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MOVED TO @disordered-para-confessions !!!

Hello and welcome to a paraphilic disorder confessions blog.

This is for people with paraphilic disorders that feel like their experiences aren't valid, feel weird due to Radqueers watering the term down, wish to learn more about paraphilic disorders, want to talk about your own journey with a paraphilic disorder.

This blog is strictly anti contact and pro recovery. As well as being a safe place for people to feel not so alone.

The owner of this blog (me) also has a paraphilic disorder and I wish to create a space in which you don't feel demonized due to a disorder.

Any and all hate will be either deleted or if I find it funny enough posted with debunking facts!

If you are apart of, in or support these groups do not interact with this blog

- Endos

- Willos

- Non traumagenics

- Radqueers

- XenoSatanist

- Believe that Minors, Animals, Dead people or anything if the sort can consent, Believe all paraphilic disorders are evil

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I think a lot of people who have paraphiles end up in radqueer spaces, not because they're incredibly bad people and support all those posts there; but more so because it's one of the only communities that allows them in with little judgement.

Which, don't get me wrong, there will always be a healthy amount of stigma around disorders like that simply because if that fear were to go away people would not be as guarded of their children.

I'm just making this post because I feel bad for a lot of individuals with paraphiles who seem to have literally no pro-recovery space. Radqueers make their symptoms worse by trying to frame a disorder as something that's only kink based, which is quite literally disregarding what the disorder is all about. Tbf i cant blame a lot of these people who end up in exclusively radqueer spaces because if it's not toxic enthusiasm then it's "You're never going to get better, you should kys" from many other uneducated communities. Which is WRONGGG.

Everyone can become a better version of themselves regardless of disorder, everyone deserves a safe place that is on the side of their own recovery.

No but seriously guys, let me know if there's any pro recovery blogs specifically for people with paraphiles who want to recover. (Im curious)

[introvertedescapist]

For you curiosity, Washington–

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I am on a new blog now

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[helpful-para-confessions]

I have a question for you do you think dead people can give consent to their partner beore they die also shop on hollister

I'm iffy on the idea, mostly as they can change their mind later on, even with consent Desecrating a corpse is still against the law (consent or not)

I would personally say no as even with consent it's still abuse of a corpse as they are no longer alive

I would personally recommend if someone truly needs to act out their thoughts they could use CNC, and such (as long as they are the correct age to do so). Also its against my belief as I see it as pro contact (even though the person did consent)

There's a lot of legal stuff that happens, because in the states even if you consent it's still considered gross abuse of a corpse

If you wish to ask more please check out @disordered-para-confessions on my new blog to talk more

[helpful-para-confessions]

Moving to @disordered-para-confessions because I do not want to risk my actual main account being lost

[helpful-para-confessions]

In terms of a confession

We're in active recovery and try SO fucking hard, and sometimes when we open social media, or someone sends something hateful, we see something that relates to our para disorder's, and we go into this "self blame" mindset, and treat it like we're a horrible person who can never recover

And the worst part is we can't talk to anyone about it, because of stigma surrounding paraphilia's, and we're so scared because in our (super) young years, we used to seek out these things (due to normalization and romanticization in our life from abusers) and then seeing that content (against our will) is like this huge "oh my god we relapsed on our recovery we deserve to die" and imagine trying to explain that to a professional or even just someone you know

- 🌌⭐

Recovery isn't always linear, and what I mean by that is there's going to be times when you feel like you regress in your recovery and that's perfectly acceptable. As long as you're able to get back from that regression and go even further here recovery then that's all that really matters.

And don't let this stigma around paraphilic disorders being all evil and all that get you down in the rocks. Unfortunately Radqueers, and similar have watered down or even downright villainized certain paraphilic disorders because they think it's funny games or it's a sexuality that people can control

Remember if you have a paraphilia disorder you cannot control it, it most likely stemmed from trauma and your brain is using that as a way of coping because you don't know any other way

I wish you nothing but peace and good fortune as you continue your journey in recovery

[helpful-para-confessions]

In regards to this anon

Anon asked for user name to be cut out, to the user who sent this if you have anything else to share you may DM me and I will screenshot from there <3

Yes exactly, I'm also anti-contact while being pro recovery because in my thought process as somebody who isn't native to the English language if somebody is against something most likely their for it in a better way

Yk?

[helpful-para-confessions]

"that existence should be ceased" crazy how people are so willing to tell others to die if they have a slightly different opinion even if they both go through the same thing 😬😬 i hope im never that stupid to attack one of my own in recovery

It's like oh no, I have disorder which makes me have thoughts and feelings which I don't wish to have and wish to get help for

Sorry that my trauma response wasn't pretty? The fuck?

Also where did I even say that I'm in support of people with paraphilias that are harmful are allowed

I feel like it shows a lack of common sense this person because common sense says, that if somebody is in recovery and getting help most likely they are not harmful

[helpful-para-confessions]

radnormal is against harmful paraphiliac disordered individuals regardless of contact stance. it's literally the first fucking point. your existence is inherently anti-radnormal, that existence should be ceased

You do realize I said this blog is for paraphilic disorders who are in recovery correct? I used the anti contact because unfortunately there really isn't a term that has been coined for people with paraphilic disorders.

I also know the creator of radnormal on discord

Here's it's response to this ask

As well as

Anon do you not understand the concept of this blog?

[helpful-para-confessions]

i hope in the future more people understand these urges aren't voluntary.

it's still a daunting idea for me to sit down in front of a professional and open to them about my thoughts and urges because of the lingering feeling that they'll think i'm a monster for them..

I totally understand that fear, and honestly the rest of recovery is also very valid and very real

But I promise, it does get better and you will find a sense of self

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I think what you're doing is cool!! :3 and your layout is very pretty

Thank you, I hope to give peace to many people with this blog

And low-key the theme was due to me wanting it to feel like everyone is in a field, frolicking because there is no more worries about people thinking they are weird or disgusting or monsters