shira-rosen:
“Well you don’t have to come every week,” Shira laughed. She nudged Cece with her shoulder reassuringly. “And stop, don’t put yourself down like that,” she frowned, distressed at her friend’s tone. “It’s just a Friday night meal. You know how Christians have their day of rest on Sundays? Jewish people’s Sabbath starts Friday night and goes into Saturday. A Shabbat meal is just..traditional. A nice way to end the week.” Her parents had been surprised that she wasn’t coming over for dinner, but she had to think they were probably a little pleased that she was actively participating in her own way.
“Look there’s no pressure, it’s just dinner, hun. It’ll be my roommates and whoever else I can scrounge up,” she smiled. “Also kind of traditional,” she laughed ruefully. “But really, it’s not anything intimidating. But I won’t be hurt if you don’t want to come for dinner.” Well maybe a little hurt, but she also didn’t want Cece feeling uncomfortable.
It seemed like too much work, putting together a big meal for a bunch of people every single week. Once a month seemed better, but she wasn’t about to argue. And she could understand that yes, Christians had their Sundays, but it’s not like they made it a thing, not at her house, when her mom was alive. Her mom would cook and they’d have a big family lunch, but it wasn’t a weekly thing, and it was always just... family.
“Okay-- no, I want to go, I promise I do,” she laughed a little, shaking her head. “Just not sure if I’m the best guest. I just don’t-- like-- I don’t know anything,” that sounded funnier than she intended, and she had to laugh again. “I mean about the culture. Can I learn this kind of stuff from google? I don’t want to be disrespectful.”














