quiet, just to see how much your body could hold, now you’re waking up dazed and broken, sore little cunt leaking all over the bed, eyes glassy and empty, just how i like you

[narcissistichedonist]

sadistically overstimulating her until her body is twitching uncontrollably

hearing her repeat the same words over and over in between sobs

“i can’t, i can’t, i can’t, i can’t...”

yet her hips keep grinding against my hand, desperate and betraying just how much she craves it

[christclown]

reducing a sub to "mhm" and "nu huh" so she doesn't have the words to argue when you tell her to do depraved things

[dumb-trans-pigslut]

once getting embarrassed starts to make you horny, you really are pretty much cooked. like, shame was supposed to be the emotion that would have saved you, and now it's also making you worse. nothing to do but enjoy the trip down, at that point.

[longmoose03]

There’s something so hot about kissing a girl while you finger her or play with her clit or whatever. You can feel even the slightest changes in her breathing when you hit a good spot, and you start to more possessively kiss her the more she’s distracted. Break the kiss just long enough to look her deep in her eyes and tell her she’s being a good girl for you, then attack her again. Don’t stop until she moans into your mouth while she cums.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Many relationships would be a lot healthier if we romanticized honest, open and direct communication instead of idealizing the idea of a partner who's intuitively in tune with your every need. You don't need someone who can read your mind, you just need someone who's willing to listen when you speak.

[roughribo]

I know it's humiliating to be kept degraded little one, but just because it's humiliating doesn't mean it's not necessary. You clearly need to be my lesser and see me as your superior, you're so submissive and obedient in everything you do. So we're both going to work on it and keep you degraded and subservient until you being unquestionably obedient becomes our new normal as a couple. Doesn't that sound wonderful, little pet?

That's my good inferior girl. Look at that smile! Look who's getting all cozy and comfortable in her place. You're going to stay down on the floor on your hands and knees for the rest of the day today, you've earned it. Down, girl. Now. Good girl, you're doing so well already. Behave for me baby. Keep showing me you deserve subservience. If you do a good job behaving and staying degraded for me, I promise I'll take another right of yours away. My treat.

[roughribo]

While I do enjoy some misogyny kink sprinkled into my relationship, I don't want my partner to submit to me just because I am a man and her a woman. Nobody else gets to treat her like I treat her, that is for me alone. And there's something almost whimsical to that, magical even.

I'll enforce her place, institutionalize her degradation in our relationship, break in her mind and body into her role beneath me, and help her adjust and accept her inferiority to me— internalize it even— and be proud to be my property. Every act of obedience will feel like love. Every act of service will feel like peace. Every act of submission will feel like home. Every act of suffering for me will feel like comfort and reassurance. Every act of pleasing me will feel like pleasure.

Nobody else may dare lay a finger or a word out of place in her direction, I'll see to it that anyone who tries to swiftly regrets it. I am the only one who will ever get to do as I please with her and it's an honor and a privilege that I alone have earned and will enjoy. To me she is my property, to everyone else she is their peer. Everyone else to her is her peer. But me? I am her god.

[lustloveandliars-deactivated202]

You deserve love now. Not once you lose weight. Not once you accomplish that thing. Not once you move. Not once you get on medication. Not once you start therapy. Not once you get that job. Not once you're more like them. Now. You don't have to earn the right to be loved. You deserve it right now, and always have.

[narcissistichedonist]

gently choke her till you make her silly brain go all fuzzy

[cncdollmaker-deactivated2026021]

She’s had a tough week, find her off switch and keep her brainless for the weekend. She’ll thank you in numerous ways

P.S also give her a Bubble bath, a back rub and braid her hair for her

[stillvathek]

If it makes you wet, and if you can't stop, can it really be that embarrassing?

[roughribo]

A relationship dynamic built on years of kink and power exchange. Plenty of late nights, whether laughing and fucking and holding each other. Gradually trying more kinky and kinkier things, dabbling in free use and sadomasochism and degradation until they become the relationship norm. Until one night you both realize one of you is completely subservient and obedient. Property in the realest sense of the word. Deciding together you're going to take that last step. All property, all the time, all theirs to decide what to do with, forever and always, in all ways. One of them stops working to focus on the other while they work from home. Locked in a collar they don't get the key for. Rituals form and the sex gets more depraved but there's also a shift to not only fuck but submit in service too. The dom decides every minute of their schedule, assigns them chores, controls the finances, decides what is even allowed in their wardrobe and how they'll be permitted to look, what they're allowed to eat and how they must exercise. Everything and every part of their body, mind, and soul controlled and decided for. The ultimate trust fall. Pretty soon, neither of them know where one ends and the other begins, intuitively obsessed and attuned to the other's needs. Just property and owner, as they always should have been.

[roughribo]

"Ah ah ah, down girl, stay." when she tries to move her face off of your bulge. Shushing her and sticking your thumb in her mouth when she tries to talk. Belting her nude body against your clothed leg when she shifts too much. She just needs to be still and quiet and be a pleasant face to rub your bulge on.

She works too hard all day, she deserves to come home and not think and to have the expectation to just be less and have that be more than enough. Controlling and overpowering her until the subspace sets in and then controlling and overpowering her even more.

No decisions, no responsibilities, no thoughts. Just having decisions made for her, forced relaxation, and enjoying the sensations you allow her to feel.

[narcissistichedonist]

edging you in front of the mirror in order to show you how much of a filthy whore you are

"who's that needy girl ?"

"aww, look, her greedy cunt is clenching so hard."

"gosh, she's making such a mess isn't she ?"

"she looks so desperate doesn't she ?"