Some of Kirk's pet dislikes from TOS (that is, the show specifically, not the movie retcons or anything else):
Men who refuse to be goddamn grown-ups and use birth control
Gut emotionality that isn't disciplined by reflection and rationality
Shore leave in particular, and relaxing in general
Going to cafes full of gorgeous hedonistic women by himself
Men being entitled douchebags about women, particularly in a kind of sexual vending machine situation
Interruptions to his meals or the prospect of anyone going hungry or starving
Any expectation of being some kind of masculine role model and paternal authority (maternal is fine)
The expectation of being some kind of alpha male sexy Lothario (sexy femme fatale is fine)
Young boys, whether little kids or teenagers (girls are fine)
Most high-ranking older men (powerful older women are fine)
Insecure masculinity games
Mass murder, especially as a means of control or "for the greater good"
An impromptu back massage coming from his pretty yeoman instead of Spock
Any kind of paradise fantasy or lotus-eater situation that removes the need for critical judgment and reflection and ethical responsibility
Threats to his crew and other captains who don't do right by theirs
Spock even jokingly suggesting he (Spock) doesn't respect his (Kirk's) intelligence
Chaos/disruption in general, at least if he didn't cause it
The many colossal assholes who don't take no for an answer (whether from him or others), or situations where refusal isn't a real option
When for some mysterious reason there are sexy women but no sexy men :(
Inadequate information, especially with no ability to use delaying tactics and trickery to get enough information to make a properly informed decision
Information and evidence getting disregarded without a compelling reason
Always having to make the decisions and be in control of everythinggggg, even in what little personal life he has
Anyone with pretenses to divinity