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A Court Of Silver Flames beginning:
Cassian when the girls gang up on him:
Gwyn wishing for a friend in her life
The mother:
Helion is having the time of his life đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
đšđšđšACOSF SPOILERS đšđšđš
Iâm still not good at Tumblr text posts lol
Derry Girls>>>> Any other show
Undercover mission with Azriel:
Iâve seen a couple iterations of this meme so hereâs my take
Cassian: âI see. I get a little too close and you shove me away again. Back to where itâs safe. Better to marry a viper like Eris than be with me.â
Nesta: âI am not with you, I am fucking you!â
Meanwhile outside the bedroom:
INDUSTRY BABY
LIL NAS X
Telekinetic battle
Itâs clear who is winning
FUCK I love him
this person married a branch of bananas
This is actually dangerous and neglectful bad parenting.Â
Babies cannot stop eating, so the risk of overeating and vomiting is much higher for them, even when closely monitored (when I was a baby even if my mom fed me for 10 minutes it was too much and I would vomit as a result). This baby will keep eating until they vomit, and she is on her back with a bottle in her mouth, so she canât even vomit properly and will run a much higher risk of asphyxiating.Â
If my spouse did this I would seriously reconsider the marriage. And I wouldnât leave them alone with the baby or any babies after them (actually I wouldnât have any more children with them unless it was adopting an older child that did not need help eating)Â until they were old enough to communicate their needs and had the ability to eat unassisted (so basically elementary school).Â
Donât do this. You are putting your child at risk.Â
-FemaleWarriorÂ
âMy husband is a horrible neglectful father putting our babyâs life at risk because he canât be bothered to feed them for once, hahaha!â
Things like this are genuinely terrifying
damn straight ppl are scaryÂ
Bottle feeding infants have no choice but to swallow to protect their airways. Bottles drip, sucking is a reflex. And they have no choice but to swallow the formula milk, and then thereâs more.
A newborn or young infant can be forced to drink far more than their tiny stomach can hold. Cue the puking.
Never prop bottles. Pay attention to babyâs cues. Look up paced bottle feeding. Respect natural feeding rhythms.
Itâs why medical professionals now recommend paced feeding (to prevent over feeding, vomiting and in the case of combination feeding - breast refusal).
http://www.peelregion.ca/parenting/feeding-baby/paced.asp
Paced bottle feeding - parenting - Region of Peel
I should note, generally breastfed babies have more control. They have to be latched and suckling to trigger the milk ejection reflex. In cases of oversupply ( yes this is a thing, I had it) babies will release the breast spluttering and choking and often clamp down to stop the flow (as painful as it sounds).
Related risk: Leaving a bottle unattended in a babyâs mouth for long enough can give the infant âbottle mouthâ if they have even the beginnings of cut teeth. Do Not Do This.
As a longtime parenting educator, can confirm, do not ever.Â
Also, a lot of the health benefits of breastfeeding arenât actually about the milkâtheyâre about the positive physical and emotional effects of skin-to-skin contact. Babies need physical touch, and lots of it, for their autonomic nervous system to release the hormones that allow them to grow and thrive.
Being held by another human and soothed by the rhythm of their breath, heartbeat, and movement is essential to creating future emotional stability and mental health. It isnât important to be The Mother or even the one whoâs lactating to provide that kind of closenessâyou just have to put in the work and hold the damn baby.
Boys almost never get taught the basics of childcare the way girls do, and we think itâs adorable when men donât know what theyâre doing with their infant children. But itâs harmful to the babies, robs those men of positive relationships with their kids, and is preventable with education.
(Iâm AFAB and was never taught anything about babies either.)
I mean, most people arenât. We have a general cultural illiteracy about early childhood development. Itâs incredibly rare to find, for example, jurisdictions where public schools offer courses in childcare the same way they might offer Spanish or Art. Youâre just supposed to âpick it upâ (usually by being a young woman in a family with babies and getting tasked with childcare, which is happening less and less these days).
(And when schools say theyâre teaching âwhat itâs like to be a parentâ theyâre usually not teaching useful parenting skills, just trying to scare kids into not having sex.)
But for what routes there are, most boys are totally excludedâmany girls begin babysitting strangersâ children to earn an extra income as young as ten, a practice which boys have typically been considered too dangerous to participate in. When public schools do teach classes about childcare, theyâre generally aimed at teen moms, not all students in general. A lot of parent education and bonding programs are specifically aimed at âmomsâ and act like cats with boots on when dads show up.Â
This is something I care about a lot because I care about preventing child abuse, and the no 1 way to do that is to educate parents about basic child care, like âItâs not good to just prop a baby up with a bottle all the timeâ or âYes they WILL scream for no fucking reason for the first three months, learn to live with itâ or â3-to-5-year-olds donât lie to your face because theyâre bad kids, theyâre just learning how reality worksâ.Â
These are the kind of things a lot of parents simply donât know, because nobody tells them and trying to look for good parenting advice on your own today is like walking with pizza into a room thatâs on fire. But men, especially, are put at a disadvantage when it comes to learning them.
If you want to have kids, please make sure you and your partner(s) learn about having kids first, so youâre not trying to wade through figuring out what is bad advice and misinformation after your child is already here and benefitting (or not) from you knowing those things.
Iâm like 99% sure they just set this up for a picture to be funny and yâall need to calm the fuuuuck down.