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Quitting is not the Best Option!

I know all too personal how difficult it can be…the pain from an unhappy marriage can seem unbearable and all you want is relief. And, when it reaches levels that seem impossible to bear and sometimes the quickest way out is often regarded as the best route.  

BUT, COULD IT BE THAT YOU’VE BEEN FOOLED?

Maybe what appears as the best answer is only considered the best because the truth eludes you?

Catherine Mire​​e, Therapist

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The impact from investing in your marriage success or failure is far reaching and everlasting.  It not only affects those immediately involved, but has a span that far extends the time and space in which it unfolds.

- Catherine Mire​​e, Therapist

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Comparing Marriage to Entrepreneurship

By Catherine Mire​​e, Therapist

How is it we can put forth such an earnest effort to achieve things in our lives; yet, that same vigor falters when it comes to having the same endurance and passion to preserve what should be revered as our most significant investment?

Think of Entrepreneurship – to step out and start your venture, it requires courage, determination and often long hours invested. Decisions you make could take you to the next level of success or put you on the brink of ruin. 

Failure is “Not” an option; but, you’ve heard, the first two years may be the hardest and cost you the most, however, just keep on top of your game and you’ll likely receive a return on your investment. Can you get a return on your investment?

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“Marriage… what happened to the happiness every after?”

By Catherine Mire​​e, Therapist

We know that it’s not uncommon for marriages to experience a season of turbulence. However, what should be an occasional season, unfortunately today, frequently becomes a “norm”; resulting in so many just “hanging on”, while many others have quickly thrown in the towel.  Some just settle and try to pretend that all is well, projecting an appearance of an ideal couple, yet a long way off from hitting the mark.  

How is it that finding middle ground eludes us? How is it that two who once loved each other and couldn’t stay apart, now can’t find reasons to stay together?  How could we start off so good, yet end up so bad? What happened to the friends who would talk, laugh and make all sorts of plans; who had hopes of growing old together while making lasting memories along the way?

Now, it seems they have nothing good to say to the one they once said, “I do!”

On the other hand, there are those who enjoy each other to the fullest and seem to have a rhythm that works. Have they discovered a secret that’s only meant for a few to find? Albeit given the evidence, one could certainly argue that this must be true. However, “I think not!”

 While I certainly know all too well how challenging marriage can be,  I have discovered that so much more is possible than where so many end up.  I know, “New Life” can be breathed into what may appear as dead!

Given my training, experience and personal commitment, I can emphatically say that change is possible! And now is the time to take steps to explore opportunities that could enhance your life.

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